Little Woodsman said:
You have my deepest sympathy for not having had a dad.
But here's the thing.
I'm a single dad. To be absolutely clear, when I say that what I mean is that I am raising & providing for my child
by myself. And my little girl is more important to me than everything and everyone else in the whole
world put together. She is my everything.
And when I read "But fuck dads man. They suck."--do you have any idea how that made me feel? Because I really don't
have the words to describe it.
I'm sure it was not your intent to hurt me, or anyone else, but please also be aware that there are good dads,
and guys who were just sperm donors.
It sounds like your biological father was/is not what I would define as a real father in any sense,
and once again you have my deepest sympathies.
But *please* do not paint me with the same brush as him.
Dude I was
joking. I'm sorry you took it that way, I should have added a few extra smileys or something
I would never be that ignorant as to seriously say there are no good dads ever. Now if my dad had actually done anything like say... Had a messy break up with my mum when I was 11, or cheated on her or some other stupid thing maybe that would have changed something
You don't need to feel sorry for me. You can't miss what you've never had as they say, fathers included in my case. I would only start to have an issue if he did try to waltz in after 19 years all "Oh son it's been ages, look at you. Sorry I was so stupid, we need to talk father to son."
I doubt I would react well if some guy started to call me "son" 100% seriously, to say the least.
Good luck with the whole child raising thing. 'S pretty cool XD