How Problematic is "All Lives Matter?"

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@gorfias , please, I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. Help me out here. I need a sanity check. Look at this sign:



Does this sign "shift the blame" or "tell women not to get raped"?

Because Obsidian is saying that it does both of these things, but he won't explain how he came to that conclusion, and we're having a breakdown of communication over it.
 

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No doubt. I keep writing that people of all races have been wronged by the police. That's why BLM seems polarizing. I don't doubt many, even most people with BLM think they have a special, race based problem with the police. I do not think they do but from what I am reading/hearing of the founders of the BLM movement; black lives is NOT what they care about in the first place. The whole point IS the polarization.

This thread asks if there's something wrong with the statement, "All Lives Matter". Not only is there nothing wrong with it, it is push back against division and polarization. We should all welcome the statement.
And they do. Which has been borne out by evidence. More stringent sentencing for the same crimes, more likely to be killed (armed and unarmed) proportionately, overpoliced, and less likely to receive justice when 'mistakes' occur unless national protest. We're still waiting for anything to be done about Breonna Taylor

After a while, living this life on this side, you do feel like you have to remind people that you're a human as well. People don't seem to care about what happens to fellow human beings.

We go rightfully crazy about Latin Children sleeping in cages because of whatever President decreed. Another black child shot, and a good deal of people just get upset about the next round of protests they have to 'suffer' through. That's what we receive.

What if we're just responding to the treatment we are being given. And before you respond, remember I can easily go to the NFL and have a wealth of really not kind responses about how a lot of people care more about football than fellow human beings.
 

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@gorfias , please, I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. Help me out here. I need a sanity check. Look at this sign:



Does this sign "shift the blame" or "tell women not to get raped"?

Because Obsidian is saying that it does both of these things, but he won't explain how he came to that conclusion, and we're having a breakdown of communication over it.
Teach "Don't Rape", NOT, "Don't Get Raped" is a mainstay of Feminist thinking. Rape is an anti social thing to do. Telling an anti social man that he is being anti social if he rapes just isn't going to have much of an impact. And telling a woman not to go into dark alleys with strangers while knee walking drunk late at night is not hostility. It's about as hostile as reminding me to lock my car at night.

And they do. Which has been borne out by evidence. More stringent sentencing for the same crimes, more likely to be killed (armed and unarmed) proportionately, overpoliced, and less likely to receive justice when 'mistakes' occur unless national protest. We're still waiting for anything to be done about Breonna Taylor

After a while, living this life on this side, you do feel like you have to remind people that you're a human as well. People don't seem to care about what happens to fellow human beings.

We go rightfully crazy about Latin Children sleeping in cages because of whatever President decreed. Another black child shot, and a good deal of people just get upset about the next round of protests they have to 'suffer' through. That's what we receive.

What if we're just responding to the treatment we are being given. And before you respond, remember I can easily go to the NFL and have a wealth of really not kind responses about how a lot of people care more about football than fellow human beings.
Then, again, opening up a "Weight Watcher's: Black" excluding fat white people is a bad business model. We all have problems with cops. All lives matter. This never should have been a divisive movement but it is because THAT, rather than actually protecting people, is the real goal of people admitting to being "trained Marxists" and putting on the website that they are ending, "white supremacy". I'll have to look some more but they supposedly even write the family must be replaced by the communal raising of kids. Not sure about that. I'll let you know.

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"We disrupt the Western-prescribed nuclear family structure requirement by supporting each other as extended families and “villages” that collectively care for one another, especially our children, to the degree that mothers, parents, and children are comfortable."
https://blacklivesmatter.com/what-we-believe/ I'm pretty sure that is legal right now, not a "requirement' of the West.
 
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Teach "Don't Rape", NOT, "Don't Get Raped" is a mainstay of Feminist thinking. Rape is an anti social thing to do. Telling an anti social man that he is being anti social if he rapes just isn't going to have much of an impact. And telling a woman not to go into dark alleys with strangers while knee walking drunk late at night is not hostility. It's about as hostile as reminding me to lock my car at night.
Okay, but what was the sign say? Does it "shift the blame by telling women not to get raped" like Obsidian says it does? All I'm looking for is a yes or no answer to this question.
 

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Okay, but what was the sign say? Does it "shift the blame by telling women not to get raped" like Obsidian says it does? All I'm looking for is a yes or no answer to this question.
No.
 

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Thank you. This is a such a relief, you have no idea.

See, @ObsidianJones we both agree that the sign does not "shift the blame by telling women not to get raped"

You probably just misread it. I'm not trying to be mean or argumentative, or whatever. I would really like to continue our conversation.
 
