ok so i always hear about people saying that video games and movies with a lot of violence cause people to become violent. my question is, do you think that this is true?
that pretty much sums it up...zee666 said:Not unless they're suffering from some sort of mental deficiency thing or are stupid.
/threadcrimsondynamics said:It really depends. If you are sufficiently mature and have developed a set of values, ethics and morals then being exposed to violent games shouldn't be a catalyst for violent behavior.
The same cannot be said about those who are still in the formative stages of development. My oldest son is four years old; my youngest just turned one. My oldest son imitates what I do and what he sees on TV, and the younger one imitates what the older one does. If my oldest son sees someone smacking someone else on TV, he will go and do that to his brother, who will also attempt to do the same.
Once I was frustrated and angry; not controlling myself, I kicked the bathroom door - not kick it down, mind, but punted it out of frustration twice after discovering that it was locked. My oldest son saw me commit that action, and a few minutes later, started repeatedly kicking the bathroom door. That uncharacteristic behavior from my son sent me a powerful message, and was for me evidence that if you are not mature enough to comprehend the subtleties of good and bad, moral and immoral, ethical and unethical, then you are still very susceptible to being molded by external influences. For me, TV and videogames - and movies for that matter - undeniably have this potential to influence both positively or negatively. Violence is simply one of the potential factors of influence.
I actually save my road rage for Mario Kart Wii. "TAKE THAT BLUE SHELL, MASSHOLE! THAT'LL TEACH YOU NOT TO PASS IN THE BREAKDOWN!"xitel said:In my experience, playing violent video games actually relieved my violent feelings. They provide an interactive way of venting your stress.
How do you mean by mature way? I think if a kid no longer blatantly imitates but still plays pretend(exercising imagination is good for the developing brain I've read), they're already on the road on creating their idea of real and pretend.Baby Tea said:I'd agree with some previous posters here who said that it depends on the person. If someone is prone to violence anyways, or has some type of psychosis, or something to that effect, then I could see how violent games would stimulate that behavior. But that is a minority, and certainly not everyone falls in this category.
That being said, I do think that not all kids should be playing all games. Apologies to the 13 year old on this site, but I think very few, if any of you, should be playing certain M rated games. I know I won't let my kids play certain games until I think they can handle it in a mature way, whether that's 13 years old or 17 years old.