That one part of Geek culture you never got into

Bizzaro Stormy

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As has been stated earlier when it became a culture. Specifically I find the show the Big Bang Theory absolutely repellant. I will never forget the episode where one character asked another the question, when did slavery end in the United States? The answer that it was 1863 when the Emancipation Proclamation was published absolutely hurt my head and made me wonder if the writers had made it too high school let alone passed.

When I was a kid a nerd was someone who studied more than played sports, resulting in higher grades in school but fewer friends. A geek was someone incredibly socially awkward who usually gravitated towards the nerds as a way to find acceptance. A smart jock managed to find a balance between the two and was usually very popular with everyone. The whole nerd thing did lead to more intellectual forms of entertainment like science fiction, the older stuff that focused on hard science in particular, and studying of different cultures and languages, which is why some folks fixated on the various parts of the orient. It is worth remembering that Egyptology was the big nerd culture piece of the early 20th century rather than Japan.

These days it feels like Geek Culture consists of watching too much television as a way to escape the burdens of the real world, while simultaneously making grand sweeping statements about the world in an effort to seem relevant. I've messed with a little of everything Geek Culture related but I'd happily burn it to the ground if it got people to actually read a few non-fiction books again. Especially reading ones written before they were born.
 

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" consider myself fairly open-minded when it comes to fandoms, but I always found the obsession with MLP stupid and juvenile. This is coming from someone who enjoyed Powerpuff Girls and Foster's Home of Imaginary Friends."

I never really had a problem with the MLP craze, but I do have an issue with how hostile some of the fans can be to those who don't share their enjoyment of it. I had 2 people on a website, tell me to "fuck off" and "you clearly have no soul", and they were being serious when they said this, when I simply said "I'm not a fan of the show personally." That's all I said, and they respond with some highly negative, and directly insulting comments. Which I found really funny, considering they were fans of a show that was all about accepting other people for their differences, and respecting them being different from you. Apparently they didn't really absorb that lesson very well.
 

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MLP, I really tried to get into it but I found the plots to be clichéd and the characters to be very generic and uninteresting.
 

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Amusingly, I have an old document about this very topic I wanted to use for a blog post. Looking at it now, it's rather outdated, but I'll just skim the relevant bits:

Tabletop gaming: I've only done it once, and had such a horrible experience with it, to the point where I have an antagonistic relationship with Dragonlance (and to a much smaller extent, new World of Darkness). Having said that, I really do enjoy watching people play, or listening to podcasts of that variety. I may give it a shot some day, but I doubt it'll be anytime soon.

Certain TV shows: Babylon 5, Battlestar Galactica, Doctor Who, Firefly, Game of Thrones, G.I. Joe, Transformers, and Rocco's Modern Life. I suppose it didn't help that I've only had cable during a brief 1-2 year period in my life, and by that time I didn't have the patience to sit down and watch a full TV series. My Netflix account is collecting dust.

Anime: I'm not one of those people who hates everything anime, but unless I'm watching with friends I don't go out of my way to get into the hobby. I've seen enough to know what I like and don't like, so at least I have that going for me.

Literature: Dune (fucking Dune), Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones, James Patterson,

Honorable mentions: Scott Pilgrim, Big Bang Theory, web comics, recent cartoon shows, and any comic book that's been out in the last ten years or so. As a disclaimer: I'm not saying I don't like these things, just saying that I never got into them. Except for Scott Pilgrim: I'm comfortable with my stance on that.

Dishonorable mentions: Bioware games. I had a good friend back in high school essentially force-feed to me, in order: KOTOR, KOTOR 2, Jade Empire, and then Dragon Age: Origins. By the time I got to Mass Effect, I was essentially done with the company. Yes, I realize that they've been going in new directions lately, but I'm already burned out.
 

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Most anime, especially manga. Confusing layouts, ridiculous overdramatization, weak, whining little boys as protagonists, women who are either harmless, nauseatingly adorable kittens or screaming psychopaths....eh.

Most multiplayer games, especially the more toxic ones like CoD or LoL. If you're going to mute everyone -- and I would -- why are you playing against people?
 

