LordSphinx said:
Don't let these stupid male fantasies affect your self esteem.
While sweet, this makes me laugh. Absurd jiggly video game characters don't hurt my self-esteem. Seeing hawt women period doesn't hurt my self-esteem. It does make me ANGRY, however, when guys will see a very attractive woman (attractive in an objective sense, of having a lean, trim figure, good proportions, clear skin that's obviously well-taken-care of, etc.) and say "geez, she's ugly".
Guys, I appreciate that what you THINK you are saying by this is that SHE IS NOT YOUR TYPE. However what you are actually communicating is that a.) you're an ass and b.) your standards for beauty are so high as to be unreal. I'm AWARE that guys have VERY PARTICULAR standards for beauty so many can look at a smokin' hot babe and disdain her appearance for an incredibly superficial reason--and like the appearance of a babe who is NOT smokin' hot because she falls more into your personal parameters. That's great. But when you say that out loud with no context in front of Average Babe, you are telling her flat out that SHE IS SO INDESCRIBABLY UGLY THAT YOU CAN'T STAND IT. DON'T DO IT. SPARE YOURSELVES THE DRAMA.
I don't like to see anyone being indifferent to physical beauty--even if it isn't their personal sexual preference. In real life you have to work HARD to be beautiful. It's a serious achievement and I don't like to see anyone's hard work being disparaged by idiots who think they just "lucked" into it.