Poll: Would you hook up with/date a trans person?

[chuckman1]

Hook up=whatever you make of it more than kissing. Especially where at least one of you is getting off. Could be hand/oral/vaginal/etc stimulation.

So would you hook up and date with a transgender person? The way I feel about it is I would hook up with a mtf whether they were transgender (still had their male genitals) or transexual (female genitals) I think that's examples of those words technically. My idea of "hooking up" would probably not be full on "penetrative" sex that most would imagine in this situation. I sure haven't minded seeing either example in uh.."research"

I also don't really think I'm far enough in my sexual discovery to be ready to date anyone who isn't born/identify as female, but some people outside of this do interest me. I'm not sure why, but I feel like I'd be more likely to date a post op transexual girl. I do beleive the reasons are mainly social, if there wasn't such a stigma against it. Maybe one day I will be ready for that, but for now I'd need a fwb situation first for some self discovery.

So would you hook up with a tg person? How about a ts person? Would you date them?

Sorry trans people this seems like it's really othering you, but it's because society is doing that. I think you should be accepted, but sadly that's not the world we live in. Which other than my still evolving sexuality is the main reason I probably am not ready to date a trans girl but wouldn't mind "hooking up".

Also interested to hear a trans opinion on this subject.

 

[Kopikatsu]

No.

But this is because I feel obligated to have children, being the only living member of my family and all; as well as the desire to bring someone into the world so that they can have a good, fulfilling childhood as opposed to the shit that most people get dealt; which would be impossible with a trans individual. If the MIRACLE OF SCIENCE! eliminated that requirement, then I don't think I would care all that much. It might even be better since I imagine I'd have more in common with a man-turned-woman than a woman-woman.

 

[Sleepy Sol]

I don't really have any qualms with dating someone who's transgender or transsexual. Or hooking up with them.

It would be different than what I'm used to, but I'm not really picky about what gets me off. Part of that might just be being 20 and being way too fucking horny all the time. But yeah, I don't mind the undercarriage parts. I'm more attracted to everything else. None of that stuff is a dealbreaker for me. If I feel like they're an attractive woman, I'm probably good.

Of course, I know some people just don't feel comfortable with the idea. And that's okay too.

 

[PsychicTaco115]

I did; nothing penetrative but almost

Wasn't bad

Decided just to stay friends tho and she's with someone else and happy

So good for her

 

[Johnny Novgorod]

I wouldn't, I'm not attracted towards trans people.

 

[viscomica]

I'd have to say no. I wouldn't be weirded out by them being trans but I'm not physically attracted to them. Sorry.

 

[Kevlar Eater]

Pre-op or post-op?

If pre-op, then hell no. Post-op, looks and sounds very much like a woman, then yes, I'd date and possibly hookup with one.

 

[Fieldy409_v1legacy]

Nope. Maybe that makes me a bad person and a hypocrite considering how I feel they should be treated equally but I just don't want to for some reason.

 

[chuckman1]

Nope. Maybe that makes me a bad person and a hypocrite considering how I feel they should be treated equally but I just don't want to for some reason.

It doesn't make you bad at all, I see it as a sort of in between. I've been attracted to thousands of women, a few trans girls, and about 1-2 guys. I am not fully straight, someone who likes a trans person sexually probably isn't fully straight, maybe with exception if they're post op. There's nothing wrong with not being attracted to them. But I never liked anything other then female born females 6 months ago, so keep an open mind things can change.

 

[Aerosteam]

I'm with Solaire on this. If she looks, sounds and acts like a girl and manages to convince me so but tells me she actually isn't one early on then I'm completely fine with that.

Me: "You're cute, I like you."
Her: "I am/used to be a guy."
Me: "Well there's a surprise, I don't mind."

It won't sound that robotic but you get the idea. >_>

 

[Sleepy Sol]

I am not fully straight, someone who likes a trans person sexually probably isn't fully straight, maybe with exception if they're post op. There's nothing wrong with not being attracted to them. But I never liked anything other then female born females 6 months ago, so keep an open mind things can change.

I dunno, man. I consider myself pretty fucking straight. I'm pretty sure gay men aren't going to be attracted to a transwoman because she decided to keep her dick. But hey, I'm not a gay man, so what would I know? The way I see it, if a person identifies as a woman, looks very much like a woman, and I find them attractive, that's all I really need.

Though, yes, I would say sexuality can be a pretty big spectrum of different factors of attraction and that someone can be a small degree of bisexual. But I wouldn't agree that dating and having sexy times with a pre-op transgender person somehow makes a person not straight.

Granted, that's not a huge deal either way. Or at least, it shouldn't be. But everyone knows how tons of people just gotta know how other consenting adults go about their private business. Because reasons/religion/ick factor.

 

[TakerFoxx]

No.

But then, I go out of my way to not date cis girls as well. Why? Because bachelorhood is awesome!

 

[Fieldy409_v1legacy]

Nope. Maybe that makes me a bad person and a hypocrite considering how I feel they should be treated equally but I just don't want to for some reason.

It doesn't make you bad at all, I see it as a sort of in between. I've been attracted to thousands of women, a few trans girls, and about 1-2 guys. I am not fully straight, someone who likes a trans person sexually probably isn't fully straight, maybe with exception if they're post op. There's nothing wrong with not being attracted to them. But I never liked anything other then female born females 6 months ago, so keep an open mind things can change.

You know I thought about it, and maybe I'd be okay with dating someone who identified as a man but still was biologically a woman and still had the female parts, if they still looked pretty feminine or androgynous. Maybe.

 

[Zontar]

No, mainly because I'm already in a committed relationship, and even if I wasn't having kids is something on my long term agenda, so unless it's someone I'm already head over heals for having a problem which causes them to not be able to have children (like my current significant other) not being able to have kids is a bit of a deal braker in the long run, and in my minds hooking up is all about the long run.

 

[Eddie the head]

Nope, but that's because I'm going to die alone.

 

[Sniper Team 4]

No thank you. It would weird me out too much. A girl I was dating a bit ago said she had a perfect person to hook me up with if the chance ever came, but she told me she was a he. And I was like, "Nope. Not happening."

 

[Godhead]

No, doing something that sounds like it would require some amount of effort. Also Alex Jones told me that trans people have super cooties, and nobody wants super cooties.

 

[MHR]

I'm straight, but hookup only, M --> F pre-op, and probably only once.

Y'know, cuz I'd like to see some D but not really have it be gay, knowati'msayin?

I'm not really attracted, but I know they don't have the cooties. I'm not at all interested in post-op. The idea of a recently added orifice just doesn't appeal.