Poll: You're a virgin, would you rather your first time be with another virgin or someone with experience?

[s0p0g]

lost mine to a girl with experience; i didn't really care - sex is sex after all, and it's fun - but i guess having someone who knows which buttons to push *winkwink* has its advantages.

so does being with another virgin, i'd say, as neither has to wonder "will s/he think that i was too clueless?"

long story short: enjoy it (that's important, do not freak out!! it's just as natural as breathing, and as naturally it'll come to you), and whatever the situation may be focus on the positive aspects *thumb-up*

 

[Sangreal Gothcraft]

Oh god my first time man>.>...man that was just ...It went bad>.> But hey it was my first time So....w/e..

 

[WolfThomas]

Speaking from experience I didn't really feel like "I was made a man" until the third time (or girl) I had sex with. My first time was with a girl who wasn't a virgin, and it was as predictably short and awkward. Then the next time was drunk, worse and frankly more embarassing. But that third time I had a more experienced partner, she was helpful and patient, helped get into a good position and rhythm, afterwards she made me appreciated the other was you can make a women happy.

I think this story is to point out that just because a women isn't a virgin doesn't mean it's immediately better or worse, depends on the person, but really if there's was a chance I could have had the third person for my first I would take that over the virgin.

No way to say this without sounding like I'm bragging, but...

I lost mine to someone with experience. I didn't tell her it was my first time until after, when she asked me how I'd gotten so good at it. She didn't believe me.

That happened with the first time I performed cunnilingus. Got complimented on that. Did it the way I thought was logical and having been doing it that way ever since.

 

[The Last Nomad]

As Vincent Chase once said, "I don't ever want to be anyones first... or last". Which I have oddly also stuck to.

So I'd take the experienced one.

 

[CyanideSandwich]

It's better to have at least one of you know what you're doing. I know this from experience.

 

[Necroid_Neko]

I'm far too paranoid to put up with someone who has a sexual history.

 

[PaganAxe]

I'm going to say that if I were a virgin again I wouldn't give a shit whether the person I was having my first time with was a virgin or not. The importance that is assigned to whether someone is a virgin or not is downright moronic. It doesn't matter even a teensy bit. What's important is if it's someone you really care about, that'll make a first time much more memorable than whether the person is a virgin or not.

This.

Woah, watch out for low content posts, you'll get a warning

Yeah, and I did. Some sites are more strict on this than others. Not a big deal.

On topic: I'd want the first time to be with someone I really cared for. It sounds really stupid to track down a pornstar and pay her to take your virginity.

 

[AgentNein]

I would actually much rather stay a virgin. I don't see why society has such an obsession with sex. It really boggles the mind.
I don't see any real value in the act of sex as I do not intend to reproduce.

I don't plan on having children either, but the act can be (I don't know if you've heard) a fun and enjoyable experience.

I've heard that there are a few folks here and there who just don't see the point, and that's totally cool if that's your position. I just want to make sure you realize that quite a few people do it for the simple reason of "It feels good and I've got nothing else to do for the next five minu-I TOTALLY MEANT HOUR".

 

[scorptatious]

Hmm, I could go either way. If I had to choose though it would probably be with someone who's experienced. That way I would learn what the heck I'm supposed to be doing.:/

 

[Raika]

I want to lose my virginity to a woman in her forties who knows her way around a pretty young thing like me. Experience is where it's at.

 

[CODE-D]

Id want a virgin of course, course Im a man with pride.
Either she just did it with someone else too soon and couldnt wait or worse she was in love with someone else, neither of which I like.

Also to people who said "I want someone who knows what theyre doing", just hire a prostitute then if thats what you want.

 

[CODE-D]

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Why do you assume someone whos had sex before instantly becomes a master of it?
You dont have to be smart to procreate quite the opposite really.

 

[Togs]

Someone experienced but patient.

 

[War Penguin]

Oh, someone experienced, for sure!

I would have little to no idea of what I was doing in that situation. Plus, if she were a virgin, she'd want it to be memorable in the good way, not the "where does this go again? Oh my god ow ow ow ow ow!" way.

Also, if she were experienced, I'm fairly certain that I would admit my inexperience, weather it was in a smooth and honest way or nervously blurt it out five seconds right before intercourse. Hopefully, she would understand. Hopefully.

 

[RoBi3.0]

I would want my first time to be with someone whom I loved and cared about, but I may be biased as that is exactly what I did. We will be married 10 years this June.