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I try to assume good faith too, but since you continually avoid the questions I ask you, I think it would be a good idea to stop responding to each-other for a bit.
I didn't avoid answering your question. I gave you an answer you didn't like by pointing out that the rhetorical concern your questions were trying to imply had been addressed in the parts of my post you were pointedly ignoring. I'm not a simpleton who can be led by the nose through contextomy, House, and considering how brazen you've been about trying to do that, you'll forgive me if I am less than amused by the attempt. I mean heck, you just tried to spin "that accusation you made about brushing aside police brutality on the basis of ethnicity is actually exactly the problem BLM is trying to fix, because right now that consistently happens when the victim is black" as saying that BLM only cares about police brutality against black victims and demands that cases against non-black victims be brushed aside. And you did so purely on the grounds that I used the phrase "black victims" in explaining that the movement was trying to combat the very pattern you invoked. That's such an egregiously bad and brazen attempt at a "gotcha" as to border on parody, House. And the worst part is that that's distressingly representative of how you've been arguing in this thread, towards myself and others.

You've even been doing so in the the last few posts with Obsidian. You try to spin the "Teach don't rape, not don't get raped" sign as a plea for psychological treatment to address the underlying issues that cause rapists to rape. Obsidian explains that that's not what the sign means (the slogan being closer to "properly teach consent in Sex Ed" coupled with "stop victim blaming to dodge the issue"), not the point you were trying to claim it championed...you know to "talk to the men first and go through lengthy psychology sessions to solve their root issue that causes these rapes". At that point you tried to spin his response as if he were instead saying the sign was supporting victim blaming rather than being about the injustice of victim blaming. It's the same song and dance described above.

And let's look back at another example in post 31. In response to my statement that the spirit of "Black Lives Matter" can be adequately represented to those confused over it by adding "too" at the end, you claim that that's disproven by the statement that "Black Lives Matter" needs no further qualification, that "too" is a qualifying statement and therefore that the slogan must by necessity be better represented as "Only" Black Lives Matter. Let me reemphasize that for a moment. You treat "too" as a qualifier despite it not actually modifying a statement literally synonymous with 'black lives do have value', and then you turn around and say that it makes more sense to treat it as being preceded by "only" instead, despite that itself being a qualifying statement, and one that radically changes the meaning of the phrase at that. It's yet another case where you twisted another snippet well past the point of reasonable interpretation, while ignoring the fact that your very reading was utterly built around the very objection you were incorrectly invoking to dismiss the other speaker.

But let's get into that a bit more, because that reading seems to reflect the heart of this. In order to divorce this from any preconceptions we might have on this topic, let's veer into analogy for a moment for a little linguistic study. If I say "I like chocolate", then that naturally only conveys that I find the taste of chocolate agreeable. Nothing more, nothing less. I don't think anyone here would disagree that saying "I like chocolate" implies nothing about my opinion of other flavors. In this analogy, however, your argument would be the functional equivalent of alleging that the phrase "I like chocolate" means that I don't like any other flavor, and indeed must be championing a chocolate only diet or at least that in expressing an appreciation for chocolate I must be suggesting it is superior to vanilla, caramel, or cream. "I only like chocolate", or "I don't like anything but chocolate" as you might characterize it. To be direct about it, the argument boils down to the position that because I said I liked chocolate the unstated implication was that I didn't care for other flavors and felt they needed to stay in the pantry, and if I actually cared about them I wouldn't have made the claim about chocolate in the first place.

That is an absolutely ludicrous take, and not remotely what a statement affirming an appreciation for chocolate implies. I could even say that I think chocolate is underused in desserts, which is a more bold and active assertion, and it would still be a far cry from the "only chocolate desserts are good" that your accusation would mirror. "I like chocolate" in no way communicates that I am in any way disdainful of other flavors, foods or ingredients. It's not a comparative statement, much less an exclusionary one, and inferences about other flavors are outside the scope of the statement. If we insist on trying to derive any statement involving other flavors into it, the most we could say is that chocolate is included in the list of flavors I find agreeable. This is why "I like chocolate too" is not a qualitatively different statement, but "I only like chocolate" conveys an entirely different meaning.

Or to put it in terms of shapes, we could draw comparison to "Squares are Rectangles". Does "Squares are Rectangles too" differ in meaning from the former statement? Not in the slightest. They're functionally identical statements. "Too" neither limits nor enhances the scope of the statement. Does "Only Squares are Rectangles" differ from the the same statement? Yes. Enormously so, in fact. In fact it turns the statement's meaning on its head, transforming it from from "A square is a kind of rectangle" to "a rectangle must be a square".

