Here in the UK, one of our daily newspapers features a topless woman on page three, something which would cause a meltdown if any american newspaper tried it. We're so much more uptight, aren't we?Vareoth said:Fucking willfully ignorant, reactionary, childlike, unrealistic pricks...
"Who cares about all the violence and death our children are exposed to, just don't let them see a tit. It would probably destroy their pure innocent minds."
Bah, the biggest strength of democracy is also its biggest drawback; the fact that anyone has the right to let his or her voice be heard. Bring back despotism, please. (Not really)
I doubt that anybody in power did.JoJo said:It still amazes me that anyone thought this filter was a good idea, let alone enough to get it through the House of Commons. Let's see, blocks innocent downloads, supposedly blocks sex education websites and abuse hotlines, is laughably easy to get around with freely available proxies... I think that's enough to mark this down as a certified fail. Not that I would have expected anything different from this government.
I wasn't talking about any country in particular. Don't feel offended. I was raging on the people who believe the human body is more vile than anything else.Windknight said:Here in the UK, one of our daily newspapers features a topless woman on page three, something which would cause a meltdown if any american newspaper tried it. We're so much more uptight, aren't we?Vareoth said:Fucking willfully ignorant, reactionary, childlike, unrealistic pricks...
"Who cares about all the violence and death our children are exposed to, just don't let them see a tit. It would probably destroy their pure innocent minds."
Bah, the biggest strength of democracy is also its biggest drawback; the fact that anyone has the right to let his or her voice be heard. Bring back despotism, please. (Not really)
OK, see, this is what we're railing about. You have a topless girl on page 3, any kid can grab that off the newsstand, but god forbid he sees the same thing on the internet??Windknight said:Here in the UK, one of our daily newspapers features a topless woman on page three, something which would cause a meltdown if any american newspaper tried it. We're so much more uptight, aren't we?Vareoth said:Fucking willfully ignorant, reactionary, childlike, unrealistic pricks...
"Who cares about all the violence and death our children are exposed to, just don't let them see a tit. It would probably destroy their pure innocent minds."
Bah, the biggest strength of democracy is also its biggest drawback; the fact that anyone has the right to let his or her voice be heard. Bring back despotism, please. (Not really)
Correct me if I'm wrong but was Cameron not in favour of gay marriage? Unless you mean him supporting it was a betrayal in which case, I'd prepare your antiquated flame shield.Emanuele Ciriachi said:Children are not always able to make responsible and informed choices about their lives; the world is a wonderful place, but also dangerous and cruel, and it may take time for some to accept the notion of taking responsibility for their own decision.loa said:I don't think I'll ever understand how crafting an entire world of lies for your children to live in somehow benefits them and how reality is "damaging" to the point at which the government must help keeping your bullshit world of lies stable whatever it takes but oh well.
As a parent, I completely understand and approve the necessity to temporarily shield children from certain aspect of the world.
As a software developer, I can't but notice this to be a terrible, terrible implementation - as far as I'm concerned, it goes together with gay marriage as one of Cameron's greatest betrayals.
Thanks, I've learned a new word, the most hilarious word ever.Buzz Killington said:I see people have already mentioned Scunthorpe, but did you know that it's already lent its name to exactly this kind of situation? It's called the Scunthorpe problem [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scunthorpe_problem].
Yes, of course I mean that his support of such an irrational and illiberal law was a betrayal - I don't see how I could think otherwise.elvor0 said:Correct me if I'm wrong but was Cameron not in favour of gay marriage? Unless you mean him supporting it was a betrayal in which case, I'd prepare your antiquated flame shield.
