So, my girlfriend is in porn and I don't know what to do.

[MASTACHIEFPWN]

Link? LINK?
Nah, just f*cking with ya.

But seriously, talk to her about it, even though the conversation might be a huge stalemate, just let her know it makes you uncomftorable.
But then again, if it isn't her falking another dude, I wouldn't care so much myself.

Only one logical thing to do. Next time you're having sex, pull out and finish on her face.

Judge her reaction.

This is the hilarious way.

 

[Evil Smurf]

does she know you asked us?

 

[NightmareWarden]

Tell you that an anonymous friend, who knows her, saw the picture and thought that you, as her boyfriend, should know about it. He showed you the picture/sent you a link and you believed that you had reason to be concerned.

...have y'all been dating long enough that if she Had done this you would believe she was hiding this information from you? Oh yeah and if y'all have not been dating for very long...she might lie to you about it. If you two may break up, I doubt she would want word of this video spreading throughout the university y'know?

 

[Olas]

It's probably not her dude. We tend to see things that we're looking for. On top of that, there are most likely thousands of people in the world who look very similar to your girlfriend who aren't her.
In fact, I'd say it's more likely that you'll find out she's been in porn, but not the specific porn that you saw.

 

[Sir Thomas Sean Connery]

As long as it doesn't bother you too much, leave it.

If it does, I would convince a friend to be the asshole. The three of you are hanging out and he says "Hey *insert name of girlfriend*! I think I saw you in a porn video the other day!"

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Or...... You know......... You could tell us what her alias is...........

 

[Catfood220]

Why always with the links? I'm pretty sure she'd kill me and I like life a little bit too much.

But then you'd have your answer, if you posted links and she went "meh" you would know it wasn't her and if she killed you then you would know that she was.

 

[CrimsonBlaze]

My first question to you is: Why are you looking at porn if you are in a serious relationship? I can understand if it was casual at first or if you two weren't exclusive, but if you are still looking at porn after you confirmed that you're serious for one another, then it might not be as serious as you claim it to be. Just sayin'.

Next, I guess you would have to ask yourself if you would be okay if you can continue dating someone who is involved in that particular type of industry (i.e. be okay with here being naked for strangers to see, possible trust issues, etc.), if it is the case that it is actually her. There's not definite right/wrong answer to this, but many might find a problem with it, some just learn to accept others for these activities or line of work.

Unless you feel like it is absolutely necessary for you to find out the truth to continue dating this girl, you probably shouldn't worry about it. If your girl starts behaving strangely to the point where you feel that she isn't being honest or open with you, then there might be some reason to be suspicious.

Again, there are a lot of things to consider and if you really care for this chick, then you should take the time to sort things out.

 

[Evil Smurf]

I found the link!
http://images2.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20090318091818/zelda/images/5/54/Link_Artwork_1_(Ocarina_of_Time).png

 

[Panzer_God]

Make lemonade, ask her about it. If it was her say it got you real hot, point at some particularly attractive bit and get a little.

The point of the lemonade is?

Making the best of a bad situation, i.e. "god gives you lemons so you make lemonade", you've really never heard that expression? Not saying that to be a dick but out of genuine surprise.

I GET IT NOW! Sorry, I'm a little slow sometimes xD.

Why always with the links? I'm pretty sure she'd kill me and I like life a little bit too much.

Don't you think she might kill you already for the thread title? Not that I think adding the links is a good idea, but just saying.

Oh she'd kill me anyway for the thread, but there are different levels of death. Also, I want to be able to deny it if she asks if I've shown anyone, because saying yes would lead to even MORE painful methods of horrible, horrible death.

My first question to you is: Why are you looking at porn if you are in a serious relationship? I can understand if it was casual at first or if you two weren't exclusive, but if you are still looking at porn after you confirmed that you're serious for one another, then it might not be as serious as you claim it to be. Just sayin'.

Because I'm a sex addict, and watching porn stops me from doing something incredibly stupid.

I found the link!
http://images2.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20090318091818/zelda/images/5/54/Link_Artwork_1_(Ocarina_of_Time).png

OH MY GOD! WHERE DID YOU FIND THAT!

 

[DeepComet5581]

You guys know you can be in school at 18 right? *facepalm*

Or at 16, which is legal in most countries.

Or at 15, which is legal in a couple of European countries, like Sweden.

Or at 14, which is legal in Japan, Saudi Arabia and Iceland.

Or at 13 OH GOD YOU SICK FUCKS YOU, EGYPT!

Are you sure it's legal for them to Star in porn at those ages, or just have sex?
Because in NZ, where I am, you can have intercourse at 16, but the age limit of porn is still 18

I'm sure you can have intercourse at any age. In U.S., there's no age restriction on selling condoms.