Bringing it back around, this same pattern applies to the slogan that you so object to. Whereas "Black Lives Matter" means simply that "black lives have value" or "black lives are not without value", the reading of "only black lives matter" that you insist on transforms the meaning from "black lives have value" to "for a life to have value, it must be black", which doesn't remotely resemble an equivalent statement.
 
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Then, again, opening up a "Weight Watcher's: Black" excluding fat white people is a bad business model. We all have problems with cops. All lives matter. This never should have been a divisive movement but it is because THAT, rather than actually protecting people, is the real goal of people admitting to being "trained Marxists" and putting on the website that they are ending, "white supremacy". I'll have to look some more but they supposedly even write the family must be replaced by the communal raising of kids. Not sure about that. I'll let you know.

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"We disrupt the Western-prescribed nuclear family structure requirement by supporting each other as extended families and “villages” that collectively care for one another, especially our children, to the degree that mothers, parents, and children are comfortable."
https://blacklivesmatter.com/what-we-believe/ I'm pretty sure that is legal right now, not a "requirement' of the West.
And if Black Lives Matter did that, then you would have a point and they wouldn't have my support. Black Lives Matters has supporters of all races. Just like I can support Female Advocacy groups that are for females, while I'm very much a cisgendered male.

Of course I believe everyone has a right to freedom, a safe way of life, and a burden free existence. I'm above no one because of my birth, I'm beneath no one because of my birth. Every human being is like that.

The problem is, I will not kick down the door to a female support group and tell them that they are wrong because there are men who are abused as well. Even though I know there are males who are abused just the same as women.

Can we just say this is divisive to you, possibly Houseman and who ever agrees with you? I mean, we're seeing news article after news article after news article about how Black Lives Matter is supported by the Majority of the Western Culture. We've seen the rainbow of people who attend these protests. People get it and it resonates with them.

You see issues. I won't take that away from you. But calling it divisive while ignoring the almost global acceptance of the movement seems willful. There's a percentage of people who don't get it. Who find it offensive. And more power to them. But that doesn't make it divisive. That makes it any one of the number of issues that the entire world will not agree about.

We live in a world that people think fighting against the spread of Neo-nazis isn't universally a good thing. We live in a world where supporting universal health care is seen to be anything but good by some people in this country. A world where paying people a livable wage would harm the poor billionaires so it's anti American.

I refuse to believe you wouldn't give to St. Jude Children's Hospital because you're not a kid and it's divisive that they are only thinking about the children and not including you...
 

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And if Black Lives Matter did that, then you would have a point and they wouldn't have my support. Black Lives Matters has supporters of all races. Just like I can support Female Advocacy groups that are for females, while I'm very much a cisgendered male.

Of course I believe everyone has a right to freedom, a safe way of life, and a burden free existence. I'm above no one because of my birth, I'm beneath no one because of my birth. Every human being is like that.

The problem is, I will not kick down the door to a female support group and tell them that they are wrong because there are men who are abused as well. Even though I know there are males who are abused just the same as women.

Can we just say this is divisive to you, possibly Houseman and who ever agrees with you? I mean, we're seeing news article after news article after news article about how Black Lives Matter is supported by the Majority of the Western Culture. We've seen the rainbow of people who attend these protests. People get it and it resonates with them.

You see issues. I won't take that away from you. But calling it divisive while ignoring the almost global acceptance of the movement seems willful. There's a percentage of people who don't get it. Who find it offensive. And more power to them. But that doesn't make it divisive. That makes it any one of the number of issues that the entire world will not agree about.

We live in a world that people think fighting against the spread of Neo-nazis isn't universally a good thing. We live in a world where supporting universal health care is seen to be anything but good by some people in this country. A world where paying people a livable wage would harm the poor billionaires so it's anti American.

I refuse to believe you wouldn't give to St. Jude Children's Hospital because you're not a kid and it's divisive that they are only thinking about the children and not including you...
You do have a solid point: you can have organizations, movements, social groups for identifiable demographic groups: would anyone object if they are not hostile and divisive? I'm not Italian but I've been invited to events at Italian American clubs. The point of the club was not meant to be intentionally divisive. On this sort of thing, you are right and I am wrong.

That written, I have to ask myself what is bothering me. Why is it so important to push back and say, "all lives matter."?

When Feminism was about equal opportunity, that seemed fair. When they made it obligatory, by law, to engage in bigotry against men in California when forming corporate boards or otherwise creating a false narrative in which men are evil oppressors and women oppressed victims, it certainly is time to object. When they got the Federal Government to create the "Domestic Violence Against Women but Men can $^#@$# Off" Act, I object.

