Good question, though one might offer that a person in poverty might transcend that poverty through hard work, financial planning and ambition. Part of it is what privileges we have to draw on and part is what privileges we earn for ourselves. Sometimes the former is so lacking that the latter seems unobtainable. It crushes the spirit, especially when one sees those born with much of the former have so little need for the latter. Can someone born into poverty and with little access to the cash needed for school really become a doctor? There are those that have, I'm certain. But just because some can, and have, does not mean that that should be the standard of expectation.leviadragon99 said:It can be a rather daunting thing to have nothing but your own choices setting your path... but then that itself assumes a rather utopian outlook where nothing on this plane of existence can influence what options are available to us.
Can someone born into poverty truly choose to become a doctor if the government of their country provides no means for those without money and no connections to draw money from to attain an education?
Regardless, however much or little control we have over our lives, abnegating responsibility for what choices we can unambiguously make is simple cowardice.
Well, one of the things to understand also is that every person wants to be prosperous and do something of value, or which they enjoy. The needs of a society however mandate that the vast majority of people need to do basic labor for little reward for it to function. See, every kid wants to be a Doctor, an Astronaut, or some kind of leader, and pretty much every person wants a lavish and comfortable lifestyle whether they admit it or not. The exceptions to this exist, but are very rare, and oftentimes come about as a result of one kind of conditioning or another. At the end of the day though society only needs so many Doctors and leaders. The big question in today's world is of course how one decides who gets to do what, and how the people at the bottom of the totem pole wind up there. Philosophies like Communism or various forms of "Anarchy" tend to be omitted from such discussions because at the end of the day both ensure that the unpleasant jobs that society requires in vast quantities are not going to be done. As a result we wind up with various socialized or competitive systems whereby people people are assigned work based on capabilities and more important society's need, or through a form of ruthless social Darwinism. That said the truth remains that the people at the bottom are always going to be miserable and looking at the top with envy. Those in an "assigned" system will look at the leaders and think that if they could compete fairly they themselves could lead or do an important job, those in competitive systems tend to think it's unfair that they can be kept down by someone who is simply smarter, better looking, more charismatic, or simply more ruthless than they are and think they would benefit if society stepped in to more directly control things.Gorrath said:There is simply no way of knowing if "choice" actually exists or not. Unless we can replay history to see if the results turn out the same, it remains a strong possibility that we have no choice. If we are not free, because choice is an illusion, we also have no responsibility. And yet in order to have a functional society, we must believe that our freedom is real, our choices are our own and that we are responsible for what we do, to whatever degree the context of any situation allows.
Good question, though one might offer that a person in poverty might transcend that poverty through hard work, financial planning and ambition. Part of it is what privileges we have to draw on and part is what privileges we earn for ourselves. Sometimes the former is so lacking that the latter seems unobtainable. It crushes the spirit, especially when one sees those born with much of the former have so little need for the latter. Can someone born into poverty and with little access to the cash needed for school really become a doctor? There are those that have, I'm certain. But just because some can, and have, does not mean that that should be the standard of expectation.leviadragon99 said:It can be a rather daunting thing to have nothing but your own choices setting your path... but then that itself assumes a rather utopian outlook where nothing on this plane of existence can influence what options are available to us.
Can someone born into poverty truly choose to become a doctor if the government of their country provides no means for those without money and no connections to draw money from to attain an education?
Regardless, however much or little control we have over our lives, abnegating responsibility for what choices we can unambiguously make is simple cowardice.
I think a society should nurture the talents of its people and value those talents more than it does class. I also think society should allow talented people to flourish when they work hard and apply themselves. I don't think class should be the prime determining factor in success and I don't think society should coddle the lazy. I believe there's a middle ground here.
