Yes. I wonder if something not entirely dissimilar applied to J.K. Rowling, as a domestic abuse survivor pondering the potential for abuse of women.
Like every other domestic abuse and sexual assault survivor I know, I feel nothing but empathy and solidarity with trans women who’ve been abused by men.
In JK Rowling's detective novel
The Silkworm, protagonist Cormoran Strike, war veteran and famous detective, investigates the mysterious disappearance of a member of the literary publishing establishment and the possible involvement of various characters in his literary circle. One of these characters is a young woman named Pippa, a pathetic, weak willed individual who is figuratively depicted as a "slave" to one of her friends. In one scene, Pippa attempts to stab Cormoran, only to be trapped in his office. He demands to see her ID, and discovers that she is trans. Time is then devoted to describing her visible Adam's apple, and special note is given to the fact that she keeps her hands in pockets (do you see what is being said here?). After Pippa tries several times to escape, Strike, our protagonist and the hero of this story, says the following line:
“‘If you go for that door one more time I’m calling the police and I’ll testify and be glad to watch you go down for attempted murder. And it won’t be fun for you Pippa,’ he added. ‘Not pre-op.’”
How do you think a domestic abuse survivor who has pondered the potential abuse of women, and who claims to feel nothing but empathy and solidarity with transwomen victims of abuse, managed to write a scene in which our macho cisdude hero forcibly outs a trans woman against her will, mockingly dresses down her appearance for the amusement of the audience and then forces her into compliance by threatening to send her to a mens' prison, where she will be raped, and while also managing to draw explicit attention to her penis? Moreover, how does she manage to frame this as both a comedy moment in which a pathetic character is humiliated and put in her place (again, through being threatened with rape) and as a victory for our hero, (a man who threatens women with rape).
Pippa is consistently depicted as pitiful, weak, delusional, irrational, emotionally unstable and perverse. There's also the implication that she began a sexual relationship with the missing author without informing him that she was trans, only to have him be disgusted and reject her upon finding out. Almost every aspect of her character comes back to her body, which is constantly framed by the story and characters as grotesque or revolting. The closest thing the novel manages to an empathetic depiction of Pippa is pity at how pathetic, worthless and miserable she is.
Abuse is a huge problem for incarcerated transwomen. While an obsessive lens has been placed a handful of cases of transwomen housed in womans' prisons committing acts of sexual violence against cis women, there are over a hundred transwomen in prison in the UK who lack gender recognition certificates and are consequentially housed in mens' prisons, where they are typically subject to constant harassment, bullying, sexual abuse, which have resulted in numerous cases of murder and suicide.
I am a domestic abuse survivor. Most of my friends, and most of the people I have lived with, have been domestic abuse or sexual assault survivors. Those two things are probably related. Empathy is not a thing you can turn on and of when it suits you, it is a persistent, involuntary, often very painful identfication with the state of being powerless, frightened or unable to resist someone else's control. I have no doubt that JK Rowling has genuinely suffered in her life, and I have no doubt that her experience of suffering has helped to build an empathy with the victims of suffering. However, I don't believe that includes transwomen. If Rowling could not manage empathy for a fictional transwoman she created, and who could have been anything. If she cannot manage empathy even when that fictional character is facing the all-to-real threat of sexual violence, I can't see any possibility of empathy for real transwomen either. If you can, good for you, you're more charitable than I am.
But probably not: she's just a load of carbon-copied transphobic talking points, not a real person.
I'm going to quote something you said earlier.
If J.K. Rowling had said things like gender dysphoria was a myth, that trans people were just mentally ill people who needed psychological care to be brought round to the right way of thinking, that gender reassignment should be banned, that trans women can't be considered women, I could understand the extent of the hostility.
She didn't say that
all gender dysphoria is a myth, but she did say that teenagers can be tricked into believing they have gender dysphoria when they actually don't, and that the vast majority of trans teenagers will just grow out of being trans if untreated. Now, imagine I'm a trans or gender variant teenager, and my parents read this essay and decide that I don't have gender dysphoria, but instead I have sudden-onset-gender-dysphoria. They refuse to let me see a doctor, and try to restrict my access to information, support and peer networks to prevent the "social contagion". They punish any instance of gender non-confirming behaviour and are deliberately confrontational and antagonistic to provide negative reinforcement. If I'm that teenager, then JK Rowling did say that
my gender dysphoria was a myth. Not all gender dysphoria, but mine, and I suffered for it.
She didn't say that
all trans people were mentally ill and needed psychological care to be brought round to the right way of thinking, but she did say that children become trans as a way of coping with mental health problems. Again, she did say that environmental factors can influence whether or not a person is trans, and she did say that most trans teenagers can be cured or will spontaneously cure themselves. Again, what if I am the trans kids whose parents read that? What if they refuse to let me be referred to a gender identity clinic and instead insist that my symptoms of dysphoria are due to mental health issues and that I need highly invasive psychotherapy and medication (this actually happened to me, and I'm still kind of angry about it). What if I'm the kid whose parents decide to take "negative reinforcement" to the next level by sending me to conversion therapy in the belief that I can be cured through dissuasion. Again, definitely not all trans people, but if I'm that trans person, then it is me, and I did suffer for it.
And yeah, she didn't say that
all trans women can't be considered women, but she did make very clear that transwomen who don't take hormones, who don't have surgery, who don't make sufficient effort to look like her version of what a woman looks like aren't women (despite also insisting that a woman isn't a costume - Schrodinger's transwoman, I guess). What if that's me? It may not be everyone, but what if it is me? Do I have to take hormones even though I don't want to just to fit in with someone else's idea of what my transness is? Do I have to go through the difficult and agonising process of having my genitals reshaped so that I don't offend this random cis millionaire? And moreover, what does it mean that some random rich woman who literally has no clue what she is talking about is claiming to decide what does and doesn't make me a man or a woman? Is that the world we want to live in, a world where
some transwomen are women, but if JK Rowling doesn't think you're trying hard enough, sorry, you're out.
And let's not forget actual me. I'm non-binary. JK Rowling absolutely knows that people like me exist. It's been pointed out to her many times. There is literally no mention of non-binary people in her essay. The assumption is always that gender dysphoria is explicitly aligned towards being male or female, and other than a sarcastic reference to clownfish and people "denying biology", there's literally nothing that could even reference people like me. Gender critical theory does not accept that non-binary people exist. Medically, non binary people exist. I have a diagnosis of gender dysphoria, and my doctor is obliged to recognise my gender identity. Legally, however, non-binary people do not exist. I cannot apply for a gender recognition certificate (something that was possibly going to change, but isn't going to now largely thanks to these wonderful people). Again, not all trans people, just me, and people like me.
There are always exceptions. There are always the good transsexuals. The problem is, that category is hard to stay in, and easy to fall out of. For the rest of us, sure, it's not all trans people. But it is me (and many, many other people) and that sucks, and it makes me angry that someone who has no understanding of my life, or the lives of trans people more broadly, feels they get to make that determination for me.
I'm gonna take a break from this thread, I think.