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    3rd person PC games with good targeting/lock-on systems

    Always preferred my 3rd person games on consoles (with controller) and 1st person games on pc (with mouse), but now I'm looking for 3rd person games made primarily for mouse/keyboard. Which ones have a good system for targeting/locking on to things?
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    favourite Country

    Does Tibet count? I want it to count.
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    Can we talk about the "friend zone" and "nice guys" for a moment?

    Women love to talk. They'll talk about a whole lot of things you might see as "nobody else's business" What do you mean with something more?
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    Can we talk about the "friend zone" and "nice guys" for a moment?

    - Actually the part car-ride, part rollercoaster day itself shows how people like variance. I don't think many would sign up for either a 24 hour rollercoaster ride or 24 hour car ride. I think most people have enough bad things and sadness in their lives that they don't need to stab...
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    Can we talk about the "friend zone" and "nice guys" for a moment?

    Ice cream is important too. I don't want to be the kid who -never- got ice cream.
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    Can we talk about the "friend zone" and "nice guys" for a moment?

    - Look at how movies or rollercoasters or a lot of other things are being made. The tempo varies wildly. There are slower parts, then there are adrenalin-spikes, etc. Most people prefer a non-continuous state. Another way to look at it is that experiment where you put your 1 hand in a cold...
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    Can we talk about the "friend zone" and "nice guys" for a moment?

    Why not? As I said, women want their friends as emotion-dumpsters, not as problem-solvers. That's how they relieve stress. It's a positive thing.
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    Can we talk about the "friend zone" and "nice guys" for a moment?

    Not necessarily bad decisions if one decision leads to both the higher ups and lower downs. It becomes a choice then, depending on your preferences which you're more inclined towards. Yeah that's true, one of the difficulties in this discussion is differentiating between nice guys and "Nice...
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    Can we talk about the "friend zone" and "nice guys" for a moment?

    If you're only doing it to pursue a relationship then yeah, no.
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    Can we talk about the "friend zone" and "nice guys" for a moment?

    Women love to vent. They love to talk about their problems, not necessarily looking for advice but just a listening ear. They're looking for a tearbin, that's what they are to each other as well. You don't have to feel helpless as she doesn't want or need help. She just wants to relieve a bunch...
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    Can we talk about the "friend zone" and "nice guys" for a moment?

    Life has ups and downs. It's quite possible emotional people experience heavier downs, but perhaps they have heavier ups as well to make up for it. No I didn't say anything about ugliness, but more about personal upkeep. A lot of "Nice Guys" live by the creed that it's the inside that...
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    Can we talk about the "friend zone" and "nice guys" for a moment?

    He could feel guilty, because he could have prevented it with a little more understanding. She could have, with a little more understanding, understood him misunderstanding her. It's a bit of a chicken-egg thingy, but I maintain that the 'fault' started when he misinterpreted her, not when...
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    Can we talk about the "friend zone" and "nice guys" for a moment?

    The fact that your points are starting to get real misogynistic seems somewhat unhealthy too. Also, you do not seem to understand how feelings work. It's not about thinking before acting. It's about what influences the decision-making process in your head which determines acting. And people...
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    Can we talk about the "friend zone" and "nice guys" for a moment?

    Because marriage is not the ultimate goal of every single thing we do? How about having a a bit of fun. 'All you can see' huh. Wishful seeing. What you call 'decent' others may see as 'boring', etc. Inevitably? It's not like every guy who does take care of his appearance dies horribly alone...
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    Can we talk about the "friend zone" and "nice guys" for a moment?

    Or maybe they genuinely like what pretty face has to offer, despite the downsides.