So, my girlfriend is in porn and I don't know what to do.

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Depends OP. If it is her what would you do? Speaking personally I would terminate the relationship, but your take could differ. Do bear in mind however that it is a tad hypocritical dumping a girl for being in porn if you only found out by watching porn.

Really I would recommend being really sure that it was her.

But it's up to you what to do then.

Sorry I can't help more.
 

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Number 1: Link.

Number 2: Nice.

Number 3: A lot of porn sites steal images of girls they find on the internet. So unless it was in HD and she was naked, I wouldn't worry about it. Not for the fact that she's done porn, at any rate. You may still want to see about getting her image removed.

Number 4: Link.
 

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No links for any of you! :p I'm fine with them existing, but I certainly won't be spreading them around xD. Besides, this is the internet, you can find plenty of your own!

Also, I'm fairly certain it's for naught, since I just remembered that she's friends with this account on here. It's entirely possible that she has seen that I made a thread on the internet about it. I think I be boned.

Kendarik said:
PureChaos said:
Stu35 said:
Panzer_God said:
So, there's this girl at school

So, my girlfriend is in porn and I don't know what to do.

at school
... Informing the police might be an idea?


However, I would suggest that the odds are it's just someone who looks a lot like her (I've seen plenty of girls in porn who look like girls I know, and a couple that I had to spend a lot of time investigating to make sure it wasn't).
I'm quite surprised U had to go this far down the thread before someone other than me picked up on the 'in school' part. I'm with you, though, most likely it's just someone that looks similar.
School can refer to places people can go above the age of consent.
By school, I should have clarified. We're University students and above the legal age of consent.

Sargent Hoofbeat said:
Let us pretend that you did ask her and she said "Yes I was in a porn"

How would you react?
How I think I'd react? "Awesome!!!!!!"

How I'd probably react? "Oh, okay. Well, whatever." and then later "AWESOME!"

Ickorus said:
Don't do it.

See this post? [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.377210-The-most-awkward-moment-you-can-remember?page=2#14717344]

Yeah, I was in your shoes and I was wrong. So very, very wrong. (I was also 98% sure)
I'm pretty sure I made fun of you at some point later in that thread too.... Hmm. I feel like a dick now.

OhJohnNo said:
Best thread title ever. Just wanted to throw that in.
Why thank you.

Zhukov said:
Wait, you really can't tell for sure? That seems odd. Surely you'd know your girlfriend's face.

Oh man, I can only imagine her reaction if you ask her about it and it isn't her.
Facial recognition is difficult considering the shitty lighting and camera angles typically found in pornography. That's why I'm only almost certain.
 

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You guys know you can be in school at 18 right? *facepalm*
Or at 16, which is legal in most countries.

Or at 15, which is legal in a couple of European countries, like Sweden.

Or at 14, which is legal in Japan, Saudi Arabia and Iceland.

Or at 13 OH GOD YOU SICK FUCKS YOU, EGYPT!
Are you sure it's legal for them to Star in porn at those ages, or just have sex?
Because in NZ, where I am, you can have intercourse at 16, but the age limit of porn is still 18
I'm sure you can have intercourse at any age. In U.S., there's no age restriction on selling condoms.
Perhaps, but you still cannot have intercourse at any age, you must be 18
For example, if someone over 18 has intercourse with someone under 18 it is considered to be a form of rape, and if two people under 18 have intercourse, it is still illegal.
I find it highly ironic that in the UK you can have sex with another person at 16, but can't watch other people having sex until you're 18. Just doesn't make sense.

So technically, you could film yourself at 16, but can't watch it back for another 2 years (That is, if you actually cared).
 

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Boyninja616 said:
Random Fella said:
mysecondlife said:
Random Fella said:
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You guys know you can be in school at 18 right? *facepalm*
Or at 16, which is legal in most countries.

Or at 15, which is legal in a couple of European countries, like Sweden.

Or at 14, which is legal in Japan, Saudi Arabia and Iceland.

