Poll: Why are you Single?
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Probably ninja'd, but I'm single because I never asked, never been asked, low self esteem, too weird, and I think I might be a bit picky...
The worst part is that I've realised just now that I have "chick buddies" who I'm very sure had crushes on me when we first met. I was even asked by the most beautiful girls I know, to dance with her, and I didn't catch the cue! Soo... all the reasons above (it's actually a little by coice as well, realtionships seem tricky) plus the fact that I have no idea how to see if someone really likes me....
*sigh* wow, a bit of a downer but it felt pretty good to vent... : )
The worst part is that I've realised just now that I have "chick buddies" who I'm very sure had crushes on me when we first met. I was even asked by the most beautiful girls I know, to dance with her, and I didn't catch the cue! Soo... all the reasons above (it's actually a little by coice as well, realtionships seem tricky) plus the fact that I have no idea how to see if someone really likes me....
*sigh* wow, a bit of a downer but it felt pretty good to vent... : )
I'm single because I'm too nice to girls. I start talking to one, and I'm so nice that she Friend Zones me (yes, that is a verb!). Everyone tells me I need to be a douche bag, but I can't. And all of this sucks even more because I have really low self esteem, and being in a relationship has been the only thing to ever help that. Fuck! It makes me angry/depressed just thinking about it!
EDIT: And the same reason as the post above me. There's a girl that apparently flirted with me for like 8 months and I didn't notice until she told me.
EDIT: And the same reason as the post above me. There's a girl that apparently flirted with me for like 8 months and I didn't notice until she told me.
I would have to spend money on her, it would take time out of my life and we will break up eventually anyway
So unless she's made-by-gods perfect, its seems like a complete waste of time for me.
EDIT: And if you are an unemotionally attached person who only wants sex out of a relationship (i.e like myself)
then you will find that don't really need a relationship to get any. *puts up flame shield*
So unless she's made-by-gods perfect, its seems like a complete waste of time for me.
EDIT: And if you are an unemotionally attached person who only wants sex out of a relationship (i.e like myself)
then you will find that don't really need a relationship to get any. *puts up flame shield*
I'm single because I'm too fat...I've dieted for 3 years and have actually gained 4 lbs...I'm also too nice, I get Friend Zoned and rejected because of it. And, I'm just incradably nervous and shy around girls_I fumble words, sweat, say really dumb/nerdy shit...not to meantion, I like older girls, and not many older girls like a fat, shy, nerdy 16-year-old who does nothing but complement and listen to every word you say !!!.../rant
[sub]Dusty: wow, that's deep man
Smitty: Cheer up! if Ox can get a girl, surely you can!
Ox: yeah! If I ca-HEY!
Jake: The right girl will come along soon...just be patient.[/sub]
[sub]Dusty: wow, that's deep man
Smitty: Cheer up! if Ox can get a girl, surely you can!
Ox: yeah! If I ca-HEY!
Jake: The right girl will come along soon...just be patient.[/sub]
Where's the option for "I'm too awesome and no body could ever meet my standards"?
Not that I'd pick it....
Other than the fact I'm not what you would call a good-looking person, There are a number of reasons why I'm single...
For starters, I'm very quiet, so I feel not many people know the real me... Even my best friends, Also my quietness leads me to be unwilling to go up to people I don't know or even ask people I do know to go out. I picked the low self esteem option, But I feel almost all of them apply. So I'll give a response to each one:
-I really don't want a signifacnt other... I don't see the appeal (of course I've never had one so I wouldn't really know).
-I only asked once, and dispite the fact she said yes, It didn;t go well (I blame the self esteem on that one).
-Like I mentioned before I'm particularly average looking.
-I don't have much money, but I don't see how too poor is an adequete reason. If someone only liked me for the money, then they are not worth going out with.
-I do feel that I am a little different. Although, I feel I'm much more at home here, so I wouldn't consider myself weird here (or amoungst my close friends), But I would say most girls would find me weird.
-You mentioned Picky... And I do feel I am a bit picky. I don't just kiss any girl that I see at a party. I often find myself thinking, "yeah she's hot, but not THAT hot".
And theres another reason that I can't really put into words.... I would like to but I can't... That happens to me a lot... because I don't think with words... again, it's hard to explain...
Not that I'd pick it....
Other than the fact I'm not what you would call a good-looking person, There are a number of reasons why I'm single...
For starters, I'm very quiet, so I feel not many people know the real me... Even my best friends, Also my quietness leads me to be unwilling to go up to people I don't know or even ask people I do know to go out. I picked the low self esteem option, But I feel almost all of them apply. So I'll give a response to each one:
-I really don't want a signifacnt other... I don't see the appeal (of course I've never had one so I wouldn't really know).
-I only asked once, and dispite the fact she said yes, It didn;t go well (I blame the self esteem on that one).
-Like I mentioned before I'm particularly average looking.
-I don't have much money, but I don't see how too poor is an adequete reason. If someone only liked me for the money, then they are not worth going out with.
-I do feel that I am a little different. Although, I feel I'm much more at home here, so I wouldn't consider myself weird here (or amoungst my close friends), But I would say most girls would find me weird.
-You mentioned Picky... And I do feel I am a bit picky. I don't just kiss any girl that I see at a party. I often find myself thinking, "yeah she's hot, but not THAT hot".
And theres another reason that I can't really put into words.... I would like to but I can't... That happens to me a lot... because I don't think with words... again, it's hard to explain...
Bad luck? I've been rejected more times than I care to count, and none of your poll options fit except "other".