And to BLM, I'm objecting. Burning cities. De-fund the police. Blatant and obvious money grabs.

BLM, the organization, is not just some benign group that cares about the lives of black people (mostly men that get killed by the police) and their website states as much. When they say they want to end 'white supremacy" what they really mean are things like liberty, capitalism, democracy. Their published statement about the family, for instance, says a lot about them to me.

And yes, you are seeing a lot of useful idiots out there. White people bowing to black people, washing their feet. Corporations that really don't care, virtue signaling. Politician pandering. Local governments capitulating to the mob as people, including black people such as that retired police captain, David Dorn, murdered by a guy stealing a TV set. His life mattered too. https://www.cnn.com/2020/06/03/us/david-dorn-st-louis-police-shot-trnd/index.html

Again, I am certain that there are good people that genuinely care about police excessive force and see BLM as a good and useful tool to fight this sort of thing. But the organization itself and it's real, published goals, are divisive and destructive, creating an environment in which black people such as David Dorn are getting murdered. Black owned businesses are burned down. Whole communities are going to be shuttered. I object. We need to push back. Saying, "all lives matter" is a part of that push back.
 
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I didn't avoid answering your question. I gave you an answer you didn't like by pointing out that the rhetorical concern your questions were trying to imply had been addressed in the parts of my post you were pointedly ignoring. I'm not a simpleton who can be led by the nose through contextomy, House, and considering how brazen you've been about trying to do that, you'll forgive me if I am less than amused by the attempt. I mean heck, you just tried to spin "that accusation you made about brushing aside police brutality on the basis of ethnicity is actually exactly the problem BLM is trying to fix, because right now that consistently happens when the victim is black" as saying that BLM only cares about police brutality against black victims and demands that cases against non-black victims be brushed aside. And you did so purely on the grounds that I used the phrase "black victims" in explaining that the movement was trying to combat the very pattern you invoked. That's such an egregiously bad and brazen attempt at a "gotcha" as to border on parody, House. And the worst part is that that's distressingly representative of how you've been arguing in this thread, towards myself and others.
I apologize for misinterpreting what you wrote. I accept that you were merely trying to describe the pattern, where I thought you were describing BLM's own mission statement.

You say that police brutality is being brushed aside, because the victim is black, and that BLM is trying to fix that problem.
We're in agreement there.

I make the claim that BLM ONLY focuses on black victims by design.
As evidence, here's what BLM says on their /about page: "We are working for a world where Black lives are no longer systematically targeted for demise."

So, judging by what BLM says about their own stated goals, do they, or do they not specifically focus on "Black lives"?

It's a simple question. Please answer it. If you think that the answer doesn't lead where I think it leads, first answer the question, and then explain why the answer doesn't lead where I think it leads.

I'd really like this conversation to work between us, but you gotta meet me half way here by answering the questions that I ask.

You've even been doing so in the the last few posts with Obsidian. You try to spin the "Teach don't rape, not don't get raped" sign as a plea for psychological treatment to address the underlying issues that cause rapists to rape. Obsidian explains that that's not what the sign means (the slogan being closer to "properly teach consent in Sex Ed" coupled with "stop victim blaming to dodge the issue"), not the point you were trying to claim it championed...you know to "talk to the men first and go through lengthy psychology sessions to solve their root issue that causes these rapes". At that point you tried to spin his response as if he were instead saying the sign was supporting victim blaming rather than being about the injustice of victim blaming. It's the same song and dance described above.
Obsidian did explicitly say that the sign was supporting victim blaming.

In post #101 Obsidian says "Telling women not to get raped is shifting the blame."
In post #103, confused by what prompted him to say such a thing, I said that he must have misread the slogan.
- I think he must have misread the slogan to say "teach women how to not get raped" or something
In post #104 he affirms "The picture you chose had that right on the front."
In post #110 he again affirms "I already stated that I was speaking about what the picture you posted."

I'm not seeing how it can be claimed that Obsidian wasn't claiming that the slogan "tells women not to get raped" and "is shifting the blame".
I'm not spinning anything. Obsidian is saying that the sign is saying one thing, and gorifas and I are saying that the sign says something different. That's the whole reason why I looped him in, to double-check myself in case I was just crazy.