I would take some small exception to some of what you say here, but it'd mostly be nitpicking. Some people are quite happy with doing what work they can find and enjoying what pleasures they have, without a strong ambitious urge to go further or even want further. I tend to be one such person; I find the idea of mega-success sort of repulsive, as I think it'd strip me of too many relationships to be worth it. But I am not most people and so you point stands. Those with privilege gained through birthright tend to see systems that allow them to exercise that privilege as preferable. Those born without privilege gained through birthright tend to see systems that allow them easier access to earned privilege as preferable. The two types of privilege tend to be at odds with one another, though I'm not certain they have to be. In any case, I find nothing particularly disagreeable about what you say above.Therumancer said:Well, one of the things to understand also is that every person wants to be prosperous and do something of value, or which they enjoy. The needs of a society however mandate that the vast majority of people need to do basic labor for little reward for it to function. See, every kid wants to be a Doctor, an Astronaut, or some kind of leader, and pretty much every person wants a lavish and comfortable lifestyle whether they admit it or not. The exceptions to this exist, but are very rare, and oftentimes come about as a result of one kind of conditioning or another. At the end of the day though society only needs so many Doctors and leaders. The big question in today's world is of course how one decides who gets to do what, and how the people at the bottom of the totem pole wind up there. Philosophies like Communism or various forms of "Anarchy" tend to be omitted from such discussions because at the end of the day both ensure that the unpleasant jobs that society requires in vast quantities are not going to be done. As a result we wind up with various socialized or competitive systems whereby people people are assigned work based on capabilities and more important society's need, or through a form of ruthless social Darwinism. That said the truth remains that the people at the bottom are always going to be miserable and looking at the top with envy. Those in an "assigned" system will look at the leaders and think that if they could compete fairly they themselves could lead or do an important job, those in competitive systems tend to think it's unfair that they can be kept down by someone who is simply smarter, better looking, more charismatic, or simply more ruthless than they are and think they would benefit if society stepped in to more directly control things.
Quite true here as well. Though one can build a society that puts more emphasis on talent than birthright. This is done by nurturing talent through education. Education opportunity is the single most effective way to mitigate the multi-generational issues created by the inevitable class system. It is undoubtedly better to have a well educated population, even among those who, by choice or chance, end up doing the menial labor of society.Societies exist in the long term, and as such things tend to work multi-generationally where people both leave their success for their children, or the children of the unsuccessful wind up with few opportunities. No system is able to do away with this as there are always going to be long-term, multi-generational issues. In an assigned system those at the top will of course want to assign family members and those they know to the better jobs, in a competitive system while fortunes are won and lost the children of the successful usually wind up benefitting from that success.
I am one such person who rejects all notion of the supernatural, but I do agree with you that "fate" may exist and may even be likely in the sense that, whether by nature or nurture, we are "programmed" to react certain ways. How many of our choices are made, free of the bonds of taboo, tradition and other such societal pressures? None. If I were a betting man I'd guess that free will was an illusion altogether. But even if it is an illusion, we must act as if it's not. This is why it's so important that we craft that edifice you speak of with care. If we admit that society at large is responsible for guiding our collective "fate" more than we'd want to admit, it is paramount we pay fine attention to what we've built. This I think again reinforces the notion and need for the best system of education possible.The problem is that Sartre's philosophy doesn't work except on the smallest scales, because the first thing it does is omit any kind of higher order or principle existing within the universe. "There is no god" a statement I disagree with, but even if one disregards the supernatural in all it's forms including things like Karma, you still wind up with a situation where mankind becomes it's own god through a sort of societal consciousness, basically the edifice that is society makes decisions and creates pressures beyond the control or understanding of the individual that can literally wind up giving them a "Fate". Even those who resist their fate usually do so due to opportunities within, and allowed by, their society.
