I do not shave(male) my private parts, I have tried this once before and feel it is not to my liking, it feels too unnatural. My preference is neither one nor the other in my prefered partner, I could say I like trimmed not bald or wild, whichever makes my partner feel more comfortable is really the only way i can put it. If the person I was with did not like me having hair I would simply state my reasons for why I do not and if they still felt it was something that could not be passed, then I don't know wither I would shave, or simply walk.