Well, you don't want to get labelled a mangina/cuckold/SJW, do you? I guess we hafta...Thaluikhain said:So, are we supposed to ramble angrily against feminism or against trans rights here?
Well, you don't want to get labelled a mangina/cuckold/SJW, do you? I guess we hafta...Thaluikhain said:So, are we supposed to ramble angrily against feminism or against trans rights here?
balladbird said:Nah, it's a marketing tactic. cheaper cover prices mean more girls in the bar, which in turn attracts more guys paying the full cover charge. The reason the system has become so universal and persisted so long is because it works.Elijin said:Isnt this sort of discrimination essentially an apology?
"We're sorry you're going to be hit on a dozen douchebags while you try enjoy a nice night out, here's a cheaper door price."
I mean sure its more like 'We need to lower the price so women will find it more appealing to put up with people's bullshit' rather than the apology...but...yeah.
Businesses care more about their bottom line than gender politics.
As to the topic... meh. It's not my place to tell anyone what hill to die on.
Horner has a fact. He does not have a point. Ladies' Night is sexist, but they're approximately as sexist against women as they are against men, since the goal of such a thing is to attract lots of women as a selling point for the bar ("Hey guys! Pussy inside! Inquire within!"), which he doesn't even consider. If he had a genuine point about such pricing being a violation of the ERA, then the method of approach is to take the law to court, not to spout transphobic garbage about how he feels like a woman "in this moment" that buries any validity beneath a mountain-sized grudge he has against women.KissingSunlight said:Do you think this guy has a point or he is being an insensitive jerk?
Yeah pretty much. Guy ain't Rosa freaking Parks, just a troll in real life.Phasmal said:I'm really not interested in the opinions of someone who hates women.
What a cockhole.
I'm trans so I can say with quite a bit of authority that's not how being trans works in the real world. In support groups and close inter personal situations the claim might be enough, but in general practice if you claim to be trans, but aren't presenting as the sex opposite the one you were assigned at birth. If you just claim to be trans to get "special benefits of trans status", without doing anything else to show it, you're rightly going to get called out on that shit. Claiming to be trans when you're not trans is a transphobic tactic of invalidating trans identites after all. Also trans people don't switch pronouns, or expect to be treated as they wish, until they start transition and present as the gender they identify as at least part time. Further more unless that person is full time, they don't expect to be respected as the gender they identify as, unless they're presenting as the gender they identify as at the time.LysanderNemoinis said:Hey, if he says he's a woman then he's a woman. I thought that was the whole point. If it doesn't matter what your DNA says, what your biology says you are, or what you have lived your life as for decades, if you say you're suddenly a woman, you must be treated as such and anyone who says differently is transphobic, right? Besides, who are any of you to judge? You should all check your privilege.
Yeah basically, the assumptions in Lysander's posts are rooted in cissexism and transphobia... And really because these sorts of biases are always targeted at trans women, it's also transmisogyny.TheLaughingMagician said:Literally no one has claimed that's how gender dysphoria and transitioning worksLysanderNemoinis said:Hey, if he says he's a woman then he's a woman. I thought that was the whole point. If it doesn't matter what your DNA says, what your biology says you are, or what you have lived your life as for decades, if you say you're suddenly a woman, you must be treated as such and anyone who says differently is transphobic, right? Besides, who are any of you to judge? You should all check your privilege.
Edit: Apart from transphobic people who refuse to acknowledge trans people's identities.
Actually transgender legal protections are insanely difficult to abuse, while the people who abuse them do such as blatant false flag political move... There really isn't any incentive to abuse trans protections in the law. For instance trans bathroom access laws don't make peeping in a public restroom any less illegal, there are already people who peep int their own restrooms, and trans people are easy to identify in these situations. No trans person who hasn't transitioned is going to have the need to, or will, use trans protections, that means any trans person who needs to be verified is transitioning, or has transitioned. Which in turn means there is a medical and often legal record of the transition, which means proving transness is rather easy. Gender non-conforming people are outliers, but also fairly easy to identify when evaluated.sageoftruth said:All I can really take away from this is, transgender law is pretty complicated. Either we create a system for legally recognizing people as male or female, or we just shrug and go with a system that anyone can abuse.
Well, if that's the case then I think this thread is officially concluded. I don't see any practical argument to be had from this incident other than the structural integrity of transgender law. My only question is, how do you legally prove that someone was abusing the system?KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:Actually transgender legal protections are insanely difficult to abuse, while the people who abuse them do such as blatant false flag political move... There really isn't any incentive to abuse trans protections in the law. For instance trans bathroom access laws don't make peeping in a public restroom any less illegal, there are already people who peep int their own restrooms, and trans people are easy to identify in these situations. No trans person who hasn't transitioned is going to have the need to, or will, use trans protections, that means any trans person who needs to be verified is transitioning, or has transitioned. Which in turn means there is a medical and often legal record of the transition, which means proving transness is rather easy. Gender non-conforming people are outliers, but also fairly easy to identify when evaluated.sageoftruth said:All I can really take away from this is, transgender law is pretty complicated. Either we create a system for legally recognizing people as male or female, or we just shrug and go with a system that anyone can abuse.
