DizzyChuggernaut said:
Look, there are risks to pretty much anything you do. By going outside you risk being mugged, by living in certain places you risk being caught in an earthquake, tornado, flood, volcanic eruption etc. By crossing the road when the traffic light indicates you can cross the road, you risk a driver ignoring the red light and hitting you.
The level of "responsibility" you are expecting of people is unreasonable. You compare publishing photos on social media to jumping off a bridge. I know you don't think the two are as severe, but the fact that you associate such an benign thing as uploading some selfies to Facebook or Tumblr with something that is guaranteed to cause harm is quite disturbing. Just because there are some socially inept misanthropists on 4chan, conveniently hiding behind shrouds of anonymity and holding no regard for social etiquette (whether out of being thick as shit or cruelty) doesn't mean that everyone should live in constant paranoia.
I don't know, I think it's more forethought that I demand.
Going with the "don't walk around in bad part of town at night" scenario, it's pretty obvious what happens when you dun goofed, and the desire to not get assaulted is pretty innate. Posting your photos on FB the consequents are much less black/white, and I'm speculating that the common response is "What's the worst that could happen, everyone else is doing it". The connection between antecedent and consequent is thus less obvious. And this is
after the events of the Fappening.
Given how many stories, how many "news" articles, how any "private" videos, how many scandals etc there have been where online photos are stolen/altered, it doesn't seem like a faraway thought to me that one should be careful. I absolutely believe that the level of forethought required is inverse to the amount of thinking that is needed to see the consequents, and here that level is low. Very low.
The bridge thing isn't actually a bridge thing - it's a classic zen koan for "If everyone was doing it, would you?", and even when I was growing up it was a classic, as I first saw it in Calvin and Hobbes. Here [http://uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/If_All_Your_Friends_Jumped_Off_A_Bridge] is the first thing I find on the koan, and here [https://xkcd.com/1170/] is another.
Also, misanthropists implicates a dedication that isn't present on /b/. It's for poops and giggles by people that do not care, not any hatred of humanity at large.
You know what? People in general might be a bit too eager to share things online, not knowing that anonymity allows for strangers to do pretty awful things. But that doesn't mean that the anonymous strangers are in the right.
This I feel is the center of the issue. Not the anonymity thing, that's tangential, but the vast distance between action and consequence when it comes to the internet (especially for those who do not understand the internet).
Essentially, you are doing stuff in the privacy of your own home (a private, safe, space), that is published in an international, vast, public space. You apply your private sensibilities (showering, walking around naked, speaking your mind without filtering and all those things you would never do in public) to stuff you say/do in a public space because you feel far more safe than you should. Not only that, but it's a massive space that includes
all cultures, not just your own kind that sort of understands you.
This is not how we have grown up to understand these spheres, and it's very different from how we perceive and interact with the physical world (IRL stuff). One needs to understand that it's different, not merely scream at the moon that it shouldn't be so.