Criminals may very well have a valid complaint, but much as we can't accept that we have no free will, we can't accept that criminals aren't responsible for their own actions either. Without getting into the minutiae of morality by example, I think it suffices to say that every society has its faults and strengths and we are both part of, partially in control of and at the mercy of society all at once. As with the above, the best we can hope to do is educate ourselves and be as moral as we can be. No matter how slow a society changes, an educated society can at least hope to change for the better, if we define better as being that which is more moral and ethical.The whole stereotype of criminals blaming society is an old one, but few people really bother to examine that. At the end of the day we've all probably had things happen to us we didn't like, with literally nobody we can address or confront on the other end. Society works on it's own beyond any individual, people get marching orders, and if you do follow the decisions up the tree you oftentimes wind up with a situation where it comes down to long standing policies which exist for objectively good reasons (even if they don't benefit you) and which were set by groups of people or might have existed before the current bureaucrat was ever in office. I don't articulate it well, but society can be a nebulous, incredibly powerful, and incredibly capricious entity (due to all of it's contridictions) that intentionally changes only very slowly, and yet has overwhelming power over the individual. In other words it's very similar to the concept of a god. Indeed various writers have approached the subject of society becoming a god, and bureaucracies achieving self awareness. To an extent Neil Gaiman's "New Gods" approached this subject and had confrontations between old gods like Odin and new ones like "Media" (which has it's own avatar).
Right you are, and this was my thought when the example was brought up as well. We may think of the woman as abdicating her choice, but in reality, she is hamstrung by a taboo. From her perspective, the best choice might not be husband or lover, but both.To put this into context in case someone doesn't get it. Take the case of the woman torn between two lovers, why can't she have both? The reason is because society decided this is not permitted, and of course everyone was conditioned to think that way, as a result she's forced to make a choice with that choice conforming to certain parameters.
And this is a great demonstration as to why that edifice we produce must be as carefully calibrated and well thought-out as possible. We must be progressive in our thinking. If a tradition exists because it's based on the good sense of a society from a hundred years ago, we need to examine that tradition and the sense behind it. If we find the good sense of now contradicts the tradition, we should do away with it. If we find that the good sense backing the tradition still stands, we should keep the tradition. What we should avoid is tradition, and taboo, for their own sake. Tradition should exist to serve us, not the other way around. This is how we avoid making the Gods of tradition that you speak of. Do we exist in a society that would really suffer if polygamy was law? I can't say, but if we were to find out that polygamy is either beneficial or even simply neutral to the health of society and its people, there's no reason it shouldn't be the law.To look further at that, the reason why she has to make a choice like that is because society decided Polygamy is a bad thing as it usually amounts to the richest and most powerful men taking all of the women (or the best ones) and then forcing out the young men to avoid competition with them being unable to marry. It also leads into various arguments about how without families it leads young men to war and violence, and also arguments about eugenics where by the best men breeding with the crop of the best women it leads to a superior institution among the rich and nobility, while the poorer people, forced to breed multiple times, and among inferior stock, wind up becoming inferior due to the genes and it cements the social system. Eugenics are a touchy subject, especially nowadays when it comes to people, but it has been part of the thought process. One might say "but Therumancer, that only applies to men marrying multiple women, why can't a woman have multiple husbands" the answer to that comes down to the civilized ideas of equality, especially nowadays, whereby you cannot make special laws holding back a group of people despite the occasional intrusion of common sense, this if your going to pass a law like this you cannot prevent a man from having multiple wives exclusively, it has to apply to everyone (in this case wives with multiple husbands). The point here being is that there is some solid logic involved here, even if some people are going to disagree with it, and policies have been made about it that go well beyond any current decision maker or authority. These policies, and the societal pressure, thus force the woman into the position of having to make that choice to begin with, in part because if she doesn't choose one the penalties she can face potentially legally (if she marries both) or socially (if she maintains a husband and a lover without marriage) make it impractical, and even destructive to all involved, not to make that choice.
Well, I mean, they would both have to be big, burly, hairy men with latent homosexual feelings beforehand...Baresark said:I always find stances that are against religion based on these arguments completely off base. Christianity assumes free will and responsibility, so there is a non-argument as the basis for Sartre's argument.
I always felt the best outcome of the woman was this:
She leads them to each other, they realize she is a big 'ol slut, grab a bear and she gets neither.
If happiness is just part of the programming, we aren't even free to be not happy. Happiness, like all emotions/reactions would just be a consequence of our perception, run through the filters of our programming. The good news about this lack of control is that we are not simply selfish beings driven to ensure our own survival. If we were free to turn off our emotional output, or simply alter it to whatever we desired, then any input could lead to any output, which would be dangerous for our nature as moral/ethical beings.Lightknight said:I'm not sure this deals with happiness at all. It's just a discourse on free will and the implications of it.
