I know it's lame to seek relationship advice on a forum, but this is a case where you guys could really help me out.
My girlfriend recently moved in with me and my housemate. Before then, when we were both free, my housemate and I would have a game night once a week where we'd power through on whatever for 5-6 hours before going to bed. Now, of course, any time we game basically means time that she is actively sidelined, and usually she'll want to hang out after an hour or so of reading a book or whatever.
Having been used to longer sessions, 1-2 hours (once, sometimes twice a week) feels like we're barely getting into the swing of things before we have to call it quits, and equally she feels bad for calling time. Then again, maybe I'm just being greedy... The last thing I want is to make her feel unwelcome, or like a killjoy.
I've never had to balance a relationship and gaming before - the latter happened when the former didn't.
How do you guys do it?
My girlfriend recently moved in with me and my housemate. Before then, when we were both free, my housemate and I would have a game night once a week where we'd power through on whatever for 5-6 hours before going to bed. Now, of course, any time we game basically means time that she is actively sidelined, and usually she'll want to hang out after an hour or so of reading a book or whatever.
Having been used to longer sessions, 1-2 hours (once, sometimes twice a week) feels like we're barely getting into the swing of things before we have to call it quits, and equally she feels bad for calling time. Then again, maybe I'm just being greedy... The last thing I want is to make her feel unwelcome, or like a killjoy.
I've never had to balance a relationship and gaming before - the latter happened when the former didn't.
How do you guys do it?