Am I crazy for this?

[KaiRai]

Title says it all. Well, no it doesn't, but I will explain.

Basically, things with me and my girlfriend have gotten pretty serious. To the point where we've talked about moving in together after uni. We've been together around 2 years now, and we both seem pretty comfortable with it, despite the fact we're both still pretty young.

I dunno, it's all go for me, and I have friends moving in together etc, but am I crazy for being ok with this?

 

[KaiRai]

I'm sorry, I fail to see the part where it would be crazy.



The reason you're asking is because you're not ok with it.
If you are ok with it, you're like a child with a new toy and want to show it off to every single person you can.

Well. I am and I'm not. I am because we're both pretty clear set on what we want to do. But it dawned on me earlier that essentially, we are both pretty young, and now I'm wondering if we're both taking it seriously. I'm in conflicting minds about it. Just wondering if others have been in the same boat and how it panned out etc. Probably should have made that clear actually....

 

[Nouw]

Seems pretty normal to me. 2 years, moving in. Normal, normal and normal.

 

[The Man With the Soap]

I'm sorry, I fail to see the part where it would be crazy.



The reason you're asking is because you're not ok with it.
If you are ok with it, you're like a child with a new toy and want to show it off to every single person you can.

This made me chuckle.

Anyway, if you are both fine with it, then why the hell do you need approval from random people on the internet?

 

[Sassafrass]

I don't think you're crazy.
How young is too young anyway, in your eyes?

 

[Hotshots]

I say go for it man, I moved in with my wife (then girlfriend) WAY back in 98 and since then I've never been happier. Sure there's some downs but believe me, you're going to want to spend every minute with her...At the sacrifice of some cupboard space.

 

[MONSTERheart]

PROTIP: Studies show that couples that move in together are more likely to be divorce at some point later (if they marry).

If you are planning on going "all the way" with her, I'd keep that in mind.

http://www.rayfowler.org/2008/04/18/statistics-on-living-together-before-marriage/

Yeah...

It's your call, bro.

 

[twcblaze]

yes, you are crazy for asking the internet for dating advice.

but nah, really, seems fine to me.

 

[Dango]

I don't see anything crazy about it, it sounds perfectly normal. But I'm only 15, so I guess my opinion doesn't matter much.

 

[Paksenarrion]

Break it off immediately! The next thing you know, she'll want you to marry her! Think of your freedom! You've only been together for 2 years! That's like, 2% of your life! There's plenty of fish in the sea! You have your whole life ahead of you! Bros before Homes!

 

[oreopizza47]

Asking the internet for relationship advice is not the first choice of sane people. Of course, sanity is overrated anyways.

OT: If you both feel likeminded about moving in, and you have strong feelings for each other (both obviously true if you've been together for two years), then I don't see why it would be a bad idea. Of course, what do I know? I've had a whopping one relationship that lasted only a few months without going anywhere, mostly due to my inaction and subsequent overaction. (I don't think overaction is a word, but it fits the description of what happened)

 

[TheYellowCellPhone]

You're in uni...

Second year...

And are moving in with someone...

YOU ARE SO- I fail to see the crazy part, it happens all the time.

 

[KaiRai]

Thanks for all this guys I guess it was just last minute jitters kind of thing. Panic over! Just the nerves!

Big commitment thing. I guess we all go through them?

 

[MikailCaboose]

No. How is it being crazy? You both love each other, and so far for two years you've been going strong (I'm guessing). That's more than I can speak for, that's for sure.
There's nothing crazy at all about the matter.

 

[Skorpyo]

Not crazy, but I would beware of moving in together.

Many relationships don't last if the persons live together before making a commitment.

 

[The Procrastinated End]

If you need to ask a forum about it then your not completely okay with it it.

 

[maddawg IAJI]

Ummm, I don't see the crazy part at all. Most couples move in together after a long period of time and you don't really know the person you're with until you do just that. If you believe that your relationship may lead to marriage, this is something of an important thing to go through.

So no, you're not crazy. At little quick on the idea, maybe, but not crazy.

 

[Requx]

I'd say move out try some more people out and maybe in a few years after all your education youlle get back together...happens a lot.

 

[Sightless Wisdom]

This is not the kind of thing you should ask an internet forum for advice on. You need to make your own decisions.

 

[W8NKA]

What ever you think is right at the time