If Obsidian wants to claim that the slogan on the sign doesn't mean "talk to the men first and go through lengthy psychology sessions to solve their root issue that causes these rapes", fine. But he explicitly says, twice, that the slogan "tells women not to get raped". This can't possibly be denied

And let's look back at another example in post 31. In response to my statement that the spirit of "Black Lives Matter" can be adequately represented to those confused over it by adding "too" at the end, you claim that that's disproven by the statement that "Black Lives Matter" needs no further qualification, that "too" is a qualifying statement and therefore that the slogan must by necessity be better represented as "Only" Black Lives Matter. Let me reemphasize that for a moment. You treat "too" as a qualifier despite it not actually modifying a statement literally synonymous with 'black lives do have value', and then you turn around and say that it makes more sense to treat it as being preceded by "only" instead, despite that itself being a qualifying statement, and one that radically changes the meaning of the phrase at that. It's yet another case where you twisted another snippet well past the point of reasonable interpretation, while ignoring the fact that your very reading was utterly built around the very objection you were incorrectly invoking to dismiss the other speaker.
Your logic is flawed. The lack of "too" does not mean that "only" should be inserted instead, and you've presented no reasoning as to why. You've only asserted that it must, "by necessity".

I never said "it makes more sense to treat it as being preceded by 'only' instead". I never typed that out, or implied it.

But I'm not going to accuse you of twisting anything. Your conclusion follows from your premises. It's just that your premises, in this case, aren't true.

But let's get into that a bit more, because that reading seems to reflect the heart of this. In order to divorce this from any preconceptions we might have on this topic, let's veer into analogy for a moment for a little linguistic study. If I say "I like chocolate", then that naturally only conveys that I find the taste of chocolate agreeable. Nothing more, nothing less. I don't think anyone here would disagree that saying "I like chocolate" implies nothing about my opinion of other flavors. In this analogy, however, your argument would be the functional equivalent of alleging that the phrase "I like chocolate" means that I don't like any other flavor, and indeed must be championing a chocolate only diet or at least that in expressing an appreciation for chocolate I must be suggesting it is superior to vanilla, caramel, or cream. "I only like chocolate", or "I don't like anything but chocolate" as you might characterize it. To be direct about it, the argument boils down to the position that because I said I liked chocolate the unstated implication was that I didn't care for other flavors and felt they needed to stay in the pantry, and if I actually cared about them I wouldn't have made the claim about chocolate in the first place.

That is an absolutely ludicrous take
I would agree that this would be a ludicrous take. However, this isn't my logic.

You seem to think that, because I attempted to shoot down the "too" qualifier, that means that I must believe that they really mean "only".
No, that was never my intent.

The "too" argument is, as I understand it, usually brought up in order to make it clear that BLM isn't discriminatory. It's as if the argument is "See? Black Lives Matter 'Too'! There's no way that can be discriminatory! That settles it!".

My counter argument was merely "No, it does not say 'too', and here's an official statement ruling that out..."
It was a counter-argument that disproved that BLM wasn't not discriminatory.
It was not a stand-alone argument intended to prove that BLM is discriminatory.

For example, suppose we were arguing about whether or not Alice likes chocolate. If you start off by saying "Of course she doesn't like it, she's allergic to it!", and I prove that she isn't allergic, my argument isn't that she likes chocolate BECAUSE she's not allergic to it. I'm just disproving your argument that she's allergic to it, and therefore, doesn't like chocolate. It still remains to be proven whether or not she likes chocolate, but now we've ruled out that she's not allergic to it.

Hopefully that clears it up.

Whether or not my argument is valid, that "too" is a qualifier, is separate from whether or not I am implicitly or explicitly inserting "only".
 
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How problematic is the phrase?
Bad enough that a pigscum shit-licking supposed leader of a country in the middle of protests about it will use it.
“Why are African-Americans still dying at the hands of law enforcement in this country?” the interviewer, Catherine Herridge of CBS News, asked the president.

“What a terrible question to ask,” Mr. Trump responded. “So are white people. More white people, by the way.”
So he's saying the police are just violently murdering everyone, but fully supports them continuing with no reforms.
Fuck this man and anyone who supports him, he's a piece of shit and he needs to die.
 
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You do have a solid point: you can have organizations, movements, social groups for identifiable demographic groups: would anyone object if they are not hostile and divisive? I'm not Italian but I've been invited to events at Italian American clubs. The point of the club was not meant to be intentionally divisive. On this sort of thing, you are right and I am wrong.

That written, I have to ask myself what is bothering me. Why is it so important to push back and say, "all lives matter."?

When Feminism was about equal opportunity, that seemed fair. When they made it obligatory, by law, to engage in bigotry against men in California when forming corporate boards or otherwise creating a false narrative in which men are evil oppressors and women oppressed victims, it certainly is time to object. When they got the Federal Government to create the "Domestic Violence Against Women but Men can $^#@$# Off" Act, I object.

And to BLM, I'm objecting. Burning cities. De-fund the police. Blatant and obvious money grabs.

