Well... I better post this up before I say anything.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xyq5yu3_dGQ
Now, I feel like PSN needs to be MASSIVELY upgraded before it charges for anything. XBL is so good because it's constantly upgraded, making it more user friendly. It seems like XBL is better for having fun and keeping in touch with friends. You and your friends can now watch movies together in an XBOX live party, it seems stupid, but the idea is actually quite neat!
I also found that PSN has a nasty habit of getting... overloaded I guess. Basically, it was hard as hell to get into a game on MW2 the first week or so it was out, and I have dynamite internet.
I don't mind PSN charging, but I feel like they will have to do a lot to catch up to XBL.
EDIT:: Also, by charging, PSN will only get better. Don't complaing about paying for something if it will only get BETTER.