A quick question about a possible relationship....

[mezmerizer02]

If your cousin is a prick, screw him, it'll serve him right for being suck a dick. Nice guys need to finish first once ina while. he's just a cousin... barely related... fuck that guy.

 

[mightybozz]

Problems like this are hugely dependent on context, and you're the best judge of the situation. But it is obvious she's interested in you. Her motivations are a different matter.

Me, I'm inclined to trust people. Your best option is to go to a pub or something, have a drink and talk. And bring the conversation around to ask what it is she's doing and why. Be steady but make sure you achieve your goal and understand what is going on. And needless to say, don't sleep with her there and then unless it seems your cousin is definitely entirely to blame for whatever's going on.

 

[Burningsok]

Okay, I know this is another relationship advise thread, but I need advice.

So there's this girl I like who works at the theater near me. I go to movies every weekend (at least once a week) and I see her there almost every time. Whenever I see her, she smiles at me for a long time and will occasionally talk to me for a minute or two about whatever.

I never really thought anything of it. I didn't notice this as flirting or even taking a liking to me whatsoever. I just didn't notice it presumedly because I must be thick.

Well today when I went to a movie, she was asking me when was the last time I saw my cousin (turns out he works there too and they were friends). I said "I don't know, it's been a while"

Then she replied, "well, he's my boyfriend"

I was sort of dumb struck by this since this girl seems very sweet and cute while my cousin is a dick hole stoner who treats people like shit.

I didn't really say anything except for "Oh...uh okay that's cool"

But then she mumbled something really fast and I didn't catch it, then when I asked "excuse me?" she quickly stiffened up and said "nothing" and walked away. Since she was getting my order for a drink, she came back and when I was about to walk away, I asked again what she said.

Turns out, she asked "would it be weird if I gave you my number?"

So, said "No not at all" I got her number and said thank you, but I really have no clue what to do since that's never happened before.

Is she interested in me or does she just want to be friends? And why was she so quick to tell me she was dating my asshole cousin? Am I a total idiot for not seeing this sooner?

Please help.

Tread lightly/stay frosty my friend, don't rush into it, you've gotta wait till they officially break up. Just stay friends for a while, you cannot influence the outcome of their relationship. That way your step cousin can only blame himself for the break up... if it happens anyways.

 

[ModsDeleteThisAccountPlease]

Give it a shot. If you don't, you might regret it for a while. She seems interested in you.

 

[Dyp100]

Dude, she call her up and be like: Hey, what do ya want? (In a nice voice of course.)

Your not flirtious enough incase it's a trap, and your too kind to appear like ya being a jerk by saying what do ya want? (Or say what's up, something similiar.)

 

[MiracleOfSound]

Move on.

Sloppy seconds = ugh.

 

[nimibro]

maybe you can talk to your cousin about it? if not, just do nothing...

 

[pumuckl]

can i call a prejeduce against pot smokers here? dont understand the bad rep against us really... sumone smokes pot and there automaticley associated with being a lazy douchebag... racists

 

[Grand_Arcana]

can i call a prejeduce against pot smokers here? dont understand the bad rep against us really... sumone smokes pot and there automaticley associated with being a lazy douchebag... racists

I don't think it's about his pot smoking, as it is everything else his cousin does. He comes off as a rude douche-bag in general. I have friends who smoke pot (and I miss them), but it doesn't appeal to me. It's too expensive anyway.