The counter question should be that if we were not free, would we be able to be happy or would even that just be our programming.
The alternative is important to consider.
Christianity also punishes you for free will by calling your choices as sins. for example the slut shaming you just did.Baresark said:I always find stances that are against religion based on these arguments completely off base. Christianity assumes free will and responsibility, so there is a non-argument as the basis for Sartre's argument.
I always felt the best outcome of the woman was this:
She leads them to each other, they realize she is a big 'ol slut, grab a bear and she gets neither.
But some people have the opinion/belief that people who cheat, or even lead men to fight one another just so they can "prove themselves" to be terrible people. It's not just Christians either. Slut is a term used for someone who is considered loose, and I've seen it applied to men as well. Jut because you have free will doesn't mean you should entirely act on it, especially if it'd hurt someone. Me? I'm not into open relationships. If I were being cheated on, and/or being pitted against another man by my wife just to choose for her, I'd be under the same belief: She's a terrible person who will easily spread her legs even when in a relationship, and I want nothing to do with her. To me, that's shameful.Strazdas said:Christianity also punishes you for free will by calling your choices as sins. for example the slut shaming you just did.Baresark said:I always find stances that are against religion based on these arguments completely off base. Christianity assumes free will and responsibility, so there is a non-argument as the basis for Sartre's argument.
I always felt the best outcome of the woman was this:
She leads them to each other, they realize she is a big 'ol slut, grab a bear and she gets neither.
LoL, I didn't slut shame anyone. She is a fictional person who has no social standing so therefore, there is nothing to shame. But whatever you say. To the point at hand, it still gives you the freedom of those choices. No one can guarantee any decision is free of consequence, actually, no decision is free of consequence. Those consequences will change from society to society or value system to value system, but you are still free of make those choices.Strazdas said:Christianity also punishes you for free will by calling your choices as sins. for example the slut shaming you just did.Baresark said:I always find stances that are against religion based on these arguments completely off base. Christianity assumes free will and responsibility, so there is a non-argument as the basis for Sartre's argument.
I always felt the best outcome of the woman was this:
She leads them to each other, they realize she is a big 'ol slut, grab a bear and she gets neither.
Yes, There are other people that think certain actions are not good too, but the person i quoted raised christianity as somehow above it.Crimsom Storm said:But some people have the opinion/belief that people who cheat, or even lead men to fight one another just so they can "prove themselves" to be terrible people. It's not just Christians either. Slut is a term used for someone who is considered loose, and I've seen it applied to men as well. Jut because you have free will doesn't mean you should entirely act on it, especially if it'd hurt someone. Me? I'm not into open relationships. If I were being cheated on, and/or being pitted against another man by my wife just to choose for her, I'd be under the same belief: She's a terrible person who will easily spread her legs even when in a relationship, and I want nothing to do with her. To me, that's shameful.
Please note: This does NOT include men and women who are porn actresses who do this to pay bills, or are in knowingly open relationships. This thought track only applies to men and women who engage in such acts while with someone who actively believes they're in a closed relationship. Also, the woman has no right to choose both if unless both the men in question are comfortable with this choice. If they are, more power to them, otherwise, no, she doesn't get that option.
Just because its a fictional character does not meant it cannot be slutshamed.Baresark said:LoL, I didn't slut shame anyone. She is a fictional person who has no social standing so therefore, there is nothing to shame. But whatever you say. To the point at hand, it still gives you the freedom of those choices. No one can guarantee any decision is free of consequence, actually, no decision is free of consequence. Those consequences will change from society to society or value system to value system, but you are still free of make those choices.
