I would bolt the door and not risk with the chain. Wait it out and stay up till the thing walks away, while closing my windows and putting the bars up.
If being wary of strangers makes me a psychopath then so be it. I think its better than giving someone a chance to take advantage of you. Good for you if you are confident enough in your ability to defend yourself unarmed but some of us aren't and like to have a weapon lying around in case push comes to shove. Its not like we're running around the streets with knives and guns hoping someone will try to mug us so we can kill them.mjcabooseblu said:Seriously, though, you guys are aware that you sound like psychopaths, right?
Well I'm not saying you should throw open the door with your eyes closed and bare your chest for whatever blows may come.Tuesday Night Fever said:Speaking honestly? No.Hagi said:I do find it a bit weird to see so many so scared, is it really that bad wherever you guys are from?
Home invasions in my area are on the rise, but they're far from common place. That's not the reason for my response being as it is.
The reason is that I don't want those I care about or myself to be a victim. It's very easy to assume that because the chances of it happening are low it'll never happen to you... but real life doesn't work that way. I'm sure the people out there who are victims never wanted or expected to be victims, they just weren't careful and didn't take precautions.
Yes, I understand that this outlook on life can perhaps be seen as paranoia. So be it. The way I see it though, when it's easy enough to reduce risk at no tangible cost to anybody, it's negligent not to.
I dunno, I think I'd rather call the police and embarrass myself when it turns to be a woodpecker or something knocking on the door than not call the police and get murdered. I mean someone knocking at your door in the dead of night who makes no communication attempts other than the knocking can't be up to any good. Anyone with good intentions is going to try to talk to you.Hagi said:Well I'm not saying you should throw open the door with your eyes closed and bare your chest for whatever blows may come.
But calling the police because someone's knocking on your door at an unusual time as a fair number of posters seem to be suggesting? That's a bit much right? Right?
Not really I'm just a paranoid person honestly, I've watched way too many horror movies to put any trust into strangers at night.Hagi said:I do find it a bit weird to see so many so scared, is it really that bad wherever you guys are from?
I don't know... I mean I personally don't go around talking to closed doors when I'm not sure there's anyone home. I just knock or ring the bell and wait. If nobody answers I'll knock/ring again most insistently and if that yields no result I'll leave.SlaveNumber23 said:I dunno, I think I'd rather call the police and embarrass myself when it turns to be a woodpecker or something knocking on the door than not call the police and get murdered. I mean someone knocking at your door in the dead of night who makes no communication attempts other than the knocking can't be up to any good. Anyone with good intentions is going to try to talk to you.Hagi said:Well I'm not saying you should throw open the door with your eyes closed and bare your chest for whatever blows may come.
But calling the police because someone's knocking on your door at an unusual time as a fair number of posters seem to be suggesting? That's a bit much right? Right?
Not really I'm just a paranoid person honestly, I've watched way too many horror movies to put any trust into strangers at night.Hagi said:I do find it a bit weird to see so many so scared, is it really that bad wherever you guys are from?
I'm not those posters.Hagi said:Well I'm not saying you should throw open the door with your eyes closed and bare your chest for whatever blows may come.
But calling the police because someone's knocking on your door at an unusual time as a fair number of posters seem to be suggesting? That's a bit much right? Right?
Well of course it isn't certain but I think its enough of a risk, or at least enough of a perceived risk to not give your stranger the benefit of the doubt. The thing about this scenario though is that whoever is knocking doesn't want to give up, you would think that if they needed help they would shout it out to you, right?Hagi said:I don't know... I mean I personally don't go around talking to closed doors when I'm not sure there's anyone home. I just knock or ring the bell and wait. If nobody answers I'll knock/ring again most insistently and if that yields no result I'll leave.
So I definitely disagree that it's certain said person is up to no good.
Not saying you're wrong to call the cops, if you absolutely feel that you need the police then it's basically their job to show up. Making people actually feel safe and secure is part of their package.
I just find it a bit curious that it's such a common reaction.
It happened to me once too, actually. In my case it was a repo man who went to the wrong house. He was apparently trying to repossess a car from my neighbors on the other side of the street. That was a fun night. He woke up the whole family with his pounding, although fortunately he was willing to recognize that his dumb ass had gone to the wrong house. He then proceeded to go do the same thing to the neighbors.Phasmal said:This happened to me once.
When we lived on a massive hill in the middle of nowhere, as well.
I was freaked out, but I went and had a look through the window (we had a window that let you see the front door) and it turned out just to be my mum's best friend's daughter who'd had a fight with her mum in the middle of the night and took a taxi to our house.
I dunno what I'd do if it happened here, probably pretend not to be in, or try and see who it is. I don't really know anyone round here though so I'd probably call the police if they kept at it.