Obama Advises Fathers to "Turn Off the Videogames"

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Obama Advises Fathers to "Turn Off the Videogames"



The President of the United States wrote an open letter to American fathers encouraging them to spend time with kids.

This Sunday in the United States was Father's Day, that annual time of year we feel guilted into calling our dads and wishing them well. Barack Obama is a father of two girls himself, and he made a point this weekend of posting there is one [http://www.whitehouse.gov/blog/2011/06/19/taking-time-be-dad]) about what being a father means to him. The piece is written in Obama's characteristic style, and signals the start of his administration's program to help fathers in need spend more time with their children. Called the Year of Strong Fathers, Strong Families, Obama has negotiated cheaper ticket prices and coupons for activities for dads and kids. The gesture came from noble intentions, but there was one line in Obama's letter that stuck in the craw of gamers across the nation.

"We know that every father has a personal responsibility to do right by their kids - to encourage them to turn off the videogames and pick up a book; to teach them the difference between right and wrong; to show them through our own example the value in treating one another as we wish to be treated. And most of all, to play an active and engaged role in their lives," Obama wrote, with the emphasis mine.

Now, Obama doesn't have a history of being an ignorant hater of electronic entertainment, but he has cautioned against videogames and other technology distracting students from education in the past [http://news.yahoo.com/s/ytech_gadg/20100510/tc_ytech_gadg/ytech_gadg_tc1973]. The tone the President uses, however, when discussing games is far from inflammatory, he just advises fathers to take an active part in their kid's lives. Whether that comes with the games on, or off, is up to the father in question.

And being a lover of books, I can't fault Obama for advising kids to pick up a Tolkien or Isaac Asimov or George R. R. Martin novel instead of playing the 57th round of Black Ops or watching the 5000th annoyingly long cutscene.

On second thought, maybe Martin is a little too racy for those under ten. Wait until you're 13, kid, before you pick up A Game of Thrones. Then it will blow your freaking mind!

Source: White House.gov [http://www.whitehouse.gov/blog/2011/06/19/taking-time-be-dad]

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Bretty

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He does make a good point though. Regardless of the debate on what is good and bad for children regarding what they do on their free time.

I think it is too easy to stare at a screen (hell I do that most of the day myself) all day.
 

GonzoGamer

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This is America we?re talking about. Some kids are better off with the games raising them. Ever hear the people that call in to talk radio, those are the ones I?m talking about but they probably don?t listen to Obama anyway.
I don?t think it?s anything gamers should take personally though. If it were the 70s, he would be talking about the TV, if it were the 40s, he would be saying they should turn off the radio.
I think parents do need to help their kids manage their free time during the summer. Even the kids who are pretty good with it on their own need some direction sometimes.
 

unacomn

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He's encouraging responsibility parenting!? How unamerican. Jack Thompson's entire carrier was based on parents not being accountable for anything, he's going to put generations of lawyers, news writers, and mouthpieces out of business. That's not capitalism. He cares about the fate of other generations, he must be a communist.
 

ZeZZZZevy

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cursedseishi said:
Hey, why not Orson Scott Card? Enders Game (Enders Shadow was good as well) remains to be among my most favorite books, and hell it has games in it too!
I second this, those books were amazing.

And I see his point here, family time is important, if only to give kids the drive to do better in life.
 

Braedan

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gotta agree about the game of thrones comment. I bought it last week and while I play gaames i find myself wanting to quit and go back to reading.....

gaming is a good bonding tool on the other hand....
 

TimeLord

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unacomn said:
He's encouraging responsibility parenting!? How unamerican. Jack Thompson's entire carrier was based on parents not being accountable for anything, he's going to put generations of lawyers, news writers, and mouthpieces out of business. That's not capitalism. He cares about the fate of other generations, he must be a communist.
And thus will be assassinated within the week.

OT: I have to agree with Mr Obama on this one. Fathers need to spend the time raising their kids.
 

TheEnglishman

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To quote Kent Brockman: "This barley qualifies as news."

