So. I was having problems deciding whether to break up with my girlfriend or not, and suddenly I had this idea to ask you guys and gals one simple question. How did you break up with your girl/boy friend and why? (I know this has been done http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.73837-how-and-why-did-you-dump-him-her?page=1 that was 3 years ago and wasn't that popular, so I thought this wouldn't hurt)
Since I am too lazy to create a separate topic for this in Advice forum, I decided to spoilerize it and ask it anyways.
A time ago, when I first met her, I liked her. I liked her very much. I got on dates with her, I had my fun. It was all fine, until I caught myself thinking, that she isn't just "it". Right now I can't believe that I actually wanted to be together with her (I guess I had a desperate need for a girl).
Now I have found myself in a situation where I can't really dump her. I have met her parents and they really like me AND another guy has broken her heart some time ago, so I just can't break it again. Yes, I may sound like a douche (in fact I think I do sound like one), but I really think that she wasn't the right choice. The question is: how can we part ways without breaking her heart.
A time ago, when I first met her, I liked her. I liked her very much. I got on dates with her, I had my fun. It was all fine, until I caught myself thinking, that she isn't just "it". Right now I can't believe that I actually wanted to be together with her (I guess I had a desperate need for a girl).
Now I have found myself in a situation where I can't really dump her. I have met her parents and they really like me AND another guy has broken her heart some time ago, so I just can't break it again. Yes, I may sound like a douche (in fact I think I do sound like one), but I really think that she wasn't the right choice. The question is: how can we part ways without breaking her heart.