Advice thread/ Story thread.

[Snowalker]

Pretty vague title, I know, So heres the question. Have you ever had a situation when dealing with the opposite sex where you had no idea what they were trying to do? If so, state your story.


I'll start with mine, I asked this girl out a few days ago, she said yes. I was like "awesome" but then she said she had to work that weekend, and I couldn't call or text her cause she's grounded from her phone. And since the class we were in had just ended we were short on time, she said we could try and work something out. Ok, so I didn't think too much about it till today, I had class with her again, as class ended, I tried talking to her and she still seemed interested, and explained the situation, however when I talked about actually going on a date, you know, like when for starters, she got real short. So, at the moment, I have no clue whether she actually likes me, or if shes just fucking with me. I know most people here will say the latter, but I have hope.

So, I'd like to hear your tales.

P.S. This can also function as a Advice theard, I know we have one, but no seems to be using it anymore, so I figured I would try starting a fresh one.

 

[TheNamlessGuy]

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[Sanguinius- The Angel]

Sounds to me like she's fucking with you. Girls do that, bro. I've had similar things happen, but I don't really feel like going into detail.

Women are deceitful creatures. I caution you, young one.

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

Oh god yes, my girlfriend causes me to have these situations every day O_O

 

[Daystar Clarion]

Ah, young padawan, women are mysterious creatures, until you are a true master like myself you will become confused and disorientated by the fairer sex... Like I still am.

 

[soapyshooter]

i would just ask her man. Ask her if she seriously would like to go out on a date. Tell her if she doesn't want to, to just tell you because you dont like having a carrot hung out in front of you with a stick,

 

[Jamienra]

Yeah I know what you are talking about. I dated this girl for like one week and I think she only did it because im so nervous when i talk to girls. Its like uncontrollable i go all red and i talk quiet and dont say much.
But we went on a date and i walked her home, about 2 mile away from house, in the freezing cold.
then she dumped me saying we didnt talk enough.
I said we could go out more and she said no. Confused the hell outta me.

 

[Snowalker]

Was she your friend before you asked her out? Maybe she doesn;t want that kind of a relationship, and doesn't want to hurt your feelings but at the same time has no interest in dating.

Kinda, I mean, we've talked, but not really friends pre se. I so no reason she would think that way, I was informed awhile back by one of her friends that she liked me. Its one of the reasons I asked.

 

[Gladion]

Yeah I know what you mean - we had this party with our colleagues and one of the nicer girls danced with me. Well, she was practically pressing her butt against my crotch, but when we were back sitting down and talking, she was more like the normal friend we were all the time. Nothing came out of that, but that stuff repeated itself that evening. Weird.

Anyways, one thing first: you should change the title. I just entered here out of curiosity's sake.
So, I'd consider she's shitting herself with fear of a real relationship, but I don't know. People act so differently.

 

[CrashBang]

Sounds like she's messing with you or, more likely, she's really coy. Is she the shy type? If so that's probably the case.
I have a more fucked up "wtf, woman?!" story, which goes thus...
My ex-gf and I were having massive arguments and generally weren't getting along well for about 2 weeks, this being about 7 months into the relationship, so she suggests we go on a week-long break while she's on holiday in Newquay. During that week I tried calling and texting her and she just kept hanging up or texting back harsh/rude comments so I was fairly sure she now hated me and we were breaking up. When she got back, however, she revealed to me 2 presents she had bought me, one being a t-shirt and the other a small coin thing engraved with "I love you" as if she was just trying to throw me off to make the gifts a big surprise. I, to this day, ask myself "WHAT. THE. FUCK?!"

 

[Benjeezy]

A few girls I knew did this type of thing.

And because I am a stupid, stupid person, I let myself get played.

I am weak...

 

[keybird]

Oh god yes, my girlfriend causes me to have these situations every day O_O

I'm happy, I'm sad, I'm mad at you but you don't know why

THEN FUCKING TELL ME

 

[historybuff]

Sounds to me like she's fucking with you. Girls do that, bro. I've had similar things happen, but I don't really feel like going into detail.

Women are deceitful creatures. I caution you, young one.

Guys do the same thing.

I asked a guy out because I don't like to pussy around wondering if he will ask me. And he said sure, and then he did just what that girl is doing to you. He pussied around, made up on the spot excuses and in the end--I said, "Forget it." Because it's so not worth it to me. A guy who can't be straight-forward is just as frustrating as a girl who can't be straight-forward.

 

[Stoic raptor]

No, I have not have these things happen to me.

Unfortunatly

 

[Sanguinius- The Angel]

Sounds to me like she's fucking with you. Girls do that, bro. I've had similar things happen, but I don't really feel like going into detail.

Women are deceitful creatures. I caution you, young one.

Guys do the same thing.

I asked a guy out because I don't like to pussy around wondering if he will ask me. And he said sure, and then he did just what that girl is doing to you. He pussied around, made up on the spot excuses and in the end--I said, "Forget it." Because it's so not worth it to me. A guy who can't be straight-forward is just as frustrating as a girl who can't be straight-forward.

Amen, madam, amen.

 

[Good morning blues]

She doesn't want to date you and also doesn't want to hurt your feelings. That's all there is to it.

 

[The Anhk24]

Was she your friend before you asked her out? Maybe she doesn;t want that kind of a relationship, and doesn't want to hurt your feelings but at the same time has no interest in dating.

Kinda, I mean, we've talked, but not really friends pre se. I so no reason she would think that way, I was informed awhile back by one of her friends that she liked me. Its one of the reasons I asked.

Dude I've been to the same place....It's probably better though that you werent as close as me and my ex...when you're too close it becomes awkward man....I would say still try to go out on a date, maybe she is just shy

 

[The Anhk24]

She doesn't want to date you and also doesn't want to hurt your feelings. That's all there is to it.

This also sounds very true

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

Oh god yes, my girlfriend causes me to have these situations every day O_O

I'm happy, I'm sad, I'm mad at you but you don't know why

THEN FUCKING TELL ME

I know right, they're masters of emotional camouflage.

 

[Snowalker]

You know, don't get me wrong, I thank you guys for the advice and all, but seriously, I was kinda hoping some other people had stuff to say aswell.