You've sort of cut your own argument off at the legs though with this part: 'they say it because they know they're about to say something that may be taken as racist.', 'may be taken' being the key part.ShadowStar42 said:While I agree that there is a big difference between ignorance and racism, you're example here is really flawed. People don't say "I'm not racist but..." because they're ignorant, they say it because they know they're about to say something that may be taken as racist. That's the opposite of ignorance. Racism isn't as simple as thinking that you're better than someone, is it thinking all of a certain type of people can be judged as the same. Saying "ooh, get the black guy for our basket ball team" may piss less people off then saying "let's not pick the black guy for the swim team" but it's no less racist.Robert Marrs said:By real racists I mean people who openly hate other races. Generally people who say "I'm not racist but..." just have misconceptions or are about to quote a stereotype. Since really all people stereotype other people to some extent I wouldn't really call adding ignorance on top of that racism. Its just ignorance. It does not mean they necessarily hate or think they are better than the race they about the stereotype when they say that phrase. The people who use that phrase are a part of the other group I mentioned in my post. The people who are extremely afraid of being labeled a racist. When they say "I'm not racist but..." they mean " I don't hate or think I am better than (insert race) but (insert stereotype)". That's just ignorance. Big difference if you ask me.
Since racism has devolved so much into people's personal opinions of what they think is racist, saying "I'm not a racist, but" is nothing more than attempting to cover your ass from the people who use racism as an excuse and argument for damn near everything. Nowadays people talk about 'racist code words' and 'racist dog whistling', which is basically just a way of saying 'the person didn't actually say anything strictly racist, but I just KNOW they are racist". It's why people can say things like "anyone who thinks we need welfare reform is really just a racist" or "anyone who has issues with our current immigration policies is a racist" and people nod their heads in agreement. It's pretty much the ultimate argument trump card, because it's such an insult in this day and age that the moment you call someone a racist, they are immediately on the defensive. So what if you don't REALLY know that they are a racist, the burden is on them to prove now that they aren't.
That's why people caveat their statements with "I'm not a racist, but..", to attempt to undermine that knee-jerk argument before it's utilized.