I'll fully admit to bias here. Ever since I was in high school I thought that the concept of being "manly" was beyond fucking stupid. Now I'm not talking about "manly" things like sports, drinking, driving cars, and shooting guns at the rifle range, plenty of people seem to manage to do that without being complete asshats, but there seem to be a lot of people out there who come off as really insecure. What do I mean? Well youtube comments...yeah I know, not exactly the most stable place to get data from, but this actually happens when people aren't complaining at each other about feminism. Everyone remember the final fight for MLP Season 4? For those of you who don't, it was basically something straight out of DBZ, energy beams, going through mountains, the works. It was pretty awesome. And a lot of people in the comments and elsewhere said something along the lines of "and they say this show is for little girls." Um. It is. It just happens to be really good. It just comes off as really insecure, like they're going "oh this show that I like isn't REALLY for little girls, little girls can't like shows that are actually cool. Only guys can, so clearly this show was made for us." It's just...creepy.
That and something I see around a lot is that when a badass male character cries about something in media they're "manly tears". This is particularly frustrating to me because the sterotype seems to be that manly tears are more calm and dignified than what actually crying is like, IE, completly losing your cool and blubbering. I mean in the last episode of Better Call Saul
But I keep seeing people talking about "manly tears" and how "It's ok if a guy cries if it's manly tears" because apparently a man is less of a person if he cries regular pussy tears.
I'm honestly just rambling at this point. Do you think I'm full of it? If so please tell me. If you think my ramblings are onto something, have you encountered anything like this?
That and something I see around a lot is that when a badass male character cries about something in media they're "manly tears". This is particularly frustrating to me because the sterotype seems to be that manly tears are more calm and dignified than what actually crying is like, IE, completly losing your cool and blubbering. I mean in the last episode of Better Call Saul
When Mike reveals how he feels that he had a hand in the death of his son, he does not stay dignified. His voice rises and cracks, he cries openly, and the tough guy exterior completely falls away. It was really interesting.
But I keep seeing people talking about "manly tears" and how "It's ok if a guy cries if it's manly tears" because apparently a man is less of a person if he cries regular pussy tears.
I'm honestly just rambling at this point. Do you think I'm full of it? If so please tell me. If you think my ramblings are onto something, have you encountered anything like this?