Or at 13 OH GOD YOU SICK FUCKS YOU, EGYPT!
Are you sure it's legal for them to Star in porn at those ages, or just have sex?
Because in NZ, where I am, you can have intercourse at 16, but the age limit of porn is still 18
I'm sure you can have intercourse at any age. In U.S., there's no age restriction on selling condoms.
Perhaps, but you still cannot have intercourse at any age, you must be 18
For example, if someone over 18 has intercourse with someone under 18 it is considered to be a form of rape, and if two people under 18 have intercourse, it is still illegal.
I find it highly ironic that in the UK you can have sex with another person at 16, but can't watch other people having sex until you're 18. Just doesn't make sense.

So technically, you could film yourself at 16, but can't watch it back for another 2 years (That is, if you actually cared).
That was actually New Zealand, but I see your point. I'd still prefer that to "NO SEX UNTIL 18!" that America's got going on. Let me tell you, ages 16-18 SUCKED because I was afraid that I'd go to jail.
 

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thiosk said:
This is objectively good advice.

However, since when are people known to follow good advice? Especially related to men and feelings??

No, whatever you do- DON'T talk to her. Ever! Rummage through her underwear drawer and start collecting DNA samples from everything! While she's watching. Carry little bags and q-tips around with you everwhere, swabbing and sealing.

Then start casually asking weird questions about pornography, and put toothpaste on the toilet seat.
Seems legit. I NOW KNOW WHAT I MUST DO!

Legion said:
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Come on guys, all you have to do is click on his avatar and look at his profile. American. Born in 1985. We're not talking about teenagers here.

I'm British too, but I picked up on the fact that Americans call university "school" or "college" after about 10 minutes of using these forums :p
A valid point, but nobody should have to go rooting through a persons personal profile to glean information relevant to their post.

That'd be like creating a post about a news story, assuming everybody knows about it and discussing it without any link and as though no explanation is needed.

As prickish as these points makes me sound, I stand by them.
Those are legitimate points, and I should have clarified. It just never occurred to me that there would be confusion, less out of assuming people already knew, and more forgetting that the internet is a place where people actually would post a thread about underage pornography.

Mick Golden Blood said:
Talking to her about it is the worst thing you could do.

Just lock that memory somewhere in your mind and sleep it off.

Besides, how odd would it be to say you've been watching porn... of her... (Whether or not that's what you did, that IS (IS IS IS IS) how she will take it. She won't give a fuck that you said you saw it in an ad no matter what the hell you say she'll think you watched the/a video of her.
A fair assumption, since I totally did watch the linked video. I'm weak, sue me xD.
 

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Panzer_God said:
No links for any of you! :p I'm fine with them existing, but I certainly won't be spreading them around xD. Besides, this is the internet, you can find plenty of your own!

Also, I'm fairly certain it's for naught, since I just remembered that she's friends with this account on here. It's entirely possible that she has seen that I made a thread on the internet about it. I think I be boned.
Oh uh sure man we get it.

Link us all individually to it in PMs! It's for the greater good! We can help you decide if she's relationship material!
 

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I'd get the fuck out of that quick. She fucks other guys [presumably] for money? ew. I'd consider it the same as dating a prostitute.
 

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Almost every site where you can post your pictures (social media sites like Facebook and Twitter are the worst), you immediately enter a legal clause they have in their terms and agreements that states that they can sell the use of YOUR pictures (or anything that you willingly post on their website, to be honest) to other companies. Some of these companies are porn companies...
It's a lot like Google selling your search information to companies so they can advertise shit to you (and still get it wrong, because they're retarded).
So that may have been your girlfriend you saw in the advertisement, but that doesn't mean she's done porn. Hope that puts your mind at ease, or at least helps a bit. :)

I've removed all of my pictures from Facebook, and refuse to post anymore, though apparently they actually store the pictures, so once you post them online, they can NEVER come off again. The internet is dark and full of terrors...
 