Perhaps, but you still cannot have intercourse at any age, you must be 18
For example, if someone over 18 has intercourse with someone under 18 it is considered to be a form of rape, and if two people under 18 have intercourse, it is still illegal.

I find it highly ironic that in the UK you can have sex with another person at 16, but can't watch other people having sex until you're 18. Just doesn't make sense.

So technically, you could film yourself at 16, but can't watch it back for another 2 years (That is, if you actually cared).

That was actually New Zealand, but I see your point. I'd still prefer that to "NO SEX UNTIL 18!" that America's got going on. Let me tell you, ages 16-18 SUCKED because I was afraid that I'd go to jail.

It's all the same Commonwealth. The same applies in the UK.

Frankly, no-one cares that underage people watch porn (no-one important anyway). I don't know of anyone who got in trouble with the Cops for watching porn while underage.

Not just commonwealth, it's that way in most western countries, at least in the eu 16 is the norm.

In the Vatican, the age of consent is 12.

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Why?

 

[Archroy]

Are we talking arty Andrew blake stuff, or Max Hardcore style puking and speculums?

 

[Sexy Devil]

My first question to you is: Why are you looking at porn if you are in a serious relationship? I can understand if it was casual at first or if you two weren't exclusive, but if you are still looking at porn after you confirmed that you're serious for one another, then it might not be as serious as you claim it to be. Just sayin'.

You... you're kidding right? Being in a relationship doesn't invalidate the use of porn. Literally never met a guy who's given up porn when he got into a relationship.

 

[Panzer_God]

Are we talking arty Andrew blake stuff, or Max Hardcore style puking and speculums?

I'm not going to ask who Andrew Blake is, nor what a sepculum is. However, it was vanilla stuff, thank god.

You guys know you can be in school at 18 right? *facepalm*

Or at 16, which is legal in most countries.

Or at 15, which is legal in a couple of European countries, like Sweden.

Or at 14, which is legal in Japan, Saudi Arabia and Iceland.

Or at 13 OH GOD YOU SICK FUCKS YOU, EGYPT!

Are you sure it's legal for them to Star in porn at those ages, or just have sex?
Because in NZ, where I am, you can have intercourse at 16, but the age limit of porn is still 18

I'm sure you can have intercourse at any age. In U.S., there's no age restriction on selling condoms.

Perhaps, but you still cannot have intercourse at any age, you must be 18
For example, if someone over 18 has intercourse with someone under 18 it is considered to be a form of rape, and if two people under 18 have intercourse, it is still illegal.

I find it highly ironic that in the UK you can have sex with another person at 16, but can't watch other people having sex until you're 18. Just doesn't make sense.

So technically, you could film yourself at 16, but can't watch it back for another 2 years (That is, if you actually cared).

That was actually New Zealand, but I see your point. I'd still prefer that to "NO SEX UNTIL 18!" that America's got going on. Let me tell you, ages 16-18 SUCKED because I was afraid that I'd go to jail.

It's all the same Commonwealth. The same applies in the UK.

Frankly, no-one cares that underage people watch porn (no-one important anyway). I don't know of anyone who got in trouble with the Cops for watching porn while underage.

Not just commonwealth, it's that way in most western countries, at least in the eu 16 is the norm.

In the Vatican, the age of consent is 12.

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Why?

What the hell?

Are we talking arty Andrew blake stuff, or Max Hardcore style puking and speculums?

I'm not going to ask who Andrew Blake is, nor what a sepculum is. However, it was vanilla stuff, thank god.

 

[schizow]

why dont you just post a normal pic of your girl im pretty sure someone here wil reconize her if she is infact a porn star.

 

[zelda2fanboy]

How graphic is this image? Can you crop her head off of the porn one and compare it to a normal picture? Maybe even to her? Or us....

 

[Eamar]

My first question to you is: Why are you looking at porn if you are in a serious relationship? I can understand if it was casual at first or if you two weren't exclusive, but if you are still looking at porn after you confirmed that you're serious for one another, then it might not be as serious as you claim it to be. Just sayin'.

You're joking? Plenty of people in relationships, male and female, watch porn. Plenty of couples watch it together, even.

If my boyfriend (of nearly 2 years now) tried to tell me I wasn't allowed a little "me time" every now and then... yeah, he wouldn't be my boyfriend for much longer. Likewise, I would never question the legitimacy of our relationship just because I'm not always available to satisfy his natural, human urges.

Captcha: "golly jeepers." Couldn't have put it better myself, captcha.

 

[Lugbzurg]

Ok. I'm going to be completely serious with you.

Talk to her about it. Make sure that was actually her.

If it was, leave her. She obviously does not value you enough to keep her own body exclusive to the one man she would marry. If she's Spending her time showing off her body for other men, she is NOT the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. I took a special class in relationships and received my certificate of completion. Listen to what I have to say before your life is completely destroyed.

Disloyalty always kills the relationship.