A boy problem of course *Updated*

[The Man With the Soap]

We have skyped and talked on the phone since almost when we first met. We're actually on skype as I type this. And it's the other side of the country not another one but the point still stands. I just feel like I'm being overly paranoid.

It's okay for you to be paranoid. After all, those crazy Alliance doctors have been fiddling around with your brain. Just don't holler while you're around the cattle, please.

If you have used webcam, you could probably guage him a little better. What he's capable of and all that. If you really want to go meet him, go for it. But, be wary. Walk softly, and carry a big gun.

Also, don't be so hard on yourself. Life is hard enough without us adding unneccessary worries to ourselves. Besides, I can tell you have good taste in television shows.

 

[Griffolion]

Wow, you're so lucky someone likes you.


Now that's pathetic.

 

[rutger5000]

Life is an adventure, and in my opinion should be lived as one. Go see that guy, go see what happens. If it's something good, good If bad stuff happens, too bad that's life. Take a moment to catch your breath again, and move one.

I have to disagree here. While some things can be approached by this mentality, going to see a guy far away alone and etc etc based on her situation has many possible bad outcomes that simply cannot be fixed by catching your breath. Harassment, rape, kidnapping, just to name a few. It's a very risky situation in my opinion, given the signs that this guy has given and the reactions he's displayed. While I'm all for taking risks in ones life, when it could change your life for the worse, I feel more thought should be put into it. Taking someone with her is the best idea here. That way if something really bad happens, she has a friend to fall back on.

I thought that I had added this, but apparently I didn't:
"But I have to admit that this is easy for me to say, a being 6,4 tall guy doesn't make you look an easy target."
Other then that. I personally find my live-style worth the risks. I hope I wouldn't change it if it ever got me harnessed, raped or kidnapped.
I personally made the choice to trust strangers, and I plan to stick to it. I also think a lot of people could be happier if they did the same. But again for me it's safer to trust people.