So, my girlfriend is in porn and I don't know what to do.

Not G. Ivingname

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Random Fella said:
You guys know you can be in school at 18 right? *facepalm*

OT: Watch all of the videos, all of them, get a better idea, learn what she lik...
Oh I mean, just ask her, well, actually, maybe do it a bit subtle like
True, and this might be college as well.

Although, I was under the impression the porn industry generally avoided having people claiming they just turned 18, because their have been numerous lawsuits when it turns out the girl in question was just 17.
 

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Mandalore_15 said:
Panzer_God said:
She did it needing the money and has stopped, although she hasn't ruled out doing it again if she's tight on cash.
Run a mile and don't look back. Seriously.
Why? Hell, I'd do it if I were able. It's REALLY good money.

Abandon4093 said:
Kanatatsu said:
get tested
I'd imagine an industry built around sex regularly tests it's actors to avoid massive liability further down the line. Especially after the whole HIV mess in the 80's.

OT: As to your second edit mate, good for you. I won't say that finding something like that out wouldn't present somewhat of a problem for me, but I'd like to think I'd be mature enough to work through it.

So well done. Your obviously more mature in relationship matters than 99% of the people who posted in this thread. Then again, would that come as a surprise really?
They do, and it's not maturity, it's that I don't care. I'm not doing a big self-sacrificing thing, it just doesn't bother me at all. Thanks though.
 

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I remember when I started doing pornography. My girlfriend was disturbingly enthusiastic about it, mostly because it was just gay bdsm, and she's a massive yaoi sort. Not that she's massive, she's tiny.
 

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Now THATS what I call a first world problem. "Help, my girlfriend might be a pornstar!" is probably not the most heartstring tugging plight I have ever heard if im honest.
 

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Ickorus said:
Don't do it.

See this post? [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.377210-The-most-awkward-moment-you-can-remember?page=2#14717344]

Yeah, I was in your shoes and I was wrong. So very, very wrong. (I was also 98% sure)
Huh, when I was in that thread I wondered what was your embarrassing experience that you couldn't talk about. Was it really that awkward?
 

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Anti Nudist Cupcake said:
Ickorus said:
Don't do it.

See this post? [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.377210-The-most-awkward-moment-you-can-remember?page=2#14717344]

Yeah, I was in your shoes and I was wrong. So very, very wrong. (I was also 98% sure)
Huh, when I was in that thread I wondered what was your embarrassing experience that you couldn't talk about. Was it really that awkward?
It was, it's one of those things that sneaks up on you when you least expect it and makes you want to curl up into a ball and disappear.

It happened over 4 years ago and it still can give me sleepless nights when it catches me unawares.
 

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Panzer_God said:
Mandalore_15 said:
Panzer_God said:
She did it needing the money and has stopped, although she hasn't ruled out doing it again if she's tight on cash.
Run a mile and don't look back. Seriously.
Why? Hell, I'd do it if I were able. It's REALLY good money.
So let me get this straight... you'd be fine with your girlfriend going off and fucking some other guy on camera, for the whole internet to see, if she was short of cash?
 

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Mandalore_15 said:
Panzer_God said:
She did it needing the money and has stopped, although she hasn't ruled out doing it again if she's tight on cash.
Run a mile and don't look back. Seriously.
Agreed...

Having done it in the past is questionable enough, but the past is the past and it's not really fair to be too judgmental over such things, and depending on the particulars of the porn, it might not have been a big deal in the first place. Not something I'd likely be okay with, but whatever.

But, when your girlfriend outright tells she hasn't ruled out maybe / sometimes fucking other people on camera for money in the future, that's not really a good indicator for a lasting relationship...

But hey,, maybe you're into that sort of stuff and the two of you will do just fine with it, who knows. Good luck..
 
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Mandalore_15 said:
Panzer_God said:
Mandalore_15 said:
Panzer_God said:
She did it needing the money and has stopped, although she hasn't ruled out doing it again if she's tight on cash.
Run a mile and don't look back. Seriously.
Why? Hell, I'd do it if I were able. It's REALLY good money.
So let me get this straight... you'd be fine with your girlfriend going off and fucking some other guy on camera, for the whole internet to see, if she was short of cash?
Some people are that comfortable with their relationship.
 

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Not G. Ivingname said:
Random Fella said:
You guys know you can be in school at 18 right? *facepalm*

OT: Watch all of the videos, all of them, get a better idea, learn what she lik...
Oh I mean, just ask her, well, actually, maybe do it a bit subtle like
True, and this might be college as well.

Although, I was under the impression the porn industry generally avoided having people claiming they just turned 18, because their have been numerous lawsuits when it turns out the girl in question was just 17.
I think they do better background checks now'days
Then again, the cheaper ones might not, but I don't really know to be honest in this case, would have to ask OP her age
 

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Metalhandkerchief said:
Random Fella said:
You guys know you can be in school at 18 right? *facepalm*
Or at 16, which is legal in most countries.

Or at 15, which is legal in a couple of European countries, like Sweden.

Or at 14, which is legal in Japan, Saudi Arabia and Iceland.

Or at 13 OH GOD YOU SICK FUCKS YOU, EGYPT!
I'm sure someone else has told you this, but just in case.
Age of consent =/= legal age to appear in porn.
 

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superbatranger said:
Mandalore_15 said:
Panzer_God said:
Mandalore_15 said:
Panzer_God said:
She did it needing the money and has stopped, although she hasn't ruled out doing it again if she's tight on cash.
Run a mile and don't look back. Seriously.
Why? Hell, I'd do it if I were able. It's REALLY good money.
So let me get this straight... you'd be fine with your girlfriend going off and fucking some other guy on camera, for the whole internet to see, if she was short of cash?
Some people are that comfortable with their relationship.
I don't think wanting your girlfriend to be monogomous means you're uncomfortable in your relationship. It just means you're different to people who don't think it's important.

Obviously I have nothing against people who are not monogomous (except when they act high-and-mighty and think all monogomous people are prudes- sadly I've met some like that).

EDIT: Thinking that through, it does raise a question for the OP- Are you just comfortable with her doing porn or would you be comfortable also with her going with other guys for fun?
 

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superbatranger said:
Mandalore_15 said:
Some people are that comfortable with their relationship.
I don't think wanting your girlfriend to be monogomous means you're uncomfortable in your relationship. It just means you're different to people who don't think it's important.

Obviously I have nothing against people who are not monogomous (except when they act high-and-mighty and think all monogomous people are prudes- sadly I've met some like that).

EDIT: Thinking that through, it does raise a question for the OP- Are you just comfortable with her doing porn or would you be comfortable also with her going with other guys for fun?
Yeah, I'd be fine with either. To me it only matters that she comes back to me. I don't think it makes you a prude, I'm just extremely open.
 

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I had something similar happen to me last summer. It really was a link that was e-mailed to me by someone that knew us both when we were youger, and this person expressed concern over her doing this sort of thing. Apparently this person thought we still associated with each other and was concerned about her well-being and wanted me to talk some sense into her.

I was 99% sure it was a girl I was in love with (and dated) many years ago. It broke my heart. fortunately for my sanity, it was not her after all. However, it REALLY fucked me up for a week or so.