vasectomyBOOM headshot65 said:Where I am from, this is simply not the case. As I said, its all about location, and my location, you would be hard pressed to find somebody in their 2+ marriage and/or havent been married 20+ years. So call me old fashion. I am. And I love it that way. Me and my girlfriend BOTH think this way:SirBryghtside said:That's not marriage, that's relationship. What about a single ceremonial day makes two people more responsible? If you mean they should be in a proper relationship before they have children, then that's partly correct, but that's just an ideal - I have many friends with single parents through one of them dying who have turned out just fine. Honestly, I think the correlation between failed relationships and child upbringing lies more in the fact that if someone is irresponsible enough to have an unwanted child (not to offend anyone, I am aware that a lot of the time unwanted children occur ENTIRELY by accident) then they're not responsible enough to bring one up.having children outside of marriage can cause serious problems
It's a matter of responsibility rather than outright banning.
No sex before marriage. Once married, you stay married except in extreme cases. You raise your children on these same principals, just as we were.
And pretty much the only way to GUAREENTE no unwanted children is just to abstain from sex until you want them.
do what you want people.