A quick question about a possible relationship....
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My advice is rather blunt and straightforward.I say that you call her up,ask her on a date,and if she says yes you go on that date.Julianking93 said:
Then after about 30 minutes or so of that date,you ask her if she is interested in you,or if she's just using you.
It might not work.But it worth the shot.
Yeez D: You're overthinking this, she gave you her number, she talked to you, so what? That does not necessarily mean she's flirting with you, hell, just ring her up and say let's go hang out or grab a cofee or burn down a house or whatever, and see how things progress from there.
All in all, you need more data.
All in all, you need more data.
You'd wanna be carefull :SJulianking93 said:
But you'll know yourself what you want. But I will say, what harm in getting to know her?
Just do it! You're going to kick yourself if you pass up this opportunity. If it doesn't work out, you can always say at least I tried. On the other hand, you will always wonder what could have been. So take the plunge and hope the bungee cord doesn't drop you.
Just talk to her don't try to act any different. If the topic pops up. Talk to her about it. Just try not to act any different trust me. Man people are so nervous sometimes.
Sounds suspiciously like this to me. Sorry bud, but do you really want to get involved with someone who's willing to screw someone else (a relative of yours) over?Julianking93 said:
damn, girls can be confuzuling, but in my opinion, you should probably say yes, if she does like you, then your happy, and you get to screw with your cousin, and cause hes a stoner, that means you can throw a bag of dimes at him to distract him. your good, dude, its not a trap.
Yes, this does sound a little bit suspicious. However, I suggest giving it a go. Just don't allow yourself to get in too deep too quickly. Keep your wits about you and if it starts to seem like it's more of an elaborate plan to get back at your cousin, get the fuck out of there.
If a relationship doesn't kick off straight from the get-go, stay friendly with her. Be as much of a friend as you can without descending into the "friend zone".
If a relationship doesn't kick off straight from the get-go, stay friendly with her. Be as much of a friend as you can without descending into the "friend zone".
I'm philosophical with my answer. Some quote i read was like "Never regret anything that made you smile." SO go for it if it'll make you happy. Screw your cousin, if he's a dick like you say it's only bound to end in the end.
Dude thats really really evil... And I like it.Douk said:
Anyway this guy might be able to help.
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/profiles/view/BonsaiK
How deliciously evil.Douk said:
OT: Fuck it man, if he is the prick you make him out to be then go for it. The simplest answer is usually the correct one. That philosophy has worked for me for years.
Man listen, investigate! Call her up and find out her intentions, if they are good and you are cool with your cousin then let him know. You don't need drama creeping up on you. If your relationship with him sucks, talk her into breaking up with him and go in for the kill. Girls don't give their numbers to just anyone for no reason. She just wants a friend? Nah, she has girlfriends and her boyfriend for that.
Dude... every time I see that I keep thinking you are typing "pirate"...TheNumber1Zero said:
OT: But yeah, it does sound like she is trying to use you or something, but, then again, I'm paranoid and have the worst luck ever with girls...
I'm glad people careGrand_Arcana said:
Anyway, I just ignored her after she came back.
I knew it would just be the same thing as last time, so I didn't bother.
I don't know what happened to her after that though. She stopped texting and calling me after I told her to stop.
I hope she didn't kill herself or anything...