BLM, the organization, is not just some benign group that cares about the lives of black people (mostly men that get killed by the police) and their website states as much. When they say they want to end 'white supremacy" what they really mean are things like liberty, capitalism, democracy. Their published statement about the family, for instance, says a lot about them to me.

And yes, you are seeing a lot of useful idiots out there. White people bowing to black people, washing their feet. Corporations that really don't care, virtue signaling. Politician pandering. Local governments capitulating to the mob as people, including black people such as that retired police captain, David Dorn, murdered by a guy stealing a TV set. His life mattered too. https://www.cnn.com/2020/06/03/us/david-dorn-st-louis-police-shot-trnd/index.html

Again, I am certain that there are good people that genuinely care about police excessive force and see BLM as a good and useful tool to fight this sort of thing. But the organization itself and it's real, published goals, are divisive and destructive, creating an environment in which black people such as David Dorn are getting murdered. Black owned businesses are burned down. Whole communities are going to be shuttered. I object. We need to push back. Saying, "all lives matter" is a part of that push back.



The burden now lies with you to prove every one of these looters are not supporters of Black Lives Matter, but actual Black Lives Matters Members.

You can't have feeling. You can't say they were just at these places at these times so they must be the same.

Then you have to prove it was a concerted effort on behalf of Black Lives Matters to create false protests in order to get looting done. You have to ignore countless displays of members preventing harm.

Because if the best you have is "Not every member or people who support the cause are perfect", then that's a wrap for everything. Doctors, Teachers, Forum Members, Police, Government... there is not an organization that would be free from the tearing down that many people want to do for BLM.

And David Dorn should not have died. No one should have died before their time. I personally hate Trump, and I don't even want him to suffer. You'll get no argument from me that a murderer needs to be put away for this crime. But you can just as much pin this heinous crime on BLM that was done by a looter that was not on message as you can pin Reta Mays' Serial Killing on every medical professional that swore by the same Oath she did.

She isn't alone. Orville Lynn Majors, Charles Cullen, Christopher Duntsch, Harold Shipman... Why has the medical profession lasted this long when there's wrong doing?

I mean, that's what we're trying to do here, right? If anyone might be tangentially associated (or if we feel they must be) with an organization, we must discredit and disavow with every fiber of our being.

I'm not a man who condones wanton violence. When we lose people like David Dorn, we are all lessened for the action. And you're damn straight I want his murders in jail. In fact, that's on brand for me. I want all murderers in jail. Without a Badge and with one. Again, the essence of Black Lives Matter. Arrest anyone when they are doing something bad. But you don't get to brutalize people if they aren't putting violence towards you (something I learned when I was training for the police force). And you don't get to kill and get away with it because you have the 'blue shield'.

Lastly... what is your obsession with white people kowtowing to blacks? As a person who supports the movement, I've never asked for that and/or felt that from anyone who is just an ally. This keeps being brought up when we're not even talking about ranking or subservience between the races... which makes me feel this is more of a factor than anything else.
 

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The burden now lies with you to prove every one of these looters are not supporters of Black Lives Matter, but actual Black Lives Matters Members.

You can't have feeling. You can't say they were just at these places at these times so they must be the same.

Then you have to prove it was a concerted effort on behalf of Black Lives Matters to create false protests in order to get looting done. You have to ignore countless displays of members preventing harm.

Because if the best you have is "Not every member or people who support the cause are perfect", then that's a wrap for everything. Doctors, Teachers, Forum Members, Police, Government... there is not an organization that would be free from the tearing down that many people want to do for BLM.

And David Dorn should not have died. No one should have died before their time. I personally hate Trump, and I don't even want him to suffer. You'll get no argument from me that a murderer needs to be put away for this crime. But you can just as much pin this heinous crime on BLM that was done by a looter that was not on message as you can pin Reta Mays' Serial Killing on every medical professional that swore by the same Oath she did.

She isn't alone. Orville Lynn Majors, Charles Cullen, Christopher Duntsch, Harold Shipman... Why has the medical profession lasted this long when there's wrong doing?

I mean, that's what we're trying to do here, right? If anyone might be tangentially associated (or if we feel they must be) with an organization, we must discredit and disavow with every fiber of our being.

I'm not a man who condones wanton violence. When we lose people like David Dorn, we are all lessened for the action. And you're damn straight I want his murders in jail. In fact, that's on brand for me. I want all murderers in jail. Without a Badge and with one. Again, the essence of Black Lives Matter. Arrest anyone when they are doing something bad. But you don't get to brutalize people if they aren't putting violence towards you (something I learned when I was training for the police force). And you don't get to kill and get away with it because you have the 'blue shield'.

