Btw. Most people that are on the age of 12-14 and say "I've had sex,Lulz". Haven't.MassiveGeek said:
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Sex drive, to me, is just one of those primal urges that has stuck with us since the days of cave men. It's something that you can't fight and you should do what you can to satisfy it. If you don't try to fulfill that primal urge to screw, then you are going to drive yourself crazy. For me, my sex drive and my desire to have sex was something that was always lurking in my mind and kept me awake at night. I didn't lose my virginity until a year and three days ago and it wasn't until then that I was able to relieve the stress that my sex drive was causing me. Not to say that it has gone away, but it is not as demanding as it once was now that I have had actually had sex.
I usually regard my libido as riding high when I'm noticing I'm prone to involuntary sexual fantasy and erections. I might feel "pent up." However, these two things are the whole of my consciousness of it, no level of introspection can really determine how charged the libido is.
At the point where you're noticing some kind of uncomfortableness from your sex drive, most psychologists would recommend seeking release. If you've got a receptive girlfriend, that's fabulous, but prone to serious possible consequences. Masturbation gets the job done with minimal negative societal fallout, provided you conduct yourself discretely. Hint. [http://laurenoutloud.com/main/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/u_of_t_masturbating.jpg] Either way, after release, the libido will lower and you're free to move on with your life relatively free of mental distraction until it recharges.
How often will this happen for you? More when you're younger, but it's really tricky, because there's a definite difference in different people's libidos. Some can repress it without much consequence, others find that extremely uncomfortable. The important thing is to not let your libido push you into doing something stupid you'll regret. Just because you're mildly addled by the animal within doesn't mean you get a free pass not to use your brain.
At the point where you're noticing some kind of uncomfortableness from your sex drive, most psychologists would recommend seeking release. If you've got a receptive girlfriend, that's fabulous, but prone to serious possible consequences. Masturbation gets the job done with minimal negative societal fallout, provided you conduct yourself discretely. Hint. [http://laurenoutloud.com/main/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/u_of_t_masturbating.jpg] Either way, after release, the libido will lower and you're free to move on with your life relatively free of mental distraction until it recharges.
How often will this happen for you? More when you're younger, but it's really tricky, because there's a definite difference in different people's libidos. Some can repress it without much consequence, others find that extremely uncomfortable. The important thing is to not let your libido push you into doing something stupid you'll regret. Just because you're mildly addled by the animal within doesn't mean you get a free pass not to use your brain.
This practicly sometimes you can wake up being "in the mood" it sucks that I dont have a girlfriend.Drakmeire said:
It feels like a sharp stabbing pain in your chest. At least I think that's what it is.
I suppose it's sort of hard to describe. Like Hunger. You find it hard to put into words. You just know you really want a Bacon sandwich right now, and if someone else had a bacon sandwich nearby and you're really hungry then you just want to run over and eat it. Like that only with fewer Bacon Sandwiches and more Sex. Though if you're really lucky there may be post-coital sandwiches.
I suppose it's sort of hard to describe. Like Hunger. You find it hard to put into words. You just know you really want a Bacon sandwich right now, and if someone else had a bacon sandwich nearby and you're really hungry then you just want to run over and eat it. Like that only with fewer Bacon Sandwiches and more Sex. Though if you're really lucky there may be post-coital sandwiches.
Have you ever wanted to have sex or gotten the urge to masturbate? Aka, have you ever had a boner? If you answered yes to any of these then you can be sure as fuck you've got a sex drive.
It feels like a sharp stabbing pain in your chest. At least I think that's what it is.
I suppose it's sort of hard to describe. Like Hunger. You find it hard to put into words. You just know you really want a Bacon sandwich right now, and if someone else had a bacon sandwich nearby and you're really hungry then you just want to run over and eat it. Like that only with fewer Bacon Sandwiches and more Sex. Though if you're really lucky there may be post-coital sandwiches.
Unfortunately for me I too have yet to indulge in that sweetest of nature's pleasures, but there are times I feel that if I don't soon I may go mad, and others when I don't care at all. I don't know whether having sex may effect that, but I'd assume that since it's such a strong part of human nature that it wouldn't help much.
EDIT: It seems I double posted. Sorry folks. the first one didn't seem to go through and I've been having connection issues all night.
I suppose it's sort of hard to describe. Like Hunger. You find it hard to put into words. You just know you really want a Bacon sandwich right now, and if someone else had a bacon sandwich nearby and you're really hungry then you just want to run over and eat it. Like that only with fewer Bacon Sandwiches and more Sex. Though if you're really lucky there may be post-coital sandwiches.
Unfortunately for me I too have yet to indulge in that sweetest of nature's pleasures, but there are times I feel that if I don't soon I may go mad, and others when I don't care at all. I don't know whether having sex may effect that, but I'd assume that since it's such a strong part of human nature that it wouldn't help much.