Its not parents - its the government censoring internet.Fat_Hippo said:British parents blocking the access of their children to porn, that's the real scandal, I say. It's inhumane and cruel, dammit!
welcome to dumb parent thinking 101.loa said:I don't think I'll ever understand how crafting an entire world of lies for your children to live in somehow benefits them and how reality is "damaging" to the point at which the government must help keeping your bullshit world of lies stable whatever it takes but oh well.
i guess you never looked at the advertisement for the more shady websites, did you?Kmadden2004 said:but the reality is that it's impossible to "accidentally stumble upon" hardcore porn unless you're actively looking for it.
and thats why parents dont just drop them and leave. instead they explain the world and tell them how to make informed decisions. they have 18 years to teach their children that. Hiding the world from the children however does nothing to further the progress of them being able to understand it and react to it properly.Emanuele Ciriachi said:Children are not always able to make responsible and informed choices about their lives; the world is a wonderful place, but also dangerous and cruel, and it may take time for some to accept the notion of taking responsibility for their own decision.
As a parent, I completely understand and approve the necessity to temporarily shield children from certain aspect of the world.
As a software developer, I can't but notice this to be a terrible, terrible implementation - as far as I'm concerned, it goes together with gay marriage as one of Cameron's greatest betrayals.
Checks linkBuzz Killington said:I see people have already mentioned Scunthorpe, but did you know that it's already lent its name to exactly this kind of situation? It's called the Scunthorpe problem [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scunthorpe_problem].
Cant tell if troll or being sarcastic or serious... *grimace*, fuck it I'll bite if it's the 3rd option.Emanuele Ciriachi said:Yes, of course I mean that his support of such an irrational and illiberal law was a betrayal - I don't see how I could think otherwise.elvor0 said:Correct me if I'm wrong but was Cameron not in favour of gay marriage? Unless you mean him supporting it was a betrayal in which case, I'd prepare your antiquated flame shield.
Of course I will do that. I do, however, reserve the right to choose how gradual their exposition to the world is going to be.Strazdas said:And thats why parents dont just drop them and leave. instead they explain the world and tell them how to make informed decisions. they have 18 years to teach their children that. Hiding the world from the children however does nothing to further the progress of them being able to understand it and react to it properly.
You guessed right, it's the third option.elvor0 said:Cant tell if troll or being sarcastic or serious... *grimace*, fuck it I'll bite if it's the 3rd option.
Allowing gay marriage ain't Ill-liberal. You may not /agree/ with it but to call it Ill-liberal...well I'd check what liberal means. Cos it don't mean depriving people of personal freedoms.
That is an...unexpected counter argument. I was expecting your point to be purely anti gay, if you'll extend me some curtsey, is understandable? Thus I retract my earlier disdainful attitude; what we have here is actually a point of discussion which I feel needs more coverage.Emanuele Ciriachi said:You guessed right, it's the third option.elvor0 said:Cant tell if troll or being sarcastic or serious... *grimace*, fuck it I'll bite if it's the 3rd option.
Allowing gay marriage ain't Ill-liberal. You may not /agree/ with it but to call it Ill-liberal...well I'd check what liberal means. Cos it don't mean depriving people of personal freedoms.
It is illiberal, because you are giving additional rights (some of which of economic nature) to two citizens simply (I guess) out of their mutual affection, but you are denying the same rights to more than two people in the same situation.
Or to blood relatives.
If two men can marry, despite having no biological ability to reproduce (which some argue is the government's stake in heterosexual marriage) and without having both genders represented as role models in the household (which others argue is the government's stake in heterosexual marriage), then certainly two men and a woman can marry.
If you truly are egalitarian, you must allow the same privileges to all citizens at the same condition - homosexual "marriage" is discriminatory toward polygamist unions, polyandrous unions, and yes, even relationships between close relatives.
On top of that you are considering such unions on the same level of those that benefit society with their children: the (potential) contribution of new individuals that traditional marriage can provide is the practical reason of those rights, rights that individual citizens that pay their taxes and are otherwise valued members of society don't enjoy.
Finally, if you allow me a tint of (constructive) sarcasm, I didn't see the tidal wave of raging flames that you had foreseen in your first post; it seems that other posters are not particularly shocked at the sight of an independent thought.