He said a throw away line about video games, a perfectly acceptable one, and nobody cares. Slow news day?
 

Hungry Donner

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My six-year-old son enjoys Minecraft and various flash games, and is trying to get into Portal but he gets very concerned about the turrets. (As if turrets weren't adorable enough already.)

His kindergarten followed a literacy program called 100 Book Challenge this year, and the goal was to read four hundred books by the end of the year (we're not talking novels here, at his age level books are pretty short).

He finished the year having read 1092 books, with probably half of them having been read with me following along to fix any mistakes. I'd guess he's doing well with his reading and time spent with me.

These comments aside I think it's worthwhile to discuss the importance of reading and of putting down games, there are a lot of kids who do too much of the former and not enough of the latter.
 

JMeganSnow

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Playing video games together WAS the quality time I spent with my dad--although he read books to me, too. We read through a big long series on mythology, ghost stories, Arthurian legend, fairy tales, and that shit SCARRED ME FOR LIFE. Eight years old and here I'm reading about people getting their toes cut off and intestines pulled out and being forced to dance to death in red-hot shoes or rolled through town in a barrel with nails pounded through it. With lovely illustrations, too. At least the graphics in my video games were so bad that when enemies died, a bunch of boxes with big red skulls popped up over them.

I kid, I kid, I loved those stories. I credit them with my successful career in hacking up dead people with a bandsaw. I need a new job like that.
 

ChildofGallifrey

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No, Mr. President, I don't think I will. My little girl has a blast watching me play through JRPGs (she likes the big, flashy spell effects). We enjoy our gaming time together, so we'll keep having fun together. M'kay?
 

Rad Party God

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When I was a kid, I wished that my father could play some games with me, even for 5 minutes... [/foreveralone]
 

JMeganSnow

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Hungry Donner said:
These comments aside I think it's worthwhile to discuss the importance of reading and of putting down games, there are a lot of kids who do too much of the former and not enough of the latter.
I'd rather people encouraged their kids to build/make/create/work with all sorts of projects rather than just passively absorbing entertainment or information, personally. The people I know who are successful in life spent their childhood camping, fishing, riding horses, exploding bottles in the woods, riding bikes, fighting with friends, scraping paint off the garage door, erecting sheds, planting corn, rewiring the house, fixing the plumbing, raising sheep, building model trains, shooting hoops, changing the oil . . .

You get the picture.
 

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Hmm... I'm not against Obama or his encouragement for people to interact, and I don't really hold this comment against him, but I still resent the comment.

I guess it's just more evidence of the unfair antagonisation of video games. It's still okay to use them as a scapegoat for people not interacting and such. Books shouldn't be seen as automatically a better medium than video games. If he's trying to get fathers and sons to spend more time together then getting kids to read books isn't going to do anything. You will just make them move from one solitary pastime to another.
 

Ghengis John

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SupahGamuh said:
When I was a kid, I wished that my father could play some games with me, even for 5 minutes... [/foreveralone]
My dad and I used to play video games together all the time. He particularly loved super Mario brothers and the whole family would play duckhunt. As a matter of fact, if you give him an old-fashioned 2D Mario Brothers game today he will still play it. Good memories. You have my condolences.

As for the president, I see nothing wrong with what he's saying at all. My parents used to read to me all the time and it fostered a love of reading for enjoyment in me that I'm frankly grateful for. And if he's talking about doing your school work then all the more so important is it for kids to learn to put away their distractions. Now, if my folks had urged me to work a little harder and a little more often I might be a lot better off.
 

Kenjitsuka

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How about advising to play a videogame together, Obama?
That's your first dose of parental guidance right there!
 

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TheEnglishman said:
Slow news day?
Sorry, but whenever I see someone utter this phrase I can't help but imagine them with a huge troll grin, and can no longer take their comment seriously.


"lol lol slow news day escapist??"
 

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I would say 13 might be abit to young i mean some of those scenes are downright disturbing