KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:
1) More than that hormones also play a rather massive role.
2) Apples and oranges. Also the health/fitness nuts are constantly playing a blame game with the overweight. Still the social pressure on overweight people can be debilitating to some. To your logic the "suck at math" types also shouldn't be expected to perform at the level of a math genius. So fat people shouldn't even try?
3) To some what is self inflected is also a compulsion that cannot be helped.
4) One person's experience does not equate to the experiences of everyone who happens to be in the same situation. Many large people have difficulty with activity.
5) For the two out of three. Tell that to people with Type one Diabetes, especially adult onset. Some people also acquire Type two while at optimal weight. Also I know far more fit people who have suffered heart disease than obese ones. Stress is also a major factor, and many medical professionals believe it to be the leading one.
6) Well the media and advertisements sure are, as well as quite a few health food and fitness Junkies. Though with any reasonable person it's a fair point that it does take time and is a process that people work towards. Also "willpower" is a variable, once again one experience does not equate to the experience of a entire group.
1) looked into it and the best i could find is lower Estogen during menopause. thats about it. care to share more information? Also your claim here seems to contradict statistics. CDC data [http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/databriefs/db82.pdf] shows that 35.5% of men and 35.8% of women are obese. For the women who make up that 0.3% of the population, this is obviously important, but in the big picture, that's not exactly a huge difference - not enough to prove that women are "more prone" to obesity than men in any significant amount of way.
2) Hardly. In both cases somone is not good enough at something (your example - loosing weight, mine - mathematical equations) and are trying to blame people who are good at it for that. Fat people should try. they just shouldnt blame people who aren't fat for not succeeding.
3) If you cannot stop eating - go to a doctor. Elsehow that is self-inflicted case here. I mean i admit there are people with mental compulsion disabilities and some of them may be actually unable to stop eating, but they are so rare finding one is usually news-material.
4) Fair enough, my example was anecdotical. Though id be much more willing to believe that its the other way around. People that have difficulty with activity get fat. Not that activity is necessary to not be fat. Loosing weight is mostly diet, not exercise. Exercise is more the healthy part in this case.
5) i never claimed that everyone with diabetes got it from being overweight, i said its a larger factor in getting diabetes to begin with. Do note that American Diabetes Association claims that Type One diabetes only happens in 5% of Diabetes case. which makes it a fringe group in already fringe group. It also does not prevent person from loosing weight if he is taking his insulin appropriately. I understand this being a big problem before modern medicine, but not so anymore. And who is bringing anecdotical cases now? I too know more fit people who suffered heard disaese, but thats simply because i know more fit people overall and not because its more common. in fact obesity and heart disease has already been directly linked by medics. its not something you can just brush off.
6) Ok, i cna give you that some media is quite crazy when it comes to those things. the latest "how is this still a thing" was when they had to save a life of a popular singer here because she was thinning herself with a stomach parasite. I do understand that such extremism should not be supported. but that wasnt the case in this thread to begin with. noone told people to starve as far as i saw and i tried to read every post so far.
Twintix said:
In that case, I wasn't solely talking about the ads. I agree that people were overreacting to them, which you'd know if you'd cared to read past my first sentence.
What I was reacting to was the complete absence of professionalism on Protein World's part. No, I do not care in the slightest how tired you are of false accusations of body images and sexism; If you[footnote]As in, general you, not you specifically.[/footnote] represent a company, you should always strive to act in a way that reinforces a positive image of that company. I expect a worker to not sink to grade school levels of pettiness.
Dismissing and insulting potential customers is not gaining you any fans.
As already mentioned in response to OP, i do agree that the responses werent the best, but i dont agree that the intents behind them were wrong.
Dismissing people that talk nonsense is perfectly fine, even if it comes from companies PR (which is most often actually minimum wage no education person "responsible for social media". No insults were made by companys PR that im aware of. unless i missed something, then please do point out.
Was this comment really neccessary? Like, did you really have to say this? Of all the things to point out in my post, this was worth your attention?
Necessary? no, it wasnt. Its just that i found that phrase very funny and wanted to see if it was meant to express something in particular or just accidentally happened. please dont take it as me trying to be snark, i mean no offence by this.
Queen Michael said:
Uh... No. There are several countries where to this day, being fat is seen as beautiful. Tonga is one example.
And honestly, anybody can see why being fat would make you extremely attractive as a partner in times of starvation. When there's no food to go around, you wanna be with the one who still manages to stay spherical.
Once again, it is not done out of sexual attractiveness but as a form of status - being rich enough to have enough food in this situation.
KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:
If you paid attention, you'd know what sparked this whole mess was the counter controversy spawned by Protein World. Basically they stooped to grade school level petty bullshit, because someone spoke out about finding the ad offensive and sexist.
No, what sparked this is a vandalism made on their advertisement posters (and yes, it is vandalism by its legal definition). Some people posted snark comments and nonsense on twitter and PW basically told them off.
Hagi said:
Just check out this hot beauty from the stone age!
ps. You do realize that evolution literally means that things aren't hardwired and change over time...
Ah yes, a fragment of a statue is your proof of fat people being sexually attractive! Its not as if a statue could be made for any other reason than as a ancient version of porn, right?
Its not like this was a religiuos idol that isnt supposed to represent actual human or something.... oh wait, it was.
By hardwired i mean that you cannot change it yourself. Its not something you decide on. its in your genes. And as i explained already, evolution is way too slow for your "couple centuries" to have an effect. for evolution thats less than 10 generations, which is nothing. you need thousands, millions, of generations for such large changes.
Hagi said:
Well, just like some people certainly are trying to make people feel bad about being attracted to lean and skinny people the original post I was commenting on certainly was saying that there wasn't any variety in what was considered ideal over time. That attraction to lean and skinny was in fact hardwired and a constant in the human species.
I'm mainly against the notion that somehow evolution has magically stopped since the stone age and that we now have set-in-stone tastes, preferences and instincts than can be fully explained from a modern-day retrospective of what we believe hunter-gatherer society was like (which is somehow magically 100% accurate). AKA evolutionary psychology.
Reality, including human sexuality and attraction, is a tad bit more complicated than that.
less hardwired to lean and skinny and more towards looking heathy, which as it turns out is not overweight.
You have to realize that the couple thousand years we are using to run through our civilizations is like a second on evolutions scale. evolution is very slow compared to our conception of time. large changes take millions of years. This is why we have a lot of left-over instincts from the hunter-gatherer society times that sometimes malfunction on us in modern life. we dont have to run from a tiger every other day, but the instinct is still there and sometimes it misfires.
It wasnt, nor needed, to be 100% accurate. Just more accurate than the alternative.