No one knows how to police decorum. Decorum should not exist just so that we can be like China, where only constructive criticism is accepted. It shouldn't be like 4Chan, whereone talks to people they don't like to kill themselves, and that goes double for trans teenagers, who usually suffer high suicide rates.
I should be able to tell someone with a Russian flag on Tik Tok whose response to a video of a Ukrainian man being dragged off to fight Russian imperialism (you know the one thing leftists never criticize to internet-own the US) is to concern trolls that Ukraine isn't a democracy. Well, under that metric of countries with mandatory conscription when you get fucking invaded, no country is a democracy because all countries have a right to defend themselves, like Ukraine, and yes, the West Bank and Gaza. To fuck off. But of course Tik Tok flagged that comment when that was the morally right response to make, but muh decorum. Children getting kidnapped to Russian Siberia, muh decorum. Woman both Ukrainian and Russian getting raped by Russian troops due to stress from Putin's egotistical, muh decorum, cities being turned into heaps of rubble, muh decorum.
Fuck Russia, Fuck Tik Tok's moderation team, and Fuck the dictatorships everywhere.