A cry for help

[HentMas]

hello Escapist...

i find myself alone, after going to a "strip joint" with several friends, i am haf drunk and alone in my house, i just wanted to ask you guys (and girls) if you could join me right now my msngr is "[email protected]"

i recently found out that my wife wants a divorce, i have being strong about the thing... but right now, i feel considerably vulnerable, and i am drinking alone, so please , add me and chat with me at least this night... i really need some peers i can relate to, all my friends went home to sleep, they were the ones that suggested i should go to the strip joint with them... but i felt so empty and bad in there i need some reasurance there are good people in the world

please excuse my disregard of grammar... i am half drunk after all (and still drinking so expect to be fully drunk about in an hour) also, i am a gamer, a rather serious gamer something my friends dont understand (i asked them to come and game with me, but they prefered the strip joit)


please, come and keep me company, thats all i ask!

 

[bodyklok]

At time of writing 34 people have viewed this thread, and not one of them has even stopped by to offer a word of support. Have any of you heard the story of The Good Samaritan? A man is left robbed and beaten on the side of the road, and a bunch of dudes just walk past him, kinda like I'm going to now...

I'm sorry dude. I wish there was more I could do, but, I really don't feel comfortable talking to a random dude on the internet. All I can say is this that I'm sorry, and, that this happens to thousands of people all the time, you can get throw this. It's not as hard as it looks or feels. You just have to take things one day at a time, until your life gets back to normal, or failing that, you find a new sort of normal, believe it or not but things like this can be opportunities in disguise, as long as you hold on.

 

[bluepilot]

Try to get some sleep. Staying awake on the internet is an insommnia trap. Things are always clearer in the morning. It is darkest before the dawn.

Try writing down some of your worries on paper. That always helps me to let go...

 

[The Blue Mongoose]

Hey man. This is way over my head, as I have no previous experience that could relate to your situation.

That being said, I hope you find someone to help you out.

 

[HentMas]

well... 2 guys actually came and talked to me, they helped a lot!!!, i feel less lonely, and thanks to whoever wrote here, i appreciate it

At time of writing 34 people have viewed this thread, and not one of them has even stopped by to offer a word of support. Have any of you heard the story of The Good Samaritan? A man is left robbed and beaten on the side of the road, and a bunch of dudes just walk past him, kinda like I'm going to now...

I'm sorry dude. I wish there was more I could do, but, I really don't feel comfortable talking to a random dude on the internet. All I can say is this that I'm sorry, and, that this happens to thousands of people all the time, you can get throw this. It's not as hard as it looks or feels. You just have to take things one day at a time, until your life gets back to normal, or failing that, you find a new sort of normal, believe it or not but things like this can be opportunities in disguise, as long as you hold on.

you having posted this is great man... thank you! i feel happy to know people actually care!

 

[bodyklok]

well... 2 guys actually came and talked to me, they helped a lot!!!, i feel less lonely, and thanks to whoever wrote here, i appreciate it

At time of writing 34 people have viewed this thread, and not one of them has even stopped by to offer a word of support. Have any of you heard the story of The Good Samaritan? A man is left robbed and beaten on the side of the road, and a bunch of dudes just walk past him, kinda like I'm going to now...

I'm sorry dude. I wish there was more I could do, but, I really don't feel comfortable talking to a random dude on the internet. All I can say is this that I'm sorry, and, that this happens to thousands of people all the time, you can get throw this. It's not as hard as it looks or feels. You just have to take things one day at a time, until your life gets back to normal, or failing that, you find a new sort of normal, believe it or not but things like this can be opportunities in disguise, as long as you hold on.

you having posted this is great man... thank you! i feel happy to know people actually care!

No problem, dude, I'm grateful just to be able to help.

 

[Borrowed Time]

*snip*

I've been through a divorce myself. Interestingly enough though, I was the one who initiated it so I'm unsure as to if you would even accept what I would have to say. All I can say is it does get better. If you really would like to talk and such, PM me. Be prepared for frankness though. =P I'm not one to hold back much when I start talking about such things.

 

[Max_A_Buck]

I care also. I know I haven't exactly been married to anyone to know the pain of divorce but, like anyone, I've been hurt in a relationship. It sucks but we all get through it. If nothing else works, do what I've been known to do, metal and weights. Get out any feelings through anger, that is. Good luck with it all dude. Take care.

 

[Fire Daemon]

The Escapist has a chat room which can be found through the community page at the top of the Off-topic forum. I'm not sure whats going on there at the moment but they are usually open to helping people and having a good chat, usually. If you still need people to talk to, try them out.

Although to be honest random people on the Internet should not be who you reach out to for help. Do you have any family members or friends who don't take you to strip clubs? I would recommend getting some sleep and talking to them in the morning.


Sorry I couldn't have been more help, I don't really have any advice to give.

 

[Katherine Kerensky]

Oh hells no. I have this magical talent. I make wildly inappropriate jokes when people are suffering. A friends gf died a few years back. I asked him if now was a good time for me to borrow her (had been a running gag with us for years) so yeah... True it just got a laugh out of him but I am sure many other people would have removed my front teeth for me.
Just jump in the IRC chat room. Lots of people to comfort you there.

I don't know if I should be sorry that I laughed when I read what you said

OP: There will always be a way through this
I felt so free when I broke up...
but I'm a gamer, so that was more time for games (and schemes)
I'm sure you'll be able to find the silver lining to this. there are always opportunities to exploit.

 

[Borrowed Time]

I don't know if I should be sorry that I laughed when I read what you said

Tell me about it. This is the same guy whose next gf when I found out she was pregnant I sent a freaking wire coat hanger as a baby shower present...

Wait for it......

She fucking miscarried. -.-;;;

I have a sense of humor, but, wow. A bit much for my tastes. >_<

 

[Katherine Kerensky]

I don't know if I should be sorry that I laughed when I read what you said

Tell me about it. This is the same guy whose next gf when I found out she was pregnant I sent a freaking wire coat hanger as a baby shower present...

Wait for it......

She fucking miscarried. -.-;;;

I don't know if I should be laughing at that one, but the Evil in me takes glee at that.
Not a good thing for me to let my bad side loose... I Prefer to help people
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