Allow me to be clear on the problem regarding Dark Souls, since I'm past the edit time limit.-snip-
I have quite a few spoilers for that game already, but only in terms of the story. I don't know much about the gameplay or the world's layout, and that was fine. Exploring the world and discovering its secrets was something that I really liked about the game. Then you jumped in and told me what to do, without even putting it in a spoiler block.
Now that I've been told where to go, any time I spend searching Darkroot Garden will feel wasted, since it's not where I 'need to start working my way down' to. On the other hand, if I search the Undead Burg, then I'm doing that on your initiative and not my own, which feels like a hollow victory where I took a shortcut and gained nothing.
I was musing on the fact that I didn't know exactly where to go, but had a lead on it. I was not asking for help.
"It's sad that you don't know the difference."
To be honest, I don't even feel like playing anymore.