Are you intentionally not reading what people type?Revnak said:Patriarchy isn't some vast conspiracy, it is a term used to describe the typical distribution of power and wealth within society. Whoever told you otherwise is a moron. This unjust distribution of power and wealth is the root of a major chunk of society's problems.Damien Black said:...because you and the OP have been using language which is incredibly charged and villainizes an entire 50% of the population. No matter what you reasons, your terminology is aggressive and will be perceived as such. Especially by those of us males who detest the notion of being clumped into a specific societal conception of gender, masculinity, or patriarchy.Revnak said:2. Gender roles and patriarchy are the reason for those problems that men face too. I really don't get how people always miss that.
I was discussing the connotations of the word and how it will be perceived by those who aren't approaching it from an already feminist mindset. I was, in point of fact, trying to help you understand that while your points are valid, the way in which you express them is detrimental to rational discourse or the dissemination of your views. Calling people morons because they have a different definition for a term that you have failed to define it ignorant and close-minded in the extreme.
As for an "unjust distribution of wealth and power", there is little evidence to back up the claim that women have an equal desire for those things. Perhaps that aversion comes from the fact that most top positions are seen as a "men's world", which would discourage women from entering or pursuing such careers. On the other hand, it could equally be true that women are happy making sightly less and working slightly less to avoid ruining their happiness in a race to the top. Are all of these societal? Yes, of course, but that doesn't mean that wealth and power are inherently good things to have because, let's face it, once you have the basic freedoms, the rest comes down to choice. I may not have the freedom to walk down a dark alley in Detroit without worrying about getting shanked for wearing nice clothes and being white, but that doesn't mean I think it's unjust. Similarly, as I wasn't born into a rich family I am at an inherent disadvantage for rising financially in the world... that doesn't mean I feel cheated out of something I didn't actually want. I know that I, as a male, have very little desire to fight my way to the top of a corporate or governmental ladder.
Further, while I don't know where you or the OP are from, America is the society I am most familiar with. Culture here cannot be easily categorized into singular entities. The south and midwest are culturally more entrenched in misogynistic and racist attitudes. As are backwater areas of the rest of the country. Yet that doesn't mean that American society as a whole is such. Nor does it mean that there aren't industries and areas dominated by extremely female, or non-white oriented perspectives.