A love problem

[Circusfreak]

So i'm 16 years old and i'm really in love with this cybergoth / lolita / otaku girl. Even though we go to the same school we hardly get to see each other. So as a direct result of this i have never found a good moment to ask her out ( aka a moment where none else is around etc) and the worst thing about it all is that if i dont do something in 29 days i'll never see her again because were going to diffrent schools and stuff.
Please somebody help me i don't know what to do. And NO i'm not gonna ask her over text or msn cuz thats just pathetic.

 

[Sleekgiant]

http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161-Relationship-problem-thread

BonsaiK can help.

Question, how well do you know her?Do you talk often?Is this just lust?

 

[Pimppeter2]

Bonsaik, I choose you!

Seriously, when will someone make the guy a bat symbol?

EDIT: As a testament to my boredom, I made one

Revel in my MS Paint skills!

 

[Hazy]

I want you to look at this:

Follow this advice.

If there's absolutely no other time you can get her without people around, find a place and time. Don't worry about whether she says no or not, you're going to different schools, remember?

 

[Yumi_and_Erea]

No offense, but you might be a little too late.

If you're really parting ways in one month, then it's going to be very hard to make a decent relationship in that short amount of time.
You can try to ask her out, but honestly I don't think this is going to work out, sorry dude.

Still, hope springs eternal.
If it works out, great. If it doesn't, at least you won't have to see her around anymore.

So give it a shot.

 

[Circusfreak]

http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161-Relationship-problem-thread

BonsaiK can help.

Question, how well do you know her?Do you talk often?Is this just lust?

i know her quiet well actually, we talk sometimes in school and on msn and facebook

 

[Burningsok]

I have a knack for helping people out. however relationships are not really my strong point. Never been in a strong relationship. Well... I take that back, I have been in a relationship, but it's a bit complicated and also a long story.

 

[Sleekgiant]

http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161-Relationship-problem-thread

BonsaiK can help.

Question, how well do you know her?Do you talk often?Is this just lust?

i know her quiet well actually, we talk sometimes in school and on msn and facebook

Well if you know her and feel comfortable around her, forget the surroundings, make it a private conversation. Just go up to her and ask if you can go for a walk. Just tell her you have feelings for her and want to test the waters to see if there is something there. If she says no tell her you respect her decision, if she says yes.....try not to do a celebratory dance

 

[Odinson426]

if you don't get a better chance and you're talking to her on msn just ask her then
it might be weird but at least it'll just be you and her talking

 

[King of the N00bs]

I do regret to be the Mercutio and Benvolio here but if you two are gonna go for different schools then you might want to find another fancy...if you can

However if you notice any travel patterns she tends to have ( and I can't believe I'm suggesting this but) track a suitable time and place for confrontation and asking outance...call me stalker but just consider it

 

[Flying Dagger]

Um ask her if she wants to go for a coffee sometime over MSN and then ask her out.

 

[maddawg IAJI]

So make time to ask her out. If you truly love this girl (Which don't get me wrong, is fine, I just don't believe you can decide if you truely love someone at such a young age) then that should be a minor Sacrifice.

If you are too busy for it, well, you made your own choice then. Which is more pathetic? Asking her out over Text and MSN? Or claiming you love them and then not bothering to make time for that person?

 

[The Bum]

I want you to look at this:

Follow this advice.

If there's absolutely no other time you can get her without people around, find a place and time. Don't worry about whether she says no or not, you're going to different schools, remember?

BEST ADVICE EVER!

 

[Hazy]

I want you to look at this:

Follow this advice.

If there's absolutely no other time you can get her without people around, find a place and time. Don't worry about whether she says no or not, you're going to different schools, remember?

BEST ADVICE EVER!

Remember, kids: Don't ever believe in yourself.
Believe in Courage Wolf, who believes in you.

 

[Johnnyallstar]

OBEY COURAGE WOLF. THAT IS AN ORDER.

 

[Doctor VonSexMachine]

I want you to look at this:

Follow this advice.

If there's absolutely no other time you can get her without people around, find a place and time. Don't worry about whether she says no or not, you're going to different schools, remember?

This. And also, you aren't 'really in love' with the girl you barely know. That's just your penis talking.

 

[BlumiereBleck]

Well if you talk to her often call her over it, or if you don't see her often then you're screwed.

 

[Instant K4rma]

I don't remember who it was that said this, but someone on the Escapist posted a fantastic quote from Wayne Gretzky: "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." Talk to her, ask her out. You might as well take the shot. What's the point in life if you just go through it not taking those shots?

 

[Hazy]

I want you to look at this:

Follow this advice.

If there's absolutely no other time you can get her without people around, find a place and time. Don't worry about whether she says no or not, you're going to different schools, remember?

This. And also, you aren't 'really in love' with the girl you barely know. That's just your penis talking.

Go with this advice as well. (SexMachine's, I mean)

Be sure that you really want to get involved with her before you go for it. She'll think you're just toying around with her if you suddenly call the quits two days later.

And trust me, don't ever screw with a woman's heart. They will never let it go, and they'll be hard-pressed to see you pay for it.[footnote]And because it's just a dick move. [/footnote]

Spoiler: This is a good indication that you've screwed up

 

[bassdrum]

I want you to look at this:

Follow this advice.

If there's absolutely no other time you can get her without people around, find a place and time. Don't worry about whether she says no or not, you're going to different schools, remember?

This. And also, you aren't 'really in love' with the girl you barely know. That's just your penis talking.

Go with this advice as well.

Be sure that you really want to get involved with her before you go for it. She'll think you're just toying around with her if you suddenly call the quits two days later.

And trust me, don't ever screw with a woman's heart. They will never let it go, and they'll be hard-pressed to see you pay for it.[footnote]And because it's a dick move. [/footnote]

Spoiler: This is a good indication that you've screwed up

However, women are apparently perfectly fine with fucking with your heart... it sucks.

OT: Give yourself a good old locker room speech, go in there, and do us proud. Besides, what have you got to lose? If it goes well, you earned yourself a girlfriend. If it goes neutrally, she may just treat you as a close friend (or, possibly, just get awkward, which falls under the purview of the next category). If it goes badly, she leaves in less than a month and you aren't left in a strained friendship.

Go! Now! Play Rick Astley songs outside her house--on second thought, don't do that last one. However, you NEED to do this.

Courage Wolf never lies.