Lastly... what is your obsession with white people kowtowing to blacks? As a person who supports the movement, I've never asked for that and/or felt that from anyone who is just an ally. This keeps being brought up when we're not even talking about ranking or subservience between the races... which makes me feel this is more of a factor than anything else.
I only just recently heard of a Japanese official visiting Nazi Germany. He lamented that he and his national movement had no similar group to vilify as Nazis had in Jews. To motivate a supremacist movement, you need enemies, even if you have to create them.

When you visit the BLM website, it is apparent that they are vilifying white people. I wrote before I think there are a lot of well meaning people of all races that support the concept of BLM even if wrong headed: that black people are in particular need of support in fighting injustice and excessive racist based excesive force from cops against black people.

But the BLM movement itself appears to be a force of hatred and exploitation. There is power in vilifying innocent others. Spreading hatred. I gather this impression from visiting their website and reading what they are about.

We should all object. All Lives Matter.
 

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I only just recently heard of a Japanese official visiting Nazi Germany. He lamented that he and his national movement had no similar group to vilify as Nazis had in Jews. To motivate a supremacist movement, you need enemies, even if you have to create them.

When you visit the BLM website, it is apparent that they are vilifying white people. I wrote before I think there are a lot of well meaning people of all races that support the concept of BLM even if wrong headed: that black people are in particular need of support in fighting injustice and excessive racist based excesive force from cops against black people.

But the BLM movement itself appears to be a force of hatred and exploitation. There is power in vilifying innocent others. Spreading hatred. I gather this impression from visiting their website and reading what they are about.

We should all object. All Lives Matter.
This is really going around in circles.

The closest you have ever expressed to a 'questionable' stance on White People is talking about getting rid of White Supremacy. That isn't a problem to me. In fact, it isn't a problem to most. White Supremacy Groups have been known as Extremist groups for a long period of time. The FBI's counterterrorism Division spoke about them as recently as a year ago.

Just like one might feel rooting out Islamic Extremism is a good thing, I feel the same for White Supremacy. In both cases, I do not want to replace or make subservient the race or culture these groups identify with, just prevent the extremist groups themselves from doing harm to others.

There's a possibility of having some personal issues to work out before trying to view this again with an untainted perspective. To me, it looks like you're view a green circle and insisting it's a Yellow Triangle. To take it away from that analogy, There are literally millions of people who do not see the movement and/or the website the same you do. Could the simplest answer be the correct one? That you're reading into it erroneously instead of Millions of People who simply just can't see it?
 

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We went to dinner, ordered a salad and drank water while everyone else ate steak, lobster and drank fine wines and spirits. Now the bill has come due, and we’re expected to split the check evenly? Pssh…

One can’t simply dismiss hundreds of years of oppression and discrimination half-assed “resolved” only 60 years ago simply because occasionally, those of non-black races experience similar mistreatment by police and authorities as that as blacks have routinely and disproportionately experienced since the founding of this country. Black Lives Matter because for centuries, they haven’t mattered to the powers that be, and to dismiss black people standing up and asserting themselves, expecting that we should simply lump our plight in with a generic, broader cause, is insensitive at BEST. No one can tell black people how to feel, what to say or how to say it until they’ve felt what we’ve felt for as long as we’ve felt it.
 

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This is really going around in circles.

The closest you have ever expressed to a 'questionable' stance on White People is talking about getting rid of White Supremacy. That isn't a problem to me. In fact, it isn't a problem to most. White Supremacy Groups have been known as Extremist groups for a long period of time. The FBI's counterterrorism Division spoke about them as recently as a year ago.

Just like one might feel rooting out Islamic Extremism is a good thing, I feel the same for White Supremacy. In both cases, I do not want to replace or make subservient the race or culture these groups identify with, just prevent the extremist groups themselves from doing harm to others.

There's a possibility of having some personal issues to work out before trying to view this again with an untainted perspective. To me, it looks like you're view a green circle and insisting it's a Yellow Triangle. To take it away from that analogy, There are literally millions of people who do not see the movement and/or the website the same you do. Could the simplest answer be the correct one? That you're reading into it erroneously instead of Millions of People who simply just can't see it?
No, I posted earlier others that absolutely see the organizers of BLM as vilifying white people. That unless they become obedient and subservient to the woke left, they are lumped in with the extremists of which you speak. Those extremists (White Supremacists: Neo Nazis, the KKK) have virtually no power. Their numbers are tiny and the vast majority, including President Trump, have unconditionally condemned them.

How effective is preaching hatred of white people? It may have inspired this murder:


I am sure you find this act despicable. That you too would condemn in no uncertain terms, this murder.

