X10Unit1 said:
axlryder said:
These are mostly just generalizations (many of them untrue for the majority of people in my life). I agree about the "you are beautiful!" thing with strangers. That shit is just awkward if you don't know already someone. I can usually directly affirm my affection with individuals I care about, though.
The "just generalization" counter to the OP is rather weak. I am glad they don't apply to a majority of the people you know but that is a rather small sample size when compared to the US as a whole. As a country those 10 things are very much true. However, we choose to ignore it like so many other things.
I also take it you have never been outside the country. I recommend you do, as it is quite eye opening. You realize that there are great and terrible things about this country.
The article also don't provide any definitive evidence that those claims are true, either. That in and of itself makes it a fairly weak premise. The entire basis of his argument seems to be "from what I've seen". I've been all across my own country, and I see the behavior of people varies greatly from region to region. In fact, I'd hardly say I see enough consistent behavior to try and define the whole with any standard set of traits. What applies to some doesn't often apply to all others. In terms of the people I know, that's a large number of people. Thousands in my area I've met and talked to over time. I've yet to hear many people think that Americans did anything other than come in at the tail end of WW2 and drop some nukes on Japan. I've yet to see many people say Americans were the core focal point of Vietnam. I've yet see many people think America "invented democracy" (one of the most ignorant things I've heard). People do tend to think Americans won their independence because they "schooled" the British. I'll give him that. However, people know Americans are unhealthy fucks and that the quality of life around the world is not as shitty as this guy claims we think it is. People know that others around the world don't obsess over America (though it does seem like people in other countries do vaguely pay attention to American politics, but we aren't exclusive in that regard). I do agree that we are globally uninformed, many people don't seem to be aware of current global events that aren't featured on CNN or trending on twitter (or have to do with the royal family). I'm not an exception to this. Many of us do live hollow empty lives for the sake of security, but this isn't an exclusively American trait. I'd say that Japan has it FAR worse than us in this regard. I can't really comment about paranoia in a comparative sense. The only things that really seem as "hyped up" as he claims are our advertisements. Not a single person I know finds mundane activities "totally awesome". Quite the opposite. People dislike attention whores. One-upping is fairly common though, but that declines with age.
The pervasive exception to the above are parts of the deep south, where people are, unfortunately, genuinely fucking stupid. This does not apply to all of the south, however, as many seem to think it does. I could go on but I'm tired of writing about this.
The guy also contradicts himself several times in the article.
You'd also be wrong about me being outside the country. I've been to Canada, Italy, France, Japan, Belgium, and Germany. I have no idea what you mean by "eye opening". In Europe they tend to make chit chat about their country or whatever limited knowledge they have about American politics if they speak English. They might go off about other things (often times the arts, since that's my area of interest). People are more direct in Europe, I've noticed (which is something I had to acclimate to). They're also much more family oriented. In Belgium I found people are very warm; I absolutely LOVED Belgium. That may be because my best friend's wife is Belgian, though, so we were with a local most of the time. People are very non-judgmental about who you are as well. The age gaps seem to also matter a bit less. Their fries are fairly amazing. Japan was a bit awkward. Most people seemed a little nervous, like you were about to commit a faux-pas or something. Very friendly/polite though (though I have no doubt they were silently judging me). Anyway, like the article said, people are just people. I obviously didn't manage to integrate myself well into any other culture, so I might not have heard what people 'really' thought about me or America, but I don't see how that would change my views about my own country. I don't think we're great, not at all. I just don't see this guy as really saying many things that seem "on the nose".