depending on the situation one or manyBaffle said:'helping you'? How many people are in the room?!sonofliber said:and depending on the person who is helping you, boring
depending on the situation one or manyBaffle said:'helping you'? How many people are in the room?!sonofliber said:and depending on the person who is helping you, boring
Been there, done that.Baffle said:You could always summon Bigby's Grasping Hand to finish the job. Eh? Eh? Know what I mean? Eh?
This is definitely an unhealthy side effect. I watched a documentary on TV in Australia about the increase in labiaplasty in this country. There was lots of discussion about the porn industry and censorship and how this is contributing to this effect. In order to avoid their publications from being censored, artists would airbrush out vaginas with more prominent labia minora. I have no idea why it became a censorship issue, but it has definitely become a norm within porn and as a result more young women are having elective cosmetic surgery. If the only vaginas you have seen are in porn you will have a very skewed idea about what 'normal' looks like. And any surgery has risks: people occassionaly die during routine cosmetic surgery.L. Declis said:Hmmm... Unhealthy things about porn...
1) Your penis or vagina is fine. It's normal. It's not tiny/wizard's sleeve. There is a guy who likes it.
Ya know, I have but they haven't invented the unbreakable condom and I'll be damned if I'm going to believe anyone at their word that they're on the pill after first Ex.KingsGambit said:Are you saying that the *only* alternative to staying in and masturbating to cartoon porn on the Internet is going out and having promiscuous, unprotected sex with a string of people? Have you considered that there are more responsible and healthy ways to have satisfying sex with real people that don't lead to STDs and a bunch of children?Gundam GP01 said:Again, that's assuming what you're saying even happens in the first place. In my experience, everything you're saying is bullshit.
Are you saying that you WANT me to go out and catch STDs and have a bunch of children that I'm not prepared for?
That's a thoroughly silly comparison. You can have sex with someone of the opposite sex (Or same sex for that matter, not sure why hetero was used here), without it being rape, or abusive. The same cannot be said of sex with children. Even if you don't believe that there is any progression, or connection, between attraction to children and sexual abuse of children, the comparison to heterosexuality doesn't hold.SquallTheBlade said:Just like heterosexuality is prelude to rape?Lil devils x said:Attraction to children is the prelude to abuse
It does hold. What does a guy do when he gets rejected by a woman for example? Does he rape her? Of course not. That would be immoral.Loonyyy said:That's a thoroughly silly comparison. You can have sex with someone of the opposite sex (Or same sex for that matter, not sure why hetero was used here), without it being rape, or abusive. The same cannot be said of sex with children. Even if you don't believe that there is any progression, or connection, between attraction to children and sexual abuse of children, the comparison to heterosexuality doesn't hold.SquallTheBlade said:Just like heterosexuality is prelude to rape?Lil devils x said:Attraction to children is the prelude to abuse
Ironically both are right here. Pedophiles abuse children because they find them attractive, so attraction is the prelude, pedophillia requires attraction but attraction doesnt require pedophillia. If you were a pediophile I believe You can easily go your whole life using only masturbation to meet your needs.SquallTheBlade said:It does hold. What does a guy do when he gets rejected by a woman for example? Does he rape her? Of course not. That would be immoral.Loonyyy said:That's a thoroughly silly comparison. You can have sex with someone of the opposite sex (Or same sex for that matter, not sure why hetero was used here), without it being rape, or abusive. The same cannot be said of sex with children. Even if you don't believe that there is any progression, or connection, between attraction to children and sexual abuse of children, the comparison to heterosexuality doesn't hold.SquallTheBlade said:Just like heterosexuality is prelude to rape?Lil devils x said:Attraction to children is the prelude to abuse
Now why would a guy, who is attracted to children, do any differently?
Just wanted to make a note here, because most people get these confused: pedophilia IS attraction. Abuse is pederasty.Fieldy409 said:Pedophiles abuse children because they find them attractive, so attraction is the prelude, pedophillia requires attraction but attraction doesnt require pedophillia.
Pretty much. However important sex might be for someone outside of obsession, it's still going to remain relatively small part of their lives. Compare that with a set of surreal expectations regarding... almost everything else aside from work ( a different kind of worms) - the kind that affects mundane, routine, daily. The kind that stops being relevant only when you sleep or are at work (though your career is usually among those expectations). Yeeeeah... no, I imagine porn is perceived as so important mostly because sex is considered disproportionately important by every aspect of modern culture, starting from advertising, ending around legislation. Then there's reality that deals with the rest, ie. >90%, of the average life...KissingSunlight said:I think the biggest exporter of unreal expectations is romance novels and movies.
And is it perhaps that because we view the overactive sexuality of porn, hentai, and sex education itself that we've come to this conclusion that individuals with low sex drives (or lack of) are "unhealthy"?mecegirl said:Asexuality is a real thing and is perfectly healthy.KingsGambit said:If someone just doesn't want to date or has no sex drive at all, and they are a post-puberty adult, then that absolutely does make them unhealthy. A healthy adult will have a sex drive. Your statement about deciding what is healthy for oneself is ridiculous. You do not get to decide what is and isn't healthy, defining it to suit yourself. You get to decide whether or not to do healthy or unhealthy things but you don't get to redefine the word and make unhealthy things more palatable. Eating McDonalds daily is unhealthy. Drinking dirty or polluted water is unhealthy. Smoking is unhealthy. Masturbating to Internet porn to the exclusion of seeking a real life partner is unhealthy. No one will stop you from doing any or all of those things...it's every person's prerogative how they live their lives but you shouldn't delude yourself into believing these are healthy things.
I beg your pardon? Have I said anything rude to you or anyone? Where does your attitude and name calling come from? Have you heard the saying "attack the argument, not the person"? I don't think I've encountered anyone so rude on this forum before.FriendlyFyre said:KingsGambit said:it's undoubtedly a real thing, but it is not healthy by any stretch. A healthy adult has a sex drive. If one is asexual, they either have a health issue (physiological or psychological), our are lying.mecegirl said:Asexuality is a real thing and is perfectly healthy.
Oh, you decided to turn into a dick of your own volition. Never mind.
KingsGambit said:I beg your pardon? Have I said anything rude to you or anyone? Where does your attitude and name calling come from? Have you heard the saying "attack the argument, not the person"? I don't think I've encountered anyone so rude on this forum before.FriendlyFyre said:KingsGambit said:it's undoubtedly a real thing, but it is not healthy by any stretch. A healthy adult has a sex drive. If one is asexual, they either have a health issue (physiological or psychological), our are lying.mecegirl said:Asexuality is a real thing and is perfectly healthy.
Oh, you decided to turn into a dick of your own volition. Never mind.