I know Japan and its anime/gaming industry has of problems, don't sound so presumptuous. I don't like all this s*** they do either. but they can be adult about sex and mature themes, you just have to look harder for it. I can give you one recommendation: Catherine. Do you know the game is balls as hard. I don't want to get this too off-topic, so if there's anything else you can just send me private message.
The fact that you have to look harder for it kinda says it all though. I liked
Cathrine well enough, and I'll give it points for starring characters who are in their thirties. But I hated how waifu the pink haired girl was, and Vincent pulls something toward the end that made me go 'Wow, fuck you buddy', and I never bothered finishing it.
There's an anime called
Macross Plus that features a scene where two characters are on a night out, they get flirty with eachother, and they have a one-night stand. It has none of that typical anime nonesense where the guy needs to be all befuddled and the girl needs to be shy and shocked, and gearing up to throw a punch and yell 'pervert', which then doesn't even lead to sex. It's just a man and a woman being into eachother and agreeing to just go with the moment. It's nice, and it's a fucking rarity in anime and Japanese games.
I mean, it's a running joke at this point that
Resident Evil is, like, the most sexless sexy universe in gaming. Everybody's hot and seemingly very into eachother, but nobody ever gets their rocks off with one another. Same goes for
Final Fantasy. Although those games certainly don't fall into the same weird, creepy teasing mentality that a lot of other anime and Japanese games do. But still, just let some of those characters actually get physical with eachother, for God's sake.