Hhm... At first I was disappointed because it seemed like the general opinion I was going to get was the "bishie" look, which is the typical look that I'm trying to avoid but you saying that it depends on how the guy "wears it" that's very important. If I'm understanding correctly, it's not so much being a certain kind of handsome but rather a man's ability to wear their handsomeness well and exude a certain kind of manner, charm and ability to express their feelings that's important, am I right?KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:I like more feminine guys too, that's not just limited to looks, but also mannerism and personal expression. Nothing is worse than a guy who pulls macho "I'm the manliest man!" bullshit. I mean by this a guy who can be comfortable in a skirt, or dress, or while wearing make up, but still be himself. Though not limited to that either... Having a traditionally interests, or mannerisms are totally attractive, so long as the guy isn't playing such things up to the point of being obnoxious.MarsAtlas said:Honestly I like more feminine men. -snip-
Well toned is a plus, but not to the point of being too muscular, like above fit... Bulky muscle is just as bad as being too fat... That said, I like flabby and rotund guys, so long as they're not so fat it's gross. Like an Orson Wells, or Alfred Hitchcock build is acceptable but someone like Michael Moore is way over the line. Though it matters how well they wear it too, for example Gabriel Iglesias is kinda cute to me, where as Ralphie May just wears it badly. Like John Goodman, I find him somewhat attractive, Bruce Vilanch is just horrifying. Arnold Schwarchenegger in Terminator was about the peak of muscle bulk for me, at the peak of his body building, he was gross.
So basically a sexy guy to me is not fat or muscle bound to extremes, but can push the limits, so long as it fits him. He's comfortable with his gender identity and sexuality to the point where wearing a skirt, or hugging another guy doesn't make him freak out. Not a victim of plastic surgery to the point where he looks like a botched Ken doll. Etc...
Though ideally I like a guy who can pass for and function as a girl the most, but I'm also a little odd.