Your idea is either throw the baby out with the bathwater in a way that hurts the most vulnerable in society, or anarchy... Which is unrealistic when there is a middle ground. That middle ground is to punish people who abuse the system, because they're not flipping hard to identify.
Members of the male, gay community might disagree with you on that injustice.CeeBod said:Seriously, he's crusading against the "injustices" of Ladies nights in bars and pool parties? As a single guy I love places that make an effort to attract cute girls in, because many bars that don't are complete sausage-fests! That's not an injustice, it's to everyone's benefit to reduce the sausage-fest ratios!
Well currently it's all false flag stuff, so you just point out that the abuser has done nothing to transition... As unfair as this will sound to my trans fellows on the forum, anyone who uses a trans protection, then breaks the law in that context, is also abusing the system. Luckily the vast majority of trans people are law abiding and use the protections properly. Just because a trans person can use the facilities that feel safest, or/and match the ones of their identity, doesn't make any illegal activity in those facilities more legal for them. Anyone who isn't trans who uses trans protections to abuse things like ladie's night... Well they haven't even tried to crossdress to make the point yet... Although attempting to abuse ladie's night isn't illegal, it's just a shitty thing to do. If said person filed a lawsuit because they were 'discriminated against', it'd be fairly easy to prove the case a frivolous abuse, by looking into their history.sageoftruth said:Well, if that's the case then I think this thread is officially concluded. I don't see any practical argument to be had from this incident other than the structural integrity of transgender law. My only question is, how do you legally prove that someone was abusing the system?KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:Actually transgender legal protections are insanely difficult to abuse, while the people who abuse them do such as blatant false flag political move... There really isn't any incentive to abuse trans protections in the law. For instance trans bathroom access laws don't make peeping in a public restroom any less illegal, there are already people who peep int their own restrooms, and trans people are easy to identify in these situations. No trans person who hasn't transitioned is going to have the need to, or will, use trans protections, that means any trans person who needs to be verified is transitioning, or has transitioned. Which in turn means there is a medical and often legal record of the transition, which means proving transness is rather easy. Gender non-conforming people are outliers, but also fairly easy to identify when evaluated.sageoftruth said:All I can really take away from this is, transgender law is pretty complicated. Either we create a system for legally recognizing people as male or female, or we just shrug and go with a system that anyone can abuse.
Your idea is either throw the baby out with the bathwater in a way that hurts the most vulnerable in society, or anarchy... Which is unrealistic when there is a middle ground. That middle ground is to punish people who abuse the system, because they're not flipping hard to identify.
Thanks for that. Looks like this guy's demonstration was pretty pointless then.KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:Well currently it's all false flag stuff, so you just point out that the abuser has done nothing to transition... As unfair as this will sound to my trans fellows on the forum, anyone who uses a trans protection, then breaks the law in that context, is also abusing the system. Luckily the vast majority of trans people are law abiding and use the protections properly. Just because a trans person can use the facilities that feel safest, or/and match the ones of their identity, doesn't make any illegal activity in those facilities more legal for them. Anyone who isn't trans who uses trans protections to abuse things like ladie's night... Well they haven't even tried to crossdress to make the point yet... Although attempting to abuse ladie's night isn't illegal, it's just a shitty thing to do. If said person filed a lawsuit because they were 'discriminated against', it'd be fairly easy to prove the case a frivolous abuse, by looking into their history.sageoftruth said:Well, if that's the case then I think this thread is officially concluded. I don't see any practical argument to be had from this incident other than the structural integrity of transgender law. My only question is, how do you legally prove that someone was abusing the system?KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:Actually transgender legal protections are insanely difficult to abuse, while the people who abuse them do such as blatant false flag political move... There really isn't any incentive to abuse trans protections in the law. For instance trans bathroom access laws don't make peeping in a public restroom any less illegal, there are already people who peep int their own restrooms, and trans people are easy to identify in these situations. No trans person who hasn't transitioned is going to have the need to, or will, use trans protections, that means any trans person who needs to be verified is transitioning, or has transitioned. Which in turn means there is a medical and often legal record of the transition, which means proving transness is rather easy. Gender non-conforming people are outliers, but also fairly easy to identify when evaluated.sageoftruth said:All I can really take away from this is, transgender law is pretty complicated. Either we create a system for legally recognizing people as male or female, or we just shrug and go with a system that anyone can abuse.
Your idea is either throw the baby out with the bathwater in a way that hurts the most vulnerable in society, or anarchy... Which is unrealistic when there is a middle ground. That middle ground is to punish people who abuse the system, because they're not flipping hard to identify.
Law is always complicated, but these things aren't that difficult to prove in court all considered.
That's a gross oversimplification of the situation.KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:Well considering how transgenderism is physically identifiable in the brain, by a person having physical neurological structures of the gender they identify as, not the sex they physically are.