I'm just curious, have you tried the iPhone? I usually buy the crappy cheap phones, but I decided to get an iPhone when it was my birthday because my dad's friend could get a nice discount. I wasn't expecting much, but it is worth the price, especially when you jailbreak it and you can do whatever the fuck you want.PrimoThePro said:Your views are very mature. Most kids your age think they "need" that new Iphone or something. It's stupid. And I most vehemently agree. You save money, and you still get all that you need.shootthebandit said:am i just young and niave or do you agree?
its acceptable if you buy the latest ipod to listen to your favourite music but NOT acceptable if you buy it merely to show off to your peers.Kagim said:Its not about feeling a void in your life however. It's not the object that makes you happy. It's about enjoying what you have while you have it. My big screen HD TV isn't a defining part of my life, but it is still pretty kick ass. I mean, my old sixteen inch SD tv worked fine enough, but i saved the money and bought myself something cool. Something still a year later i stop and look at it and go "God damn thats a nice tv."Blue_vision said:I personally don't get why you'd want them in the first place. I mean really, how happy does a luxury car, nice clothes and a huge ass house make you? While you could be getting by just fine with an apartment and bicycle or transit tokens.
The opposite is just as bad, which would be resigning yourself to a life of mediocrity. I mean, if you spent the 8-12 years becoming a fully licensed surgeon, spending the thousands of dollars to get your degrees, and your reward was just enough money for a one bedroom apartment, just enough money for food and a bus pass every month would you not feel the least bit ripped off? You spent a tenth, if not more, of your natural life learning to save lives and your reward is to keep yourself alive.It's not so much status symbols as excess itself. "I can get it so why shouldn't I" is a big problem that's taking a toll on society and the environment.
If that was the reward, can you honestly see many people putting themselves through the process?
Achievement and reward. That's how humans, and all living creatures run. No one strives for the stars just so they can eat a can of fried spam for dinner.
At what point does simple end and excess begin. Currently you are sitting in front of a computer with an internet connection with enough free time to chat in a forum? Could you not live without it? Wouldn't you, or your parents, be saving the 50+ bucks a month if you cut internet out of your life? What about video games? Movies? Music. My point is where exactly is the line of simplicity? Is it simply placed within what is your means NOW?I say be happy with simple things, and let the social aspect of your life be what brings you up.
In that are you not living in excess, and simply moved what is considered living simply to define your position in life? After all. Why are you here, spending money to access a forum when you could be outside for free with your friends?
Whats odd about the environment part is that the more expensive you go the more earth friendly the tech gets. Expensive homes have hundreds of bits of technology to help the environment. From solar powered roofs the water heated flooring to hybrid cars. Quite honestly a gas fueled city bus doing its laps for the day is more harmful to the environment then a single person driving hybrid.You're being good to the environment for taking up a significantly lower footprint for what's really little to no modification in happiness, and you're being good to yourself by making yourself work less like a slave to buy these nice things you're convinced you need.
As well this goes back to the mediocrity thing earlier. Doctors, engineers, scientists. These people work like slaves to get where they are and to earn the big bucks.
Not to mention there is a difference between doing something to fill your life with objects and working hard and making yourself more comfortable. There's a balance.
I apologize if any of that sounds rude. I know how i come off sometimes and i really do not mean to.Just my two cents though.
it would be different if you bought a piano simply as an ornament but since you are actually a pianist then its a worthwhile purchaseSexual Harassment Panda said:I don't take things seriously enough to care about status symbols. I certainly don't want to gear my life towards working my ass off to buy ridiculously nice things.
Having said that...I would love to have a kickass grand piano. I made the mistake of having a whirl on a £7000 piano in a shop down town, I sounded great...and I'm a pretty iffy player.
call me niave but id much rather drive a cheaper car (which will also have cheaper tax and insurance), live in a smaller house with comfortable furniture and buy cheaper clothes so that when i do have money to burn ill save it up and ensure that if/when i have children they have money to help them have the best opertunitiesZeeky_Santos said:You're young and naive. You'll soon understand that when you have money to burn you damn well tell the fucking world about it. It's human to want more than that other guy with, it's even more human to want to be the other guy.shootthebandit said:i dont understand why people drive big expensive cars when a cheap reliable car has the same purpose. same applies for houses and designer branded clothes.
i just dont see the point, its just pointless spending. id much rather have people respect me for my personality rather than my house, car or shirt (you can still dress smartly on a budget) so i dont see the point in these rediculous status symbols. dont get me started on mobile(cell) phones.
am i just young and niave or do you agree?
It's really no different to your car example, though. I have a cheap piano that works fine, it gets me from "A" to "B" without tipping over or exploding...shootthebandit said:it would be different if you bought a piano simply as an ornament but since you are actually a pianist then its a worthwhile purchaseSexual Harassment Panda said:I don't take things seriously enough to care about status symbols. I certainly don't want to gear my life towards working my ass off to buy ridiculously nice things.
Having said that...I would love to have a kickass grand piano. I made the mistake of having a whirl on a £7000 piano in a shop down town, I sounded great...and I'm a pretty iffy player.
its like buying a PS3 simply because you can afford it and i ends up being and expensive paperweight, whereas if you are a gamer then its a worthwhile purchase.
Well, yes I have tried it out, but you know, when a friend will just take your iPhone and play around with it, that kind of thing. I was talking about the kids who get ALL of the iPhones, and the second iPhone 4 comes out they HAVE to have it, if they don't they'll "die". All I'm trying to say is, if you didn't really need it, there is no point in getting it. But you see, I am an old hermit, and therefore my views are... dated at best.Jasper Jeffs said:I'm just curious, have you tried the iPhone? I usually buy the crappy cheap phones, but I decided to get an iPhone when it was my birthday because my dad's friend could get a nice discount. I wasn't expecting much, but it is worth the price, especially when you jailbreak it and you can do whatever the fuck you want.PrimoThePro said:Your views are very mature. Most kids your age think they "need" that new Iphone or something. It's stupid. And I most vehemently agree. You save money, and you still get all that you need.shootthebandit said:am i just young and niave or do you agree?
Like, just yesterday I had no idea where this cinema was in town, so I went on to the maps app, typed in my destination and the postal code of the cinema, and it gave me a walking route. I found my way there with no problem. That's when a phone goes beyond its duty and just becomes a fucking hero.
OT: I agree with what you say, but I always weigh things up. Like, some people might think I'm stupid for buying (for example) a 20 pound shirt, but that shirt will last me longer and be more comfortable than say 4 shirts that shrink after every wash.