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Well, there's... uh no... I got into that...
Or how about... eh no... I can see the appeal...
Oh! What about... uh fuck... I dab into that fandom, anyway...

Hmmmm... Does learning a fictional language only associated with the particular show/series count? That's the only thing I can think of where it's the closest thing to the "perfect obscure inside joke" in a nerd/geek-based community...
 

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- eastern geek culture: anime/manga/ not even much of nintendo! except Pokémon. I love Pokémon
- Online/competitive gaming (Wow, Dota, Lol, TF2...)
- KITTENS/cats!!! why do geeks love cats? i will never understand
- some specific things:
- dr. Who: i watched it, but the universe is so arbitrary
- Marvel: yeah i enjoyed some of the movies, but the hype?
- MLP: but that's very niche i suppose?
- Star wars :i watched the original trilogy and i was disappointed. I don't get how this universe became THE defining geek universe? (this is a legit question, so if you can explain, please do not hesitate :) )
 

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If we're talking specific things, far too many to list. I'm the kind of guy who likes some anime but hates far more of it. I like sci fi but hate Star Wars, thinks 2001 A Space Odyssey was a chore to sit through and think Dr Who is dumb. The more I go on the more I will draw ire from all corners :p

If we're talking more generally, then I don't think there isn't something I haven't dabbled in or have some interest in at least. I've been quite open about the avenues of things.
 

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For me the one thing I never could wrap my head around was fan shipping. I'd never really thought about it as a thing when I was younger, but once my interests became more and more internet based I've come across it in the weirdest and most appalling of places. I can respect fan fiction in general (thought I don't read any myself), so it always comes as a bit of a shock when it crops up in my feeds (deviant art is filthy with it).
 

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Anime,I have really tried to get into and have had a couple of friends show me the "good" stuff, but it just never grabbed me. The overdone style, humor that doesn't work, overacting, convoluted but ultimately pointless plots, filler episodes and the fandom.
I sometimes watch some anime again, but I always have the same reaction in the end: "Nope, still not for me". Although I do have a couple of things I like:

Akira, only the movie, the manga was way too long and overwrought, even if it gave more context to who and what Akira was.

Ghost in the Shell - The original movie and the first season of Stand Alone Complex

I am much more into tabletop gaming, both RPGs and boardgames and I actually had an experience with anime that made me realize how a nerdy fandom looks to an outsider.
One of my friends who was way into anime had talked me into going to J-Popcon, one of the first anime cons in Denmark. I was not super convinced I would have a good time, but I had been to a bunch of RPG cons, so I thought what the hell it might be fun and I was actively trying to get into anime at the time.
But holy shit, this was such a bizarre nightmare for me, I had a feeling of being surrounded by this alien tribe with customs I did not understand, who was way too into something, I at best thought was kinda ok. This was in 2003 or thereabouts, so I had not really seen cosplay on the internet and never IRL, and here was a bunch of people doing it at me. My friend bought a Naruto headband and walked around in public with it on. A couple of guys was watching anime in the dorms, with (badly) homemade kimonos and Geta, which seemed to made from wood scraps in shop class.
I had to bail, after the initial day I fell "ill" and left. Luckily (for him) my friend had also brought his girlfriend, so I was also third wheel, which only added to the intense awkwardness I felt.
But this ordeal also gave me a new perspective on my own nerd crowd, the roleplayers, we also have lot of weird customs and in-crowd lingo and knowledge. So I know how intimidating and weird that can seem to an outsider, which means I know how to moderate my conversation and behavior if there is any normies present.
 
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It would probably be quicker to list what I have got into at some point:

Tabletop/RPG: Warhammer/40K (& novels, computer games etc), Cyberpunk 2020, 2nd ed ADnD, Twilight 2000.

Comics: Judge Dredd/2000AD, Masamune Shirow's Manga, OOtS

TV/film: The Simpsons, Futurama, Aliens, Red Dwarf,

Gaming wise:Bethesda FPRPGs, FPS, 4X. The Escapist & various game related humour.

That's it, if it's not one of those things then I'm probably not remotely interested or have had very minimal exposure.
 

