I'm a straight man and I never really been turned on by 2 girls banging each other. Can someone explain the appeal? I guess it's because a lesbian will never be attracted to me or even a fantasy is why I'm not turned on.
Why are men attracted to lesbians?
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I suppose it's tied to the notion that since a person already knows his/her body, pleasuring someone of the same sex comes off naturally. So straight dudes assume a woman knows best how to pleasure a woman, and fetichize the concept.
Possibly because lesbians wouldn't actually be interested in them IRL.
Or they are afraid of naked guys.
Or they are afraid of naked guys.
Dunno, but I've seen *real* lesbians kiss before irl, and to me, it's as appealing as two men or a straight couple locking lips -- disgusting.
It makes evolutionary sense for men to desire as many women as possible. Most men find a single woman with an hour glass figure attractive, and watching them do suggestive things indicates to men that they want to have sex. Thus, having woman doing things with each other makes our body think they both want the man.
Because it has double the hotness of two naked women, without the icky penis being involved. Most of the time.
If you were on a bus, and you looked up and everyone else on the bus was a naked guy and they were all staring at you and not saying anything, would you be scared?Shadowstar38 said:
Er, that doesn't necessarily follow. They are not behaving the way real lesbians normally would, yes, but that is not what they are being paid for. OTOH, statistically, yes.Not G. Ivingname said:
Yes. But I'd be afraid of a bus full of naked woman if they were staring for no discernible reason.thaluikhain said:
Fair enough, I guess.thaluikhain said:
I would note there is some difference between "not acting how real lesbians would act" and "doing things normal lesbians just CAN'T do," although if you work in porn, you will get a lot of things in every hole.
Imagine you're in the mood to bring ten million sperm cells into the world. Happens pretty often, you say. You open up your favorite .com and start going with one of the first page videos.
Well, you don't like the guys that are banging the girls in most of the videos you choose. Some are belligerent to the women, some remind you of someone from high school, some have really annoying voices, some are just plain nasty. You can't do it, there's only so many slapping balls and facial closeups and watching the necessary seven minute blowjob on a ten minute anal video that your penis can take.
So, you decide to skip around that. Lose the man for a woman, go for twice the breasts and none of the balls and chesthair. Win-win, your penis is happy.
Well, you don't like the guys that are banging the girls in most of the videos you choose. Some are belligerent to the women, some remind you of someone from high school, some have really annoying voices, some are just plain nasty. You can't do it, there's only so many slapping balls and facial closeups and watching the necessary seven minute blowjob on a ten minute anal video that your penis can take.
So, you decide to skip around that. Lose the man for a woman, go for twice the breasts and none of the balls and chesthair. Win-win, your penis is happy.
I've never understood it, myself.
A good hard pair of runner's legs is a definite plus. An interest in scifi novels, and the ability to suggest several I haven't already read, is excellent. A smile that lights up her whole face, now that I can get into. Not being too clingy is a requirement. I could go on.
But being into other chicks? Nope, not on my list of turn-ons. If anything, it's a disappointment.
A good hard pair of runner's legs is a definite plus. An interest in scifi novels, and the ability to suggest several I haven't already read, is excellent. A smile that lights up her whole face, now that I can get into. Not being too clingy is a requirement. I could go on.
But being into other chicks? Nope, not on my list of turn-ons. If anything, it's a disappointment.
Well, for my money it's as follows: I like women. I like the shape of them, curve of the hips, breasts etc, and in the much higher quality porn made by specialist groups, there's a certain softness to the way the action unfolds. Gentle kisses to the ear and collarbone that trail down the body are a nicer way to kick proceedings off than the overly long blow jobs.