VVThoughtBox said:
You're missing the big picture. Men do go to college on financial aid, scholarship, grants, and student loans. Men do have have to convince their family members that their career choice is worth it. I'm trying to say that women need those resources and have to be convincing about designing game being worth it to family members. Video games are still a new medium. Grandparents and Parents didn't have Super Mario, or Halo when they were kids. You don't suddenly decide to become a video game designer, and apply to an expensive private college on a whim. You have to develop an interest first, research the field, research the college you want to a apply to, secure resources necessary, and most importantly plan.
How is this sexist stereotyping? If you were to ask a woman what's her chosen field? Do you hear Game Designer being mentioned? Or do you here something diverse ranging from Liberal Arts, Nursing, Accounting, Criminal Justice, Child Psychology, Philosophy, and so on? Look, it's nice that more women are interested in video games, but the change isn't going to happen fast and suddenly. The movement is going to slowly build up momentum.
Well, the thing is, I AM a woman, and I am actually at this moment on the road to becoming a Game Designer. The thing about your post that I keep finding confusing and still do is that it seems you're trying to tell me that women have to convince their family to give their permission to pursuit such a career, while men do not need this permission/have a much easier time doing so. Implied, at least, since you're presenting it as a women exlusive problem. You're not saying it outright, but I can't help but see an implied "Women are less independant than men" and "Women consume more money than men" in your words, since they apparently have to convince their families to give their permission and have a tighter economy despite having access to the same base resources. One can also see it as if you're implying that men don't listen to their family and are irresponsible.
It's those implications that I find sexist and stereotyping. You probably didn't mean it like that, but it's what I keep seeing and I just can't see these issues as issues that actually exist, because these are issues that I myself, as a woman studying Game Design, have never encountered, so they just seem completely alien to me. Mind you, this might be because I'm a Swede and have grown up with different values and educational systems and all that, but still...
I am still not seeing why it's such a vastly bigger issue for women, though. :/