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Oh God. It would be easier for me to answer what part of "Geek culture" that I AM into. Namely, video games and some tabletop games. Occasionally a card game or two, but that's it. I never got into comics, I rarely watch TV, if ever, and anime and manga? I fell out of that YEARS ago. Seriously, around the time that I unsubscribed to Shonen Jump, which was a month after it went digital. After that, I just kinda stopped reading it, and I just lost interest. Whenever someone tells me about an anime that they like a lot, I watch the first few episodes and I stop for one reason or another.
 

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Comics or manga. I just find it to be too much for too little. I would much rather just wait for the show or the movie to come out. Comics and manga just seem like too much work.
 
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Any anime/manga stuff. Even by my standards of geekiness, which is not inconsiderable, I find the whole thing to be bizarre and weird. I'm all for live and let live and all that jazz, but those who are into anime and whatnot are seriously weird even to me.
 

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Tabletop, too expensive. a shame cuz wh40k looks like a blast

Anime. It does it's job well for the most part, but I can't enjoy most of it. Although some of the shows are amazing IMO, and sometimes even the sloppily written lesbian mech warrior vampire drama is just an interesting enough of a topic to pull me in.

Doujinshe's. Most of the Hentai I find that's any good is in singles. Doujinshes are usually just black and white poundings with semen flying everywhere. I can use my imagination to create a better image often.

Comics. I feel too much of it counts on pro wrestling style narrative. I enjoyed a lot of the comics I read actually, since the more you read of a series the better it gets. I just can't really go out of my way to get interested in a lot of comics.
 

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Bizzaro Stormy said:
As has been stated earlier when it became a culture. Specifically I find the show the Big Bang Theory absolutely repellant. I will never forget the episode where one character asked another the question, when did slavery end in the United States? The answer that it was 1863 when the Emancipation Proclamation was published absolutely hurt my head and made me wonder if the writers had made it too high school let alone passed.
Well, that's good. Most real geeks hate Big Bang Theory. It's not really made for geeks, it's made for the sort of people who have latched on to "geek culture" now that it's become fashionable. Whenever I see it, I'm always struck by the feeling that it was put together by a bunch of network executives sitting in a room trying to think of things geeks like rather than by actual geeks. It's sort of the geek equivalent of "Nanook of the North" - a show which purports to be about a culture made by outsiders who don't understand it, and don't really know it. As such, it has a lot of trappings of the culture it's showcasing, but is also filled with absolutely howling inaccuracies, and generally rings false to actual members of the culture it purports to portray.

As far as geek things I never got in to:

Cons. God, I don't know what people see in cons. Why would I spend money and rent a hotel room to go to a panel and listen to people talk about that thing I like when I could be home, enjoying that thing I like. Seriously, most con panels are the content equivalent of a DVD extra, and I don't even watch those. The only other reasons anyone ever goes to cons, as far as I can tell, are for exclusive merchandise and cosplay. And, well...

Collectible merchandise. I just don't get the appeal of having a massive, expensive statue of a character that just sits on your shelf. Or a $4,500, 5,000-piece lego Millennium Falcon. Who is this stuff even for? Who has that much disposable income? Anyway, yeah - I don't get collectibles.

Cosplay. I guess I can see the appeal, but it's just not for me.

A few other things people have mentioned that apply to me as well:
Bronies
Fanfiction
Esports/Let's Plays/Anything that involves watching someone else play a game
MMOs
 

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Sports.
Yes, I said sports.
If you watch the whole time football/baseball/basketball/etc matches and you know every single player and in what contidition they are and know all the coach had one specific team in all years and call other people losers because they don't know the thing you do, then you a geek for sports.
 

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Izanagi009 said:
Huh, anime seems to be a popular choice for this topic

If people need help, just ask me or any of the anime fans and we can introduce you to some shows.
It's funny because this is a trend I've noticed that is almost exclusive to anime. Whenever people say "well I don't like Star Trek", or "I don't like kung-fu movies", people rarely say "oh well you just need to watch this episode" or "watch this movie, then you'll love it!".

But for some reason, whenever people say they don't like anime, anime fans almost always respond with "well let me help you, you should watch this one, then you'll like it.". Can't I just not like something without you trying to convince me that I should just watch this and then I'll like it?