Honestly, I'm OK with the idea of everything being interconnected in a superhero movie, because otherwise we're left to believe that what starts out as, for all intents and purposes, "the real world" suddenly spawned a super-powered hero AND a rogues gallery of super-powered villains for them to fight through sheer coincidence. Though "interconnected" does not have to mean "literally planned out by a single entity to play out exactly as it did". That's not interesting to audiences because it's literally the least creative way to explain a series of events.
And don't even get me started on movies like Alice in Wonderland where the protagonist is told, up front, that it's their destiny to be the hero as if that's meant to be their motivation to actually be one. On the rare occasion that they go with it, the character ends up being thoroughly uninteresting because of what amounts to a complete lack of motivation; and all the times they reject the alleged destiny only to step up and become the hero later for other reasons, the whole destiny business served no real purpose other than to check off a box on the Joseph Campbell checklist.
I went back and watched Bob's review of Alice to see if that was one of the big things he complained about, like the Nostalgia Critic recently did, and it wasn't. Maybe he hadn't gotten nearly as sick of the cliché by that point. I think I would have cried foul if I had bothered to watch the movie.