But here's the thing, there is no noticeable or intrinsic difference between having been programmed vs. self-programming if you will. There is no inherent difference between whether or not I'm typing this because I as a being am creating this of my own free will compared to if I'm creating this as a created simulation of a being with free will. To me, it would be impossible to know the difference and even if told the truth and shown the reality it would be impossible for me to not feel like my reactions to that information are my own rather than the programming they could be.Gorrath said:If happiness is just part of the programming, we aren't even free to be not happy. Happiness, like all emotions/reactions would just be a consequence of our perception, run through the filters of our programming. The good news about this lack of control is that we are not simply selfish beings driven to ensure our own survival. If we were free to turn off our emotional output, or simply alter it to whatever we desired, then any input could lead to any output, which would be dangerous for our nature as moral/ethical beings.Lightknight said:I'm not sure this deals with happiness at all. It's just a discourse on free will and the implications of it.
The counter question should be that if we were not free, would we be able to be happy or would even that just be our programming.
The alternative is important to consider.
I think it's somewhat of a mistake to consider the fact that we do have items to base our decisions off of as programming. Free will is more in our ability to evaluate the decisions on our own merits even if the factors we evaluate and the merits we measure them by are influenced by the environment around us and our own biological heritage.We may or may not have any freedom as it relates to our programming, since it is possible to prove that we are in some ways bound by it and impossible to prove that we aren't completely bound by it. We do have some freedom from societal pressure though, as the demolition of Maslow's hierarchy demonstrates. If an individual is not even bound by basic necessity to be happy, they certainly don't need society's approval to be happy. But still, whatever effect our basic needs or society's approval has on our actions as they relate to our own happiness, we may very well still be slaves to the programming that underlies who we are. Even if we are free of the bonds of society and basic necessity, we are still slaves to ourselves. Maybe!
Well, by definition slut shaming means to publicly shame someone for having multiple sex partners simultaneously, which I'm fine with anyone doing if that is what they want to do (having multiple sex partners that is). Since the character is fictional, they don't have a social standing that can be damaged by the act of calling them a slut and they aren't even named and don't look like anyone in particular. For the record, I don't call real people sluts. I don't like the word simply because it's amazingly simplistic when talking about a person and is kind of hard on ears.Strazdas said:Just because its a fictional character does not meant it cannot be slutshamed.Baresark said:LoL, I didn't slut shame anyone. She is a fictional person who has no social standing so therefore, there is nothing to shame. But whatever you say. To the point at hand, it still gives you the freedom of those choices. No one can guarantee any decision is free of consequence, actually, no decision is free of consequence. Those consequences will change from society to society or value system to value system, but you are still free of make those choices.
See, the problem with choice and responsibility is that if certain actions will result in eternal torment its not really freedom. If you get punished its not a free choice. a free choice in a simple example can be picking which pencil to use. going to hell for being gay is not free choice.
P.S. sorry if my thoughts drifted in this one, im a bit.. high... on painkillers.. today.
Always a fascinating subject to discuss, especially in terms of modern science. We are not just our programming. We do have some level of freedom of choice. I can decide to go to work, get there and turn around and come home. Or I can choose to just go to work. Or I can choose to call out and not go at all. And this choice can be modified on the fly. Our "programming" will certainly dictated how comfortable we are with those decisions, but the those decisions are always in front of us and an option.Gorrath said:If happiness is just part of the programming, we aren't even free to be not happy. Happiness, like all emotions/reactions would just be a consequence of our perception, run through the filters of our programming. The good news about this lack of control is that we are not simply selfish beings driven to ensure our own survival. If we were free to turn off our emotional output, or simply alter it to whatever we desired, then any input could lead to any output, which would be dangerous for our nature as moral/ethical beings.Lightknight said:I'm not sure this deals with happiness at all. It's just a discourse on free will and the implications of it.
The counter question should be that if we were not free, would we be able to be happy or would even that just be our programming.
The alternative is important to consider.
We may or may not have any freedom as it relates to our programming, since it is possible to prove that we are in some ways bound by it and impossible to prove that we aren't completely bound by it. We do have some freedom from societal pressure though, as the demolition of Maslow's hierarchy demonstrates. If an individual is not even bound by basic necessity to be happy, they certainly don't need society's approval to be happy. But still, whatever effect our basic needs or society's approval has on our actions as they relate to our own happiness, we may very well still be slaves to the programming that underlies who we are. Even if we are free of the bonds of society and basic necessity, we are still slaves to ourselves. Maybe!