WittyInfidel said:
FargoDog said:
Wow.. Is it just me or does 'Ben' kind off come of like a bit of a dick in this article?
I worked retail for years. This is the average customer he's describing. They tend to get much worse. The truly nice and respectful customer, whom shows a glimmer of intelligence and understanding, is a rare find indeed. We treasure each and every one of you we find.
I'm not saying everybody is rude when it comes to shopping/haggling/trading, but I have been spit on by more people than I have have been treated kindly and fairly by. Sad thing is, I'm very polite and understanding when it comes to customer service, and have been told many times I'm too nice. It had landed me as employee of the month a few times, but never made dealing with the general populace any easier.
Working retail takes a toll on you. People's rudeness and self-absorbed selfishness can erode away most of what is nice and kind about you, leaving behind an etched bedrock of apathy and bitterness. Needless to say, I am not the"bouncing little ball of sunshine" I used to be. (an actual descriptor given me by co-workers)
Honestly, I can connect with him. I'm not saying I agree with everything he describes, but I can fully understand where he's coming from.
When I ran a counter at a Subway, I found the majority of people you have to deal with are reasonably polite and don't cause unnecessary waves, but there was this great saying I heard years back: 10% of people are assholes and the other 90% are assholes 10% of the time.
So, someone will come in, buy five dollars worth of something, then act aghast that you expect them to count out the giant pile of pennies and put them into some sort of easily countable order, while you deal with the line out the door of other customers.
Or they talk among themselves for 10 minutes until they reach the counter... and then get down to the business of figuring out exactly what it is they want.
Or they're so busy talking on their cell phone that they mime their order to you, then get pissed when you put something on it they didn't want.
Or they send their husband into the store to order their food, only he's an idiot and has to run outside the store every time you ask him a question.
Or they, in a completely misguided attempt at helpfulness say "I have the 97 cents", then spent three minutes digging it out of their purse or have to run out to their car for it.
Or the person who comes in two minutes before you close, takes five minutes to make up their mind, ignores you when you say that you're closing, then sits down for 15 minutes eating their sandwich, leaving behind a gigantic mess.
Or when a group of people come in and one of them comes rushing up to the counter... this will be the one guy who *doesn't* know what he wants to order.
One of my personal favorites, the people who nit-pick your sandwich making... to no logical outcome. They want mayo. You put mayo on it. That's too much... you take half the mayo off. That's too little... you put more on it than was originally there and they're happy.
Another favorite and this one happened all the time. A couple comes in. She goes to the bathroom and he refuses to order his sandwich before she returns... like he's afraid he'll order the wrong sandwich for himself.
And the "20 years later" version. The old married couple where the husband doesn't know if he likes mustard and has to ask his wife. Seriously, how do you not know if you like mustard or not, but this, again, happened all the time.
But the vast majority of people knew what they wanted, didn't waste yours (or other customer's) time, only complained when there was a legitimate problem, and treated you like you were a human being. But get two or three of the above examples in a row and you wanted to chlorinate the gene pool.