Thanks for your comment, I appreciate your attitude. While indeed there are fanatical people with irrational arguments among those that share my sentiment, that doesn't mean that there aren't also good reasons grounded in equality to oppose SSM.elvor0 said:Ignoring the fact that polygamist/androus unions arn't allowed in almost every western country(for the moment), the blood relative point just sounds like the slippery slope argument of "What's to stop me marrying my son for tax reasons?" argument. Obviously two men can't reproduce, but the incest laws are there for a reason, and you have to draw the line somewhere. It's way too much of a cluster fuck to start allowing incest marriage, but only to gay couples, and making sure Mother and Son don't start breeding.
It's not discriminating against the poly relationships, because they're not allowed in the first place. Can't discriminate against something that doesn't exist. Not that I actually disagree with Poly relationships myself, I think if 3 or more people get on and are happy to do so, fucking go for it. Obviously there should be some sort of limit, but otherwise I don't mind the idea. I mean heck, the guy who invented Wonder Woman was him and 2 women, who all loved each other. I'm not even entirely opposed to the idea of incest relationships, if people really want to swing that way, not for me, but as long as they don't breed, do what you want.
Furthermore, one could argue(myself included) that gay people not being able to reproduce isn't actually a bad thing. There are far more people on the planet than is necessary or sustainable, and if gay people can marry each other, along with the western world being far more relaxed and accepting of their lifestyle, they don't feel pressured to marry into a Hetro relationship and put out kids for the sake of cover or acceptance. On that note, if gay people shouldn't be allowed the same rights because they can't reproduce, do you start cutting rights from hetro couples if they don't have children after X amount of years? There are /far/ too many of us, anything that cuts down the population growth is golden in my books.
That is a very compelling argument. The point about it being for the sake of offsetting the cost of child raising has never occurred to me before now, (I'm 22 and neither me or my girlfriend want children, so y'know, never really considered /why/ things are that way, they just were, as far as I was concerned, don't know why, but yeah seems bloody obvious now that you mention it) I agree with almost your entire post. You'd never get people to agree to it though, people'd be up in arms about losing their tax breaks, a change that massive'd never get through the House of Commons ><Emanuele Ciriachi said:Thanks for your comment, I appreciate your attitude. While indeed there are fanatical people with irrational arguments among those that share my sentiment, that doesn't mean that there aren't also good reasons grounded in equality to oppose SSM.elvor0 said:-snip for space-
Polygamic union are disallowed for cultural reasons and, to a degree, to promote the equal role of both genders in a union, while still maintaing the potential to procreate (not to mention, divorce laws would be a nightmare if you allow n-way marriage). I have no objections to extend marriage benefits to such unions willing to start a family, as long as it's consensual.
But this is beside the point. The main point is:
"For which practical reasons you allow some citizens to get additional benefits?"
Certainly, just because you love someone and that person returns the feeling, you shouldn't be entitled to any taxpayers' dough. Because if you did, then yeah, I would totally marry my son just to relieve him of any heritage shenanigans.
But what about the marriage that we already have then? Because obviously, the reason marriage enjoys its benefits it's because those are a counterweight to the hardships and cost to raise children. This is the rationale behind providing a married coupled with residence permit if one is a foreigner, so that they can live together; and in some case also with reversibility of the pension in case one dies prematurely, so that the family can at least benefit from the welfare of the missing parent.
This is a perfectly logical reason to allow additional rights, one grounded in practicality.
Now, consider that just one generation ago people didn't have access to contraceptives, thus pretty much every married couple had children, unless they were sterile. Today you can decide freely when and if having them, hence I believe that the notion of automatic rights simply for living together should be rethinked, in the interest of fairness.
And of course, for the above reasons, extending those rights to same-sex unions, but ONLY if they are comprised of two individuals is a pretty silly idea in my book.
There is more, but I don't want to lengthen my core argument unnecessarily.