I just read the first part of my first post in this thread again which says "I think you should only have a kid when you are living by yourself (AKA not at home with mum and dad), with a partner, in a long relationship and with well paid job(s)" which you agree with, you then say you would keep the baby and work your arse off for it.IckleMissMayhem said:That's your opinion of the people you know, maybe you need to get to know some other people! Just for clarification, - if, in your original post you'd said "most of the girls I know," I wouldn't have had a problem with it.
Why be so contradicted? If you agree with my part why then say "I would still have it"?
I get for girls it's a little bit different 'cos there is something that will die inside them, which just sounds fucked up but at that moment in time it's a parasite. I also know you have this mothering instinct but it's like a cancer at this moment.
You have no means to support it, it's not a got a good start in life 'cos you said "It'd be up to the (as yet unknown) sperm-producer as to how much he wanted to be involved" ... it seems more selfish and short sighted to me.
And don't get me started on that really annoying thing women do when they see a baby, asking all kinds of useless questions (how much did he weigh? Who gives a fuck!), speaking in a stupid voice like the baby is going to respond like "well baby, although I prefer John, is quite well. How are are you? And your little ones?"
Whats with that "he's got so and so's nose" no, he hasn't ... all babies look like Whiston Churchill!