EDIT: It seems I double posted. Sorry folks. the first one didn't seem to go through and I've been having connection issues all night.
Are people purposefully not discussing masterbation here for a reason? Long before I ever had sex with a girl, I still had urges to want to have sex, or at least attempt to, with women or girls I foudn attractive. Masterbation was the way I coped with such wanting going un-full filled.
Now I don't mean you need to be worried if you aren't havign the 'urges' for any of this. Everyone is very different. It ties in with puberty and hormones, and things you simply can't control without severe medical intervention as much as it does with your mental state of mind or 'subjective' view of sex. If some of your friends are walkign aroudn with constant hard-ons, that is normal. I have friends now who are in their twenties who are not very sexually active, nor does it bother them.
As you nailed it on the head in the first post, everyone is different. But to not just leave it there, sex drive is the need for sexual release. This can be with a partner, or on your own. Unless, of course, due to external social factors such as religion you are forbidden to masterbate.
Now I don't mean you need to be worried if you aren't havign the 'urges' for any of this. Everyone is very different. It ties in with puberty and hormones, and things you simply can't control without severe medical intervention as much as it does with your mental state of mind or 'subjective' view of sex. If some of your friends are walkign aroudn with constant hard-ons, that is normal. I have friends now who are in their twenties who are not very sexually active, nor does it bother them.
As you nailed it on the head in the first post, everyone is different. But to not just leave it there, sex drive is the need for sexual release. This can be with a partner, or on your own. Unless, of course, due to external social factors such as religion you are forbidden to masterbate.
Oh please! You flatter me.Zeithri said:A MISERABLE LITTLE PILE OF SECRETS!The Stonker said:
BUT enough talk! Have at you!
I'm simply a hollow shell filled with stories and poetry.
I agree with everybody who's said your overanalyzing OP, a sex drive is just a natural longing for sexual encounters and it starts at different ages for different people. For me it was about 3 years ago when I was 12.
There is no real understanding it, whatever gives you a wood/boner/has you pitching a tent/ long list of boner jokes ect ect.
Whatever you are attracted to, and maybe your body has flipped the switch yet or something. I don't know what the fuck do I look like a doctor?!?
The best advice I can give you is the next time you get your hard on in a private setting start tugging the worm, jiggling the keys, giving yourself the low five, masturbation jokes ect ect.
Oh and do it gently, don't want to be tearing it off now do you?
Whatever you are attracted to, and maybe your body has flipped the switch yet or something. I don't know what the fuck do I look like a doctor?!?
The best advice I can give you is the next time you get your hard on in a private setting start tugging the worm, jiggling the keys, giving yourself the low five, masturbation jokes ect ect.
Oh and do it gently, don't want to be tearing it off now do you?
Well, I'm 18, still a virgin, all my friends lost theirs at around 14 to 16.
HOWEVER, my girlfriend and I believe that we should wait a while (she's only 16, so she wants to be an 'adult' for when it happens) and I personally have a physical disability so the notion of sex scares me because I'm afraid I won't be able to 'put out' properly for her...so being a virgin at 16 is still cool, just so you know.
...I believe I'm off topic.
To answer your query, a sex drive is when you see someone and have sexual thoughts about them, being it through physical beauty, personality, whether they're a guy or girl. Simply: Anything that makes you want to have sex ergo sex drive. When you masturbate? Sex Drive, when you look at porn or people in their swimmers at the pool and your erection wants to explode out your pants like a Hitler salute? Sex Drive.
HOWEVER, my girlfriend and I believe that we should wait a while (she's only 16, so she wants to be an 'adult' for when it happens) and I personally have a physical disability so the notion of sex scares me because I'm afraid I won't be able to 'put out' properly for her...so being a virgin at 16 is still cool, just so you know.
...I believe I'm off topic.
To answer your query, a sex drive is when you see someone and have sexual thoughts about them, being it through physical beauty, personality, whether they're a guy or girl. Simply: Anything that makes you want to have sex ergo sex drive. When you masturbate? Sex Drive, when you look at porn or people in their swimmers at the pool and your erection wants to explode out your pants like a Hitler salute? Sex Drive.
I don't think I've ever had one myself. At least, I've never had anything beyond the simple stuff. I've just never been interested in stuff of that nature. I'm fine with keeping the few social relationships I have simple.
You sir, have made my day!Zeithri said:A MISERABLE LITTLE PILE OF SECRETS!The Stonker said:
BUT enough talk! Have at you!
But it is night?Chefodeath said:You sir, have made my day!Zeithri said:A MISERABLE LITTLE PILE OF SECRETS!The Stonker said:
BUT enough talk! Have at you!
And I hope it will be bright!
For the everlasting fright.
Makes me delight.