So, there's this girl at school that I've been casually dating for a while now, and it started getting serious about a week ago. Yesterday I saw a banner ad on a website that linked to several pornographic videos. What caught my attention was an eerie feeling that I recognized one of the girls, so I clicked on the link. I'm 98% sure it's her, but I don't know if I want to bring it up or not.
I don't have a problem with it, if she is, but I'm afraid of what impact it would have on us as a couple this early in the relationship, and even more afraid of what would happen if I ask and it wasn't her. What would you do in this situation?
EDIT: I am an American, in University and the girl in question is 21.
EDIT: I decided not telling her would be the smart, safe and logical thing to do. So I asked her, it's her. She did it needing the money and has stopped, although she hasn't ruled out doing it again if she's tight on cash. We're still together.
I don't have a problem with it, if she is, but I'm afraid of what impact it would have on us as a couple this early in the relationship, and even more afraid of what would happen if I ask and it wasn't her. What would you do in this situation?
EDIT: I am an American, in University and the girl in question is 21.
EDIT: I decided not telling her would be the smart, safe and logical thing to do. So I asked her, it's her. She did it needing the money and has stopped, although she hasn't ruled out doing it again if she's tight on cash. We're still together.