The more I read and hear about BLM, the more I think, however unintentionally done, the organizers (not well meaning members of the rank and file) are inciting this sort of thing.

We went to dinner, ordered a salad and drank water while everyone else ate steak, lobster and drank fine wines and spirits. Now the bill has come due, and we’re expected to split the check evenly? Pssh…

One can’t simply dismiss hundreds of years of oppression and discrimination half-assed “resolved” only 60 years ago simply because occasionally, those of non-black races experience similar mistreatment by police and authorities as that as blacks have routinely and disproportionately experienced since the founding of this country. Black Lives Matter because for centuries, they haven’t mattered to the powers that be, and to dismiss black people standing up and asserting themselves, expecting that we should simply lump our plight in with a generic, broader cause, is insensitive at BEST. No one can tell black people how to feel, what to say or how to say it until they’ve felt what we’ve felt for as long as we’ve felt it.
I disagree. In a single generation, my grandfather's family went from unable to speak English and engaging in unskilled labor, to having 5 kids, all college educated professionals. But how do you get there? What should society actually do to fix income disparity, the single most pressing social problem in the US?

There is a great movie, "Boyz in the Hood" (1991) in which a character played by Ice Cube laments that the larger society either does not know, or does not care about what is happening in their community. There is a 3rd option: the larger society cannot agree on what to do about it.

I'm listening to a black man rage on the radio against Democratic party controlled schools. He states that until 1970, one could attend ANY public NYC school and graduate with a license to practice a trade. Now, I'm not sure you even are licensed if you go to the limited number of seats in the few trade high schools left out there.

Someone out there actually thought this was a good idea. It wasn't. The guy on the radio states after getting a BA in psychology, he left school 4 years older, and unemployable. (I'm kind of a radical that wants young people to be able to leave school after 7th grade to start their lives in apprenticeships, getting licensing and certifications, earning money rather than building up mountains of debt: if you pay to take an exam and can pass it [such as the bar exam for lawyers] without cheating, it is no one's business how you prepped for the exam). It all feels like hoops some people are imposing on the rest of us to slow us down and control us, regardless of race.
 
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No one can tell black people how to feel, what to say or how to say it until they’ve felt what we’ve felt for as long as we’ve felt it.
There are lots of examples of black people speaking out against BLM. Nobody's argument becomes less valid or more valid because of the color of their skin. "Black people" aren't a hive mind.

But your argument seems to be "they were oppressed for so long and now they're doing something about it! Don't criticize how they do it" correct?

I disagree with that. For example, if someone is bulled at school and decides "enough is enough" and then kills his classmates and teachers, we can absolutely criticize that. We can absolutely criticize the conditions that allowed it to happen, too.
 

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But your argument seems to be "they were oppressed for so long and now they're doing something about it! Don't criticize how they do it" correct?

I disagree with that. For example, if someone is bulled at school and decides "enough is enough" and then kills his classmates and teachers, we can absolutely criticize that. We can absolutely criticize the conditions that allowed it to happen, too.
No, my argument is that a lot of people telling black people how to voice themselves are the same people who had NOTHING to say before black people said anything at all. Like, if the solutions is so "obvious," why did it take us to do it "wrong" before anyone told us how to do it "right" by their standards?

And equating the BLM movement to revenge murder is ludicrous, so I won't address that point at all; if hyperbolic analogies are the best you've got, then it's clear you're set in your ideals and you're welcome to them.
 
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Which came first, the Boston Tea Party or the Declaration of Independence? Asking for a friend...
 

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No, my argument is that a lot of people telling black people how to voice themselves are the same people who had NOTHING to say before black people said anything at all. Like, if the solutions is so "obvious," why did it take us to do "wrong" before anyone told us how to do it "right?"
Sometimes "the right way to do it" is only thought of and codified once someone does something wrong and gets hurt. Safety rules are written in blood, for example.

At first, someone says "take this and move it over there with this tool", and then if someone gets hurt, they revise it by saying "take this, and move it over there, with the help of a spotter, blinking lights, and an audible warning sound, with this tool"

But it appears that you're trying to bring up reasons why we shouldn't listen to certain people, reasons that have nothing to do with the validity of the person's arguments.
If the arguments are bad, isn't it sufficient to just disprove them? By trying to attack the person as opposed to the argument, it makes it seem like you're only doing so because you can't disprove the argument at all.

Which came first, the Boston Tea Party or the Declaration of Independence? Asking for a friend...
The Boston Tea Party of course.
And then there was a war that killed upwards of 40,000 people. Is that what we want?
 
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