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Spanishax said:
Almost every site where you can post your pictures (social media sites like Facebook and Twitter are the worst), you immediately enter a legal clause they have in their terms and agreements that states that they can sell the use of YOUR pictures (or anything that you willingly post on their website, to be honest) to other companies. Some of these companies are porn companies...
It's a lot like Google selling your search information to companies so they can advertise shit to you (and still get it wrong, because they're retarded).
So that may have been your girlfriend you saw in the advertisement, but that doesn't mean she's done porn. Hope that puts your mind at ease, or at least helps a bit. :)
Thanks, but it wasn't just a porn advertisement. It was also a porn video.

Troublesome Lagomorph said:
I'd get the fuck out of that quick. She fucks other guys [presumably] for money? ew. I'd consider it the same as dating a prostitute.
The weird thing is, I wouldn't mind that. At least then she can support me xD
 

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Panzer_God said:
Spanishax said:
Almost every site where you can post your pictures (social media sites like Facebook and Twitter are the worst), you immediately enter a legal clause they have in their terms and agreements that states that they can sell the use of YOUR pictures (or anything that you willingly post on their website, to be honest) to other companies. Some of these companies are porn companies...
It's a lot like Google selling your search information to companies so they can advertise shit to you (and still get it wrong, because they're retarded).
So that may have been your girlfriend you saw in the advertisement, but that doesn't mean she's done porn. Hope that puts your mind at ease, or at least helps a bit. :)
Thanks, but it wasn't just a porn advertisement. It was also a porn video.

Troublesome Lagomorph said:
I'd get the fuck out of that quick. She fucks other guys [presumably] for money? ew. I'd consider it the same as dating a prostitute.
The weird thing is, I wouldn't mind that. At least then she can support me xD
Good luck if she gets an STD, then.
 

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Panzer_God said:
Erana said:
If it makes you uncomfortable, talk to her about it. A relationship can't work too well on an emotional level if there isn't open communication about your feelings.
Well, that's a lot simpler than my train of thought was.
It really is, isn't it? :p

Every successful relationship has the couple in question able to communicate effectively. ALL OF THEM. Take this as your first major step in it.
 

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Just my two cents? 98% sure actually sounds very flimsy. If you're not 100% sure after seeing the video than it sounds to me like it's not actually her.

Also, do you go to school in LA? Because if you don't, the odds of it being her go down by a fairly hefty percentage.
 

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I dated someone who was in porn too, but I found out about it when she told me about it... and then showed me stuff she'd done... :p :D
 

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Panzer_God said:
Boyninja616 said:
Random Fella said:
mysecondlife said:
Random Fella said:
Metalhandkerchief said:
Random Fella said:
You guys know you can be in school at 18 right? *facepalm*
Or at 16, which is legal in most countries.

Or at 15, which is legal in a couple of European countries, like Sweden.

Or at 14, which is legal in Japan, Saudi Arabia and Iceland.

Or at 13 OH GOD YOU SICK FUCKS YOU, EGYPT!
Are you sure it's legal for them to Star in porn at those ages, or just have sex?
Because in NZ, where I am, you can have intercourse at 16, but the age limit of porn is still 18
I'm sure you can have intercourse at any age. In U.S., there's no age restriction on selling condoms.
Perhaps, but you still cannot have intercourse at any age, you must be 18
For example, if someone over 18 has intercourse with someone under 18 it is considered to be a form of rape, and if two people under 18 have intercourse, it is still illegal.
I find it highly ironic that in the UK you can have sex with another person at 16, but can't watch other people having sex until you're 18. Just doesn't make sense.

So technically, you could film yourself at 16, but can't watch it back for another 2 years (That is, if you actually cared).
That was actually New Zealand, but I see your point. I'd still prefer that to "NO SEX UNTIL 18!" that America's got going on. Let me tell you, ages 16-18 SUCKED because I was afraid that I'd go to jail.
It's all the same Commonwealth. The same applies in the UK.

Frankly, no-one cares that underage people watch porn (no-one important anyway). I don't know of anyone who got in trouble with the Cops for watching porn while underage.