ok, ive been dating this girl for 2 months, and for some reason i want to tell her the "L" word. this is getting pretty rediculous, i shouldnt be having these feelings. have any of you experienced this problem, and if so, how did you fix it?
why do i feel this way?
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i wish it was as easy as being 15, im 17 now, and she is 19, and i dont know what to tell herCharisma said:
Its never lupus! Ok, well maybe this time it is.Aby_Z said:
If its how you feel its how you feel, Its prolly better if you were to wait longer, but honestly in the scheme of things even if you DO genuinely love today that doesnt mean your going to feel love 6 months from now being with this person.
Its all because humans typically lack the ability to distinguish lust from love.
On the one hand if you wait you might be safer because your not rushing this person, However on the other hand you might hurt your chances because by waiting the other person doesnt think your taking it seriously and thus wasting their time.
So, honestly... I say just say it and see what happens. If saying it too early (2 months isnt really stalkery level "too early") is going to break the situation then perhaps its better to break it now and move on before the love grows into that disgusting attachment monster that will leave you as a weeping ball of jello if it doesnt work out.
If you do, you do. Depends on how she acts towards you, I guess. Which of you are the more cuddly? Is everything recoprocated at the same level, such as calling each otehr, wanting to hang out, et cetera?
Might be she feels the same.
Might be she feels the same.
Heh, I've had this feeling more than once. Best thing you can do is, maybe not say it, but say that you are starting to feel very strongly for them. This will give you a nice hint about how are they are affection wise and not cross that "wooooh way to soon" line they may or may not have.
(Disclaimer: Not responsible blah blah blah GO FOR IT!!!!)
(Disclaimer: Not responsible blah blah blah GO FOR IT!!!!)
Lycanthrope? I think it might be best if you ran for the hills, them mobs can be pretty nasty.
I don't have any proper advice, sorry.
I don't have any proper advice, sorry.
trust me, ive dealt with rejection at this magnitude before, but, this girl, i swear ive never felt this way around any one else before. thats why ive been having these thoughts. women, they